I mean, I'm at least partially to blame for my wizardhood. I have little to no interest in normal society (outside of the consumption of mass media). Nor do I have any desire to fit into it. Partly due to my family, partly due to my interactions with non-family, partly due to my personality (which ties into both). I've never been to a shrink, because they'd get me to pay them to tell me "go outside" tier advice or try to sell me happy pills.
As unhealthy as it is, treating our lives like absurdist dark comedy is probably the best way to deal with it. Or, at least, it is for me.