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 No.165864[View All]

Is it possible overcome your sex drive? I'm 32 years old and I just can't seem to stop thinking about succubi all the time. I understand the pointlessness of erotica but I really can't help it.

I've come a long way to acknowledge the fact that due to my severe schizoid personality disorder I will never have a romantic relationship with a female ever. That thought wouldn't be so problematic if my sexual instinct wouldn't hinder me to live in peace and comfort. I probably spend 2 to 3 hours on workdays looking at erotica - on weekends it's possibly 4 to 5 hours a day. I understand it's a lot and I hate myself for every minute of it. It's absolutely sickening me.

I tried Nofap and lasted for 3 days but ultimately my mind collapsed under the pressure. I rather realized that Nofap is just a meme that may work for normiefags who have already been engaged in sexual relationships before and had the chance to release themselves but not really with a person who's been sex depraved for his entire life.

Any thoughts or methods on suppressing your sex drive? Preferably without the use of drugs and medicine.
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 No.172058

>>172037
Thanks wiz, best post here by far!
>Avoid any kind of sexy thoughts or media whether explicit or just suggestive/cutsie. No more erotica literature, pron, pin ups, furry, ecchi, moe anime, sexy videogames, music, etc. Avoid suggestive media as well like asmr, instagram, sexual movies, magazines and tv shows.
Sounds like you know a lot about the lewd arts lol(i), a cultured individual no less.

This is what the anti-NoFappers don't get, we are trying to stop cranking our genitals but it is a redundant activity.

It is not like shitting or pissing in jugs, it is something to overcome, something to master your hold of, so it doesn't have a hold of you.
LETS ASCEND OUR SUFFERING THROUGH SELF CONTROL!!

 No.172070

>>172057
>>172058
Oh ok, I wish you luck in your 'self control' so you boys can finally get your succubi you so desperately want. The pent up feeling in your bollocks is going to give you newfound courage I'm sure!

 No.172071

>>172057
The true shape of self control in regards to indulgence has always existed in moderation. The extremes on both ends are forms of obsession.
Obsessions aren't necessarily bad, as negative as the word makes it seem. But an obsession definitely isn't an expression of self control.

 No.172075

>>172070
Don't you talk about my bollocks like that!
We are disregarding succubi, can you not read clearly? No doubt from your hourly crank sessions
We will be the wizards you are too weak to become
Remember me next time to feel the urge to feel a simulated hand-vagina experience, you are to true succubus wisher!

 No.172106

>>172075
>i'm the truwiz!
No.
>we are disregarding succubi!
You are amplifying sexual desire for succubi through semen retention.
>remember me while masturbating!
No.
….
Remember what a fool you are when you have to clean the jism from yet another one of your nocturnal emissions.

 No.172122

>>172058
You're welcome, best of luck in your anti libido journey. Its like climbing a big mountain. In the beginning it is difficult but once you make to the top(libido and desires are no more) it is easy to climb down and enjoy life without horniness.
>>172106
The point of this is to rid yourself of the desire and urges to begin with. It has nothing to do with "amplifying" desires. Once you realize that you dont need it you just have to become accustomed to not thinking sexual thoughts or wanking. Also I never had nocturnal emissions during the time I abstained from masturbation and pornographic media which was a little over 7 months. Cope harder throttle jockey, go be a crab somewhere else.

 No.172146

>>172122
>The point of this is to rid yourself of the desire and urges to begin with.
Woah, nice flat out lie. Just take a gander at the thread, those who have tried to follow the nofap lifestyle all had bouts of uncontrollable horniness. Try again.

>It has nothing to do with "amplifying" desires.

False. Straight from the nofap forum (which is also littered with crabs/r9k types such as yourself):

"NoFap is not a sex-negative website. In fact, we believe that quitting porn is one of the most sex-positive choices a person can make. NoFap doesn’t argue that individuals should abstain from sex or masturbation altogether for the rest of their lives, nor do we argue that individuals should “save themselves for marriage.” We might recommend that our users abstain from sex for the limited duration of their reboot. However, we ultimately want people to enjoy sex! We argue that heavy porn use makes real sex less enjoyable by desensitizing the brain’s reward system, which has consequences on sexual performance and intimacy. Most users return to sex soon after their reboots only to report vastly improved sex lives.

>Once you realize that you dont need it you just have to become accustomed to not thinking sexual thoughts or wanking.

Except that is never the case, everybody is bound to blow, either through wet dreams or through manual stimulation. It doesn't matter how it happens,the point being it will happen.

>Also I never had nocturnal emissions during the time I abstained from masturbation and pornographic media which was a little over 7 months.

Congratulation, you are the minority or you're just flat out lying. Tell me about those benefits though bruh, did you lift your metal set a little heavier than usual bruh? Good JOB BRUH!

>I SWEAR I'M TRUWIZ U JUST COPING!

Nope, still not buying it my crabby friend.

 No.172159

>>172146
word salad

 No.172160

>>172159
The comeback of a lifetime

 No.172162

>>172160
hardly

 No.173158

>>165864
It's actually really simple and easy, just don't do it. Just don't masturbate or look at pornography

 No.173159

>>172146
>>172146
You and only you control your actions. Having bouts of uncontrollable horniness doesn't mean your act of PMO is uncontrollable, it's controllable by you.

 No.173160

>>172071
There is no such thing as moderation with masturbation or pornography. You either really not do it at all or you do it to excess, you do not deserve sex in any form unless another person consents to physically have sex with you, anything else is biologically not supposed to happen and therefore unhealthy. You deserve your sexual frustration and are better off being miserable from not masturbating or looking at porn then if you do masturbate or look at porn which ultimately carries more misery and Ill health no matter how much happiness, release and pleasure it also provides. You are not entitled to sex motherfucker, even from your own hand, no one is

 No.173162

just rub one out when youre horny, and dont fixate on it when youre not.
its not a big deal lmao

 No.173164

>>173160
Misery comes from PMO.
There is no misery from abstaining for on PMO just discomfort and a lack of pleasure

 No.173169

>>173162
And you wonder why your life sucks and you're here. It is a big deal, your body can't tell the difference between jerkimg off and getting laid but your mind knows, obviously. Reproducing is your only purpose and you're receiving your body into thinking you've acheive it when in reality your life is as far from acheiving it as possible. You may aswell be sitting in a sewer and shooting up heroin

 No.173170

>>173169
*Deceiving your body

 No.173174

>>173169
How much of a coomer do you have to be to care this much lol

 No.173175

>>173174
Please don't bring the "coom" word here.

 No.173177

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>>173169
>Reproducing is your only purpose

Then how do Buddhist monks cope?

 No.173186

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 No.173187

>>173186
No i am asking if breeding is the only purpose to life, then how do millions of people all over the world not breed and still remain balanced and healthy.

 No.173192

>>173187
Those people still have sex. Almost everyone on earth either has kids or has sex. Most people who never procreated simply died before they got the chance. We are a vast minority.

 No.173196

>>173177
Buddhism as is today is corrupted to the core, they're all for money, have sex frequently, have kids, drive expensive cars, eat meat; it has long been being in the era of 末法 eg the end of this religion.

 No.173198

>>173196
Also in the old days they might have been gay like those in christian which deserved severe punishment both in law and society, and preserving one's life is more important so you know.

 No.173209

>>165864
this pic reminded me of that

 No.175492

Glad I found this thread because there is some very good advice here to get me through 2021 with less fapping.

 No.175495

>>166379
I can vouch for this. Ever since becoming mainly vegan my urge to masturbate has greatly diminished, and whenever I eat meat or dairy again, it flares right up. It hasn't solved my addiction to masturbation but it has really helped to curb down on it.

 No.175511

>>175495
Strange since vegan vloggers often brag about how removing animal products from their life somehow boosted their sex life and performance.

 No.175512

>>175511
self suggestion in both cases

 No.175513

Learn C++. It will keep you off from jerking off.

 No.175514

I'll be 34 in a few weeks. My sex drive is still there but my penis doesn't work as well as it used to. In my 20s my dick stayed rock hard during a masturbation session but now it switches from hard to soft.

I dunno how this information is supposed to help you, but yeah, its out there.

 No.175690

according to plato the happy man uses his reason to reign in his passions, while the man who gives into temptation is made a slave to his desires and surrenders his control over his own life

im a red blooded 18 year old in the confidence of his youth with ocd and i used to be obsessed with huge breasts after falling down the porn rabbit hole but i am slowly regaining control over my life by realizing that i was made a slave.

 No.175694

enter jhana.

On a meditation forum, someone said that you can't really expect someone to give up physical sensuality without them finding a better source of pleasure.

that better source, supposedly, is jhana

 No.175697

>>165864
32 years old is still not that much, maybe it will not work for you. But you can try it. It will work for sure when you get older, though.
Sport, I mean really physical demanding and exhausting training where you create a lot of muscle micro tear. The body will be forced to create and use the most even all of the testosterone to repair the damaged tissues and make them stronger so they can get adapted for greater physical demanding activities. Although at the beginning the excessive testosterone may even make your sex drive even higher. Just keep on training and it will be used for body repairing and tissue development.

The other method involves diet and less to no exercise. Veganism was developed and created in monasteries with that simple goal in mind , to help monks in reducing their sex drive. Without vitamin A , retinol , found only in animal foods the body can not start spermoneogenesis , creating of new vital sperm cells. However retinol along with b12 is vital for health in general. So you must be very cautious.

 No.176467

I had my testicles removed 3 years ago. When the testosterone is gone, so is desire. You can have them replaced by medical grade silicon balls or whatever your doctors offer to men who lose a nut in an accident. This way it doesn't feel weird in the shower.

 No.176469


 No.176478

>>176469
sexual desire comes from testosterone
testosterone is produced by the balls
remove balls and there will be nothing in your body producing testosterone
after a while the testosterone will vanish from your body, that also means that your sexual desire will be gone too
washing your pp without your balls might feel weird, so ask the doctor to put artificial balls where the testicles were

 No.176479

>>176469
>2021
>still haven't got his balls removed
fucking amateurs everywhere

 No.176480

>>176479
sex drive is not a problem for a wizard with a celibacy insurance.

 No.176482

>>176467
I'd do that but I don't want to sound like an Eunuch

 No.176567

>>176482
Don't do that. The guy you're replying to is a larping faggot.Castration wouldn't remove your sex drive, sex drive comes from the brain so castration would only further fuck up your life and induce depression due to lack of testosterone.

 No.176571

>>176479
I want as few people as possible touching my genitals.

 No.176576

>>176478
Dude, castration does not just remove your sex drive. It makes you weak, tired, and sickly. In theory, I could see a Buddhist-type who is completely resigned in life making himself a eunuch without regret; but, most will be better off just masturbating and going on with their life.

Testosterone is useful for staying optimistic, concentrating on hobbies and not becoming depressed due to bad circumstances, etc.

 No.176605

If you malnourish yourself it will decrease/disappear because the body will always prioritize survival over reproduction. For that I recommend cutting out as many animal products as possible. Veganism would be optimal for this I suppose. Keep in mind that this is the complete opposite of healthy and you will probably get debilitating diseases in the long term, including rotten teeth and severe digestive problems from what I have heard.

 No.176606

>>166017
serious question, would a sex doll general here on wizchan be a good idea?

 No.176609


 No.176985

>>165876
Note the covert aspects of SPD:
- secret voyeuristic interests
- vulnerable to erotomania
- tendency towards compulsive perversions

 No.177023

>>166017
i can see myself falling in love with a doll like that

 No.177025

>>176985
This does not mean every schizoid has rhese traits another schizoid trait is being a hebephile also but not every schizoid is likely one nor shares every trait listed.

Schizoids may desire the desire to be able to be romantic and try but fail.


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