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 No.234379

If you lost a loved one to suicide, would you want to know why they did it?

What if the reason that he did that was that he was secretly a horrible rotten person? Would it give you comfort or would you rather keep your memory of them as pure as possible?

For example, if your kid fucked people up economically, and he couldn't live with what he's done, would you want them to tell you that in a suicide letter? Would it give you some comfort in knowing a piece of shit has lost his life? Would you get some sense of closure from knowing his reasoning?
Thanks in advance to anyone who answers, this is important to me.

 No.234385

Nothing you write is going to "make up" for your mom and dad losing a child, or your siblings losing a brother, or your friends losing a friend.

Sorry dude. Suicide isn't the easy way out - for anyone. If you really love these people, I'd focus less on what to say in a note and more on finding a way to keep living. Economic disaster is survivable. If you really need to, just panhandle for a while; I hear you can make great cash doing that, and it would give you time to find a better path forward. Certainly you're not alone right now - people are hard-up and desperate.

If you have to, declare bankruptcy and start with a clean slate. If you still have your health, you're wealthier than a lot of people.

Good luck, rooting for you.

 No.234386

They would probably not care

 No.234387

>>234385
I appreciate your answer but I'm not sure you understood the scenario, my economic situation is fine, but in my example I meant what is that I myself destroyed another person's livelihood and drove them and their family into debilitating debt (just a hypothetical, what I truly did might be way worse depends on perspective).
I have sinned gravely, so I have a good reason to die. It's not easy at all, my life otherwise is actually pretty comfortable.(can't share my reasons so please don't ask,thanks).

 No.234405

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>>234379
Only suicide note that matters to people is your manifesto explaining why you had to get a highscore.

 No.234411

>>234387
If you really harmed these people to such an extent, I'd say you have a far greater duty to help them in any way you can. Killing yourself would only harm more people, and you'd be neglecting your duty to the people you victimized.

If you actually feel guilt and remorse, you'll start taking positive steps to help them. If all you feel is shame and an indulgent desire for self-flagellation, then you'll continue obsessing over the need to "punish" yourself, which is ultimately a form of narcissism too many people share.

The righteous seek to repair or limit the problems they have created. The morally decrepit use those problems as an excuse to create more. Suicide is just creating more, doubling-down on your original mistake.

 No.234426

>>234405
Feds pls

 No.234427

>>234411
I agree with this wizard.

 No.236297

>>234385
why is this reddit normie piece of shit still not banned? fuckin mods are trash!

 No.236298

>>234411
no matter what lies and propaganda bullshit you say i am immune to it.
fuck you. at least what comforts me is knowing you're gonna suffer long in this hell for your slave masters.

 No.236322

>>234379
This thread is trash. OP just tell us what you did already for fucks sake and maybe we can work something out.

 No.236323

>>234379
There is no way in hell I believe you'll kill yourself out of remorse. That only happens in movies. Stop pretending.

 No.236363

am i schizophrenic or did we have this exact same thread a year ago? the first reply is also the same.

 No.236365

>>234385
Useless boomer tier advice, the economy isnt booming anymore like 1979 when you graduated and met your wife, moreover we are about to enter a recession.
Killing yourself over economic failure is completely legitemate.

 No.236366

I don't really have any loved ones, but if someone I knew committed suicide I would be interested to know why, simply because suicide is something interesting and out of the norm. If something interesting happens, people naturally want to know details.

With that said, I think guilt over some scam or something doesn't seem like a very good reason for suicide. I wouldn't judge you for doing something unethical, but I would judge you for killing yourself for such a reason.

 No.236368

>>234379
No, it would not give any comfort.

There is nothing they can say in a letter that could avoid the pain and chaos they would leave for me.

 No.236371

>>236363
I havent come to wizchan for like a year. My first impression is 'wtf all the same threads are still repeating'

 No.236374

>>234385
Suicide is definitely the answer to certain circumstances. Why do you normgroids never comment on the videos of the twin towers about how the people who jumped were cowards or losers who should have stayed alive because "suicide isn't the easy way out - for anyone".

 No.236407

>>236374
This. Also, people don't have suicidal thoughts out of the blue, there are reasons for it. But to even consider that people who have suicidal thoughts have reasons to actually do the thing is too much to normalfags. It disrupts their teletubbieland fantasy world of beauty and optimism, where everyone can and should get better.

 No.236417

>>236371
Wizchan is depth-first as opposed to breadth-first.

 No.236418

The suicide note is their choice. I will not lose sleep if they want me to know or not. It's not my life. I am generally against strong sad or pitiful emotions anyways. I assume men do not want to be pitied but can still express sadness. That picture disgusts me. It reeks of self pity and feels emotional manipulation. It's the opposite of a goodbye. It's like a young succubus made the note. This note was made by a man who killed 8 people. I do now think it's emotional manipulation.

 No.236438

>>236418
"I dont blame one of you for disowning me, I just cant be a burden to you and my friends any longer"
The rest you cant even read, and they say my handwriting is bad. You are right, obvious emotional terror by some low functioning antisocial moron who his family and "friends" are better of without.
A mans suicide note should be short and on point, giving a clear explaination of why he did it if there is no obvious reason like illness or debts, so his close ones get some closure and arent left in the dark to ask themselves why over and over again. However, you could also argue that a man doesnt kill himself over abstruse emotions.

 No.237238

>>236365
First worlders thinking them getting 10% poorer is the end of the world and they might as well off themselves. Oh i can't tolerate this existence anymore, i have food and shelter but i can't buy the new whateverthefuckconsumerismmademethinkisimportantname thing, better to die than to live in this hell!

 No.237306

>>234379

i'd like them to at least make it readable retard



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