i'm not particularly tall. about 5'8. never seen myself as handsome or appealing in any way or fashion, but for three days i've been doing daily stretches, went on runs, and started working on my posture, and i've noticed, that i'm stopping to care whether i'm attractive or not. i'm working on myself for myself, and that's nice.
still would kill myself if i had a gun though. also fuck succubi
I can’t really say anything what I think, but random people have told me I look like a model, and I’m not shitposting, but I think I look at least average, I take care of myself but I’m not interested in sex or relationships so why do I bother? why not
I am unattractive due to intentional effort
Wild hair, cheap clothes, mean face, defensive/aggressive posture.
Picked up the habit as a filter for dealing with tough guy bullshit, being that it seperated the people that were looking for a ego boost but not actually a threat from the people who are a threat so it was "socially acceptable" to skip the bullshit straight to the fight without holding back.
My social skills at the time weren't quite good enough to tell the two apart. So cultivating a look and reputation as someone who was willing and able to get violent with anyone that would step to me saved me the trouble of trying to guess who was there to fight and who just wanted to trade insults.
Thankfully I grew out of tough guy bullshit before my luck ran out and I ended up dead, in jail, or trapped in crime. But I kept the look because people left me alone.
Do note that you have to have all 3 for it to work.
For example if you just have the hair and bad attitude but nice clothes you will get bothered by succubi that are into bad boys.
Do just the hair and cloths without the attitude then people will think you are just poor and week so it would be safe to use and abuse you, ect.
I don't know when you grew up but during the 90s they pushed this lie that looks don't matter.
That is bullshit. People very much interact with you (or don't) based on their impression they get from your appearance. When I figure that out I used it to dissuade people from fucking with me in every sense of the word.
That said I do have a secret desire to on day go to some far off place no one knows me and then for a few days be as elegant, Fancy, and even flamboyant in ostentatious clothing and luxurious accessories. To do dumb shit like go to a show or a ball dressed up like a fairy tale gentleman or something.
Then go back to being gruff and mostly invisible with no one being the wiser.
Doubt I would ever do it. It's a lot of money, effort, and planning just to be vain for a few days.
Getting so off topic. Whatever.
my mom says I'm handsome
I am not ugly but i don't like my body because i look like a succubus…
>Picked up the habit as a filter for dealing with tough guy bullshit
I ended up doing the same thing. You have to really - if you're forced to be around people for extended periods of time - or they become like a pack of feral dogs who got a taste of blood.
Your curiosity of putting on a fake persona for the day is very much doable, by the way. I can picture you doing it. I recommend seeing an opera or classical music concert.
I know because I've done this once.
You don't seem to have the IQ of an 8 year old on here.
If it wasn't for my height, I probably would have just killed myself by now.
why isn't this shit in /dep/
I am overweight and only 5'9 but my face is alright and attractive to the people that like my 'style'. My shoulders are broad, not too much, I'm strong.
I am trying to lose weight because I feel disgusted looking at myself in the mirror. I am 220lbs right now and my goal is reaching this weight but with muscle and not fat
OP here. I'm 6 feet and 165 and I'm kind of in the middle of "normal weight" category. The idea of me gaining 55 pounds of muscle is a pretty ridiculous goal, let alone someone who's 3 inches shorter than me getting to that same weight with a low body fat percentage.
Even when I was working and really trying people thought I was ugly
How can you tell?
Someone I worked with told me one day they were saying these bad things about me. I quit the next week and stopped bothering. This was some time ago. I don't doubt it though because they way they looked at me said it all, you can just tell
Can you be more specific? I can't imagine someone would just tell you to your face, unless they were angry with you for some reason. From my experience if you leave people alone they generally will be neutral towards you.
What does it matter when you aren't trying to attract people?
Old succubi say I'm handsome
I don't think I'm unattractive honestly. I got an okay face, 6'2, 178 lb, and go to the gym 4-5 days a week. I have a lot of flaws too, but I got enough going for me that I'm attractive to enough succubi to know it's not my appearance that's keeping me a wizard. I'm just painfully introverted and socially awkward. I have a lot of trouble understanding my own feelings and communicating my thoughts. I'm low-energy, unmotivated, depressed, and self-hating. That's what's unattractive about me, not my appearance.
I'm ugly but not repulsive
I'm still depressed and leading a shitty life because of that
I'm conviced if I had at least an okay face my life would be much more enjoyable since I have qualities which do not matter if you disgust people at first sight
ugly face = ugly mind
child: very cute
young adult: decent
if i had to rate my appearances over time it would look like that. im slowly aging into a fat homeless santa claus and it feels weird to see myself in the mirror
I have asymmetrical facial features that have only become more pronounced in various ways with age. So yes. While pretty much nobody is perfectly symmetrical, people with greater symmetry are objectively considered more attractive at a base level, for a tendency towards greater symmetry represents better, more robust genes. The less symmetrical your face is, the more "ugly" you will innately be considered. Sometimes this gets overlooked, I think it's more important to the question of looks and how attractive one is to others than people admit.
Otherwise I'm probably "eh okay" and it's a lack of giving a damn about attracting someone, because I'm not obese, poorly shaven, or short, the typical attributes to complain about.
true, but the fault of that does not rest on the ugly but the people who mistreat them and bully them.
I’m mainly a mentalcel
Do you think that being attractive will solve issues in your life? If so, what issues? If not, then why do you care?
That also means that you would have to socialize, or at the very least constantly interact, with normalfags in order to take advantage of your looks.
Admittedly, being attractive might allow for for interactions that are more favourable in regards to the status quo, but why tf would you want that? I hate the current post-modern culture and if the reason for being attractive is to be further integrated into it then I disagree with that being a plus. If it's just to make interactions easier, fuck it. If getting what I want takes a bit more confrontation and abrasiveness, oh well.
I was told by succubi schoolmates back in my teens that if I wasn't a lard ass I'd be attractive.
I disagree, I have a pretty asymmetric face and I'm only 5'8. I also use intentionally plain clothes, don't shave nor cut my hair. Even if I improved these things, which would take a lot of effort to me, I wouldn't be attractive.
yep, being good looking means you will make friends with ease and be given loads of attention while young, making so you have good social skills from an early age, which snowballs into an easy life
The guys in that picture suppose to be good looking though? They look like complete dorks. That's how I imagine nerdy wizzies would look like if they suddenly became dumber and hit the gym for 2 years hoping it would grand them entrance into normal society.
hitting the gym for 2 years does grant entrance into normal society for losers though unless they're ridiculously genetically cursed
Awesome humble bragging wizzie, some quality wizardly posting
"I'm a celibate virgin but let me still profess how superior I am in the sexual market if I DID want to have sex"
>>174762>that neck/jaw clenching
have fun with your distorted extremity fascia bud
>>175196>but why tf would you want that
let's solve this with a quick analogy shall we>you're a gazelle on the steppes of Africa>you've come to grow resentful of the current state of the world, making predators prevalent, and having you live every second of your life in fear>next morning you awake as some gazelle mutant (yes this analogy is supposed to be stupid, just like you) with offensive mechanisms, claws fangs whatever>you can now do whatever you want on the steppes of Africa
does that make sense to you
if you so resent this 'post-modern culture' there's two ways to approaching it. figuratively taking it up the ass, or channeling your resentment to come out on top. being attractive is a sort of manipulative magic in current society
A normalfaggot meme.>genes being the only thing
Nurture matters as much as nature.
Your effort barely matters.
What really sets your life up is your parents effort.
That is a female, not a human, so it doesn't really apply.
I thought posting pictures of 3D succubi was banned? When did they lift the rule?
Is that pic "solely intended to arouse, attract or fawn over"?
That's not how it was worded before, it was an absolute ban. I'm certain of it.
You are certainly wrong then.
Their has never been a total ban, only one depended on context, usually requiring sexualization.
Otherwise posting music clips or movie poster that in any way involved females would cause bans that would disrupt conversation in those subjects for no good reason.
Plus wouldn't be able to make fun of succubi as easily ether.
Maybe I'm thinking of a different site. I remember seeing posters get banned for posting music albums.
are you referring to the k-pop poster?
I've got a decent face but it doesn't mean anything if you're a socially retarded manchild