No.169908
If you're happy, you're not a loser. Quit playing your life by the normalfags' rules.
No.169909
>>169907>Is anyone else here completely okay with being a loser at life? I don't think I am a loser… But if your question was something like 'are you okay with your life', my answered would be the following:
Yes, "I" am okay with it, I am okay with everything that I am and that I have, but this thought about my life that although is true doesn't always translate in me feeling good so regardless of what I know is true I suffer. It might sound stupid but there's not a single day I don't think about suicide, today for example I overslept for that reason, I didn't have the strength and I was immensely depressed and seriously thought that there was nothing I wanted to live for so I should end it, all this in spite of what I think about my life in general. This happens to me all the time, it's a cycle and I "like" my life.
But maybe I'm wrong and I don't like my life as much as I think I do. It's got to do with my brain I guess, I got all this time for myself, and I don't want to do anything with it, I have no motivation, never had. I don't think that there's anything worth it, or if there was, it's too late for me or I'm not meant for it.
The bottom line is that I like my life but that enough doesn't make me not want to end it. I'm disappointed maybe with what life is, not for me, but for everyone else.
No.169910
yup. I can't say I am as happy as normalfags who go around constantly bursting with laughter and energy, but I am much happier living a life of mediocrity than trying to fit in with them. I think it stems from bad social anxiety which makes the pleasure I would normally get from interacting and turns it into anxiety instead.
No.169911
i hate work and i'm not interested in money. i'd rather NEET and dick around all day and live without responsibility like some kind of ancient king transplanted into modern times
No.169912
My biggest passion in life is driving to far and random locations and write tidbits about things that catch my eye while on the road. In summer, sometimes i even go on long trips and sleep in the car.
Unfortunately, in order to pursue that i need money for the gasoline/etc… and i really despise work.
If there was a way to have money without working my life would be perfect… i dont care that im a loser, i just want to drive
No.169913
>>169907Yes, because I hate interacting with people so much that I'm willing to sacrifice the kinds of rapport building and connection making that would otherwise lead me to real job opportunities that paid a good amount of money. I would rather stock shelves overnight and be left alone, than pursue any kind of increase in earnings if it means i have to constantly deal with people. I've already attempted enough jobs requiring social skills such as a Sales Representative, Barback at a bar, and cashier. I quit all those jobs within a week or two because it made me so pissed off and angry to be constantly affronted with dozens of random people all day. The jobs I was able to stick with longest were overnight stocking and merchandising precisely because I was left the fuck alone and didn't have to talk to anybody beyond basic functional conversations to complete the job.
Also, the only things I like to do in my spare time are essentially free. I read, do calisthenic type workouts, and ride a bike. I don't need much else other than basic food, shelter, and an occasional six-pack of beer. When men are left to their own devices, this is usually all they need. When you involve other people, roasties, etc, then suddenly you need to have "stuff" and "prestige" etc>>169907
No.169918
>>169917I hoped he mistyped "life" and talks weird :(
No.169919
>>169918Yes we can always hope
No.169922
>>169913Just wish I could get one of these rather than ones where they're more human-facing. It was way too stressful filling online orders for people ordering grocery delivery because there were normal shoppers throughout the store and there was always something on the order not available, so you have to find something else and packing the fruits/vegetables was annoying as fuck. Tons of people in the back too.
No.169923
Without lots of money there's usually not enough food in the pantry.
No.169925
>>169924that's gay, i'll #starvemyselftodeath
No.169928
>>169925your posts are becoming tiresome
go have a nap or something
No.169931
I think realizing everyone claiming to help you is full of shit and are doing nothing to insure you can financially sustain yourself made me okay with being a loser. It's like instead of feeling ashamed of yourself for not doing more for people that dislike you, you realize those people are going to dislike you no matter what just because of what you inherently are.
No.169949
Don't let others tell you how to live your life.
>get a job
>Go to college
>put yourself in debt
>buy a car
>buy insurance
>pay taxes
>get married
>have kids
>pay child support
>pay for their schooling
>consume more
>stay asleep
>be stressed
No.169980
It almost seems like losing at the game everyone plays is actually winning so I do not mind. I interact in the normalfag world as a scientist and I am always surprised by how many rules they all have to follow.
No.169984
>>169907I really need to at least make enough money to live in my own place and afford a few luxuries like video games and fast food/instant food and a moderate amount of alcohol. Most would probably still call me a loser if I could achieve that.
But sadly I cannot even hack a simple walmart job I freeze up when people I am not familiar with watch me do shit and I am just unable to think and do the simplest shit. So its looking like I will be taking the suicide pill instead.
No.169989
Yes I am fine with being a "loser". In fact, I am the winner. I pity them.
No.170018
i am a loser, that's for sure, and i know it well
but it's not enough to make me get off my ass, so it means that i'm actually okay with it
it means that i'm okay with being perpetually lonely, okay with not having a prospect for a family, okay with not being admirable, okay with being miserable, okay with being poor, okay with not wanting to look at myself in the mirror, okay with being weak-willed…
the way i see it, it means that i actually hate myself, as i would be trying to change things otherwise - not alleviating the suffering is the same as causing suffering, and consciously doing it for years is a sure sign of strong hatred
it's kinda interesting that i have to arrive at this conclusion through basic logic instead of "feeling" it, and it's also interesting that this doesn't move me at all
i wonder what a psychiatrist would say about this, though not enough to actually force myself to got and see one and open up and other such things
do any of you lads have experience with this line of thought?
No.170019
>>170018It's a silly line on thought.
The obvious way to think is that "loser" is someone who takes part in a game, and you're not, you stand behind and see clearly the game is a joke, a misfortune, a torture, it will end very soon and none of it ever mattered.
No.170024
>>170019so the torture exists outside of the "game" that one can be a "loser" in, but then where does it come from?
the realization that suffering is inherent to existence is a solid foundation, but it doesn't really change the apparent self-hate being irrational, unless there is a basis to believe that it's impossible to relieve it
is there such a thing? doesn't really come to mind immediately
No.170040
I'm not ok with being a loser.
I'm constantly being tormented by my memories of failure.
And despite my pathetic, half-assed attempts to do something about it, I will never actually improve.
So this suffering will continue for as long as I live.
No.170048
being a loser sucks as shit deteriorates as you get older. it can be kind of comforting when you're a teen or early 20s since the consequences aren't as bad but when you have serious problems as a result of being a loser while you see all these people getting rich at 22 or whatever, it's fucking awful. if i was just the fuck up kid(failson) in a rich family, it wouldn't be bad
No.170071
>>170040I get abused by other people and I am too weak and dumb to retaliate or even just defend myself.
No.170072
>>170048false it actually gets better the older you get because you dont care how much money others are making
after you build up some life experience you can even feel smug about better than those who you were jealous of in your 20s since they suffer equally but just pay a different kind of price for their suffering
No.170098
I'm happier by not needing to keep up with anybody else. I have my smarphone locked in a drawer and I don't take it out unless I go to another city. Before cutting communications almost completely with the exterior world, I worried about being successful, having a good car…
It's ok to just exist.
No.170132
I would be if I had the money to support myself. I know I am never going to be successful in anything else, whether it's career, hobbies, social or love and I'm okay with that. My only worry is how to pay for the stuff I want to do.
No.173729
It pisses normies off that some people can enjoy life without chasing social status or money.
No.173731
All I want in life is to be left alone.
No.173755
I hate normies.
Including my normie mother.
No.173756
>>173731>>169911The weird thing is that I do believe in reincarnation. We may have been such kings, actually.
>>169907/sig/ is mainly against the surrounding world rather than for it.
No.173758
>>169907real normies, that is actual normal mentally healthy people in real life, aren't obsessed with "losers" and comparing people's benchmarks, adjustment and acheivements like the toxic weirdos on the chans and in the "red pill", manosphere cesspool
No.173768
>>173758>manosphereHow's crystal cafe these days?
No.173769
>>173758I don't remember anybody asking, but that wasn't your goal anyways was it?
No.173779
>>169907Having good career and lots of money is equal to warm food and warm bed in life, adults just don't tell kids that because they believe in fairy tales about life being easy than it really is.
No.173847
>>169907When you only need to support yourself, you are living life on easy mode. To be a wizard is like using a cheat code, and it's beautiful once you realize it.
No.173848
>>173758>ccCould be, but i'd say lolcow.farm fits better if you want to attribute that post to leftist/ sjw/feminist.
No.173976
What is a loser, anyway? It is completely subjective. Ask 100 people what they think is a loser and you will get 100 different answers.
95% of people would probably consider me a loser though, for some reason or another. But then again, why should I care? In my eyes they are the true losers. Having money is useless when you are a slave or if you got it by ruining others. Having succubi isn't a virtue at all in my opinion. Same goes for being respected by your peers.
I am a failed artist and philosopher yes, but overall I don't consider myself to be a failure or a loser. The ideal circumstances and environment for people like me would be to live in an aristocratic society as a member of the noble families. If past lives are real then I must have been a french or russian hedonistic noble living purely for his own hobbies. Doing nothing but NEETing and enjoying the escapism that others create, this is my fate. And I like it.
I wouldn't trade my life for anyone else's.
No.173996
>>173976you are living a life much in parallel with mine, that was comforting to read. to ataraxia
No.174012
>>174011
Not him but can relate. If only I would lack empathy, I would shitpost at places like this less and spend more time scumming away money from the normalfaggot masses.
No.174013
I’d say I have a fulfilling life, and the main reason for that is my lack of ambition and concern. I live by the moment and find pleasure in simple things while not worried on being successful, rich, powerful or anything that would bring me anxiety. I live an epicurean lifestyle, and because of that, as long as I’m avoiding pain, I don’t really care on what happens to me.
No.174054
>>169949For me, it's not something I can't not think. It's my default thinking. I've only slightly gotten out of the programming by not getting into debt and staying the hell away from females. I don't consume much either.
I hope one day I can snap out of it like I did with my fear of death.
No.174566
>>169907hi failed normgroid. 4chink is down the hallway, second door to the left