I've really been wanting to do the same thing. I wish I could just curb my retarded human nature and stop caring about other people entirely, and then do my own thing.
It hurts when I try to socialize, it hurts when I try to be alone, so what the fuck do I do?
I noticed my urge to use IBs is particularly high when I'm bored. The trick seems to have a hobby where you can put your mind to it.
If you have the means or ability to drop out of society you do that and just quit talking to anyone I personally only started talking to people after having found I am no longer able to entertain myself by reading and various other activities.
You won't change your human nature if you are not schizoid like so sorry to tell you that OP
Wizlife is not for you.
Continue your search for the right people, be it a road of suffering.
I agree with this: OP needs people he will feel lonely unlike many of us wizards who are fine in solitude and maybe come here to shitpost a little when we have nothing better to do or share about an interest.
OP needs to try find some friend be it irl or online because he will be going through hell by being alone. Social types just cannot stand solitude they never get used to it they just become more and more broken until they kill themelves.
Having the urge to socialize kinda sounds like normie shit, so idk what to tell you. Our entire culture has become commodified that I have no desire to form genuine relationships with anyone.
I like that picture op
If you feel the need the socialize than this life is not for you. You can't force yourself to be this way. Fix your life and find some friends.
Not normie but not true wizardly and it is not something people can control a lot of wizards wish they could enjoy others company in the sense that wizards were as common as normies so they could interact with them.
Op sounds better suited to r9gay.
If you have urges to socialize, then do so.
>>176564>My urge to socialize comes from the point where my existential dread gets so bad I need something to change>I feel zero empathy and I don't care for other human beings
Figure out a different type of change. And next time post the full context in the OP
Why would you do that?
Full isolation is not good, you can always play an MMORPG and "meet" some people there. MMORPGs have always been a good way for me to feel a bit of human connection without actually having to socialize.
>>176595>I came to the point where I see the types of mindsets that exist within the social sphere, how almost everything that is being said is a layer of covert narcissism to serve one's goals.
Very much feel the same I second this and I wonder if someone can actually break away from this as it is very damaging and you are not wrong one needs only watch people to see how fake they are and self serving but are we not just the same?
We can still make that rare friend online who sees the world in a similar way or just finds us interesting.
I said rare because it is awfully rare. Nice image
>>176527>>>176526 (OP)>I've really been wanting to do the same thing. I wish I could just curb my retarded human nature and stop caring about other people entirely, and then do my own thing.
It'll always be there unless you're a retard. Only retards don't care about their life and suicidal people too. Which one are you planning to be?
>It hurts when I try to socialize, it hurts when I try to be alone, so what the fuck do I do?
Do drugs all the time, it accelerates time and numbs the existential problems.
You can be a wizard and have friends.
No wizard would be friends with someone who has friends. You will always be the normalfag.
Yes, you can be a hermit virgin over 30 and have some normalfag friends. Stop adding unrelated things about your own circumstance to the definition of what a wizard is.
don't pay attention to him, he is probably one of those fatalist crab that nobody likes because he is a crabs in a bucket so he wants everyone on wizchan to be as miserable as him
Fucking depcrabs. Won't they ever learn that REAL wizards are surrounded by friends, a loving family and make upwwards of 150k a year on top of being in peak physical condition?
They may be. Why wouldn't you want us to?
As far as I know, being successful isn't antithetical to the wizard regime. The obligation is celibacy, am I mistaken? Crabs who want everyone to be a loser are odd to me. I don't wish that my fellow wizards have a shitty life, I want them to be happy and competent people who TM "REJECT FEMALES"
Normalfag confirmation bias. Thanks for outing yourself and breaking rule 2 and 3.
we should just ban crabs from the site, they try to let everyone down and gatekeep if someone is not a complete failure in everything or obssesed with succubi like them. They don't even like their lives and to them this site probably what they call a "cope".
what are you doing in wizchan if you are not miserable? fuck off back to reddit normalslime
Lol. I didn't say anything about my own life or desires. I wouldn't post about any social experiences I might have here because I respect the rules. >>176873
This isn't your personal misery circlejerk, it's a forum for male virgins. Being a virgin doesn't automatically imply being miserable. Stop being so obsessed with succubi and projecting it on others.
No. I'm a virgin myself, not one of those insidious evil normalfags who spend their free time pretending to be wizards online. I can't stand the crabs who waste this website more than most normalfags I've met.
>>176876>hurrdurr crabs crabs crabs crabs
God fuck yourself. You talk like some twitter bitch.
>>176877>hurr durrrrrrrrr wizards have to be miserable people with prejudice and hatred against all normalfags
I'm not saying people should be allowed to post about it here, but wizards are allowed to have friends, and even go to normalfag parties or do whatever they want, as long as they're adult male virgins.
Damn straight. In fact, we should consider banning wizards who don't do any of those things, since they are much more likely to crab out.
Why are you being a facetious dickhead? "Wow other wizards can be functional people and that makes me angry." So what dude? Virginity is the only obligation. Take your false rhetoric and stop being a crab.
Crabs should honestly get their own imageboard at this point. Just call it Crabchan.
>>176878>doing normalfag shit makes you a wizard
it's irrelevant to whether you're a wizard unless you mean doing sexual things with people
This is so funny but true. Wizards aren't allowed to be losers, I guess.
It isn't that they aren't allowed.
It is that they aren't required to be losers.
You can and probably should live a good, happy, and productive life even as a wizard.
Just because you don't fuck doesn't mean other aspects of your life have to be shit or that you have to feel bad.
Then why post here? Why not post on literally any other website for normal well-adjusted people like reddit or facebook?
crabs and volcels don't actually exist anymore, they are just blanket political terms
the people who are against crabs or call themselves volcels aren't wizards anymore but either twitter SJW trannies or MRA mgtow born again virgins both of which have no place on wizchan
wizard is a perfect blend of crab and volcel while being neither at the same time
>>176897>wizard is a perfect blend of crab and volcel while being neither at the same time
sorry but that's just your headcanon
you can make your own website if that bothers you
Nothing in the rules suggests that you need to be anything more or less than an adult male virgin to post here. Here's a quote directly from the rules page:
social activity: An activity that at its core involves socializing, like going to a bar, party or club. This includes things done together with friends, like visiting a cinema. This, however, does not include simply having friends, or just making contact with another person in real life (e.g. a cashier or therapist).>This, however, does not include simply having friends
Stop arguing with a smelly, unloved and unwanted retard. He's in every thread crying that some people have friends and a job here.
the rules only state you are allowed to have friends, but not talk about them
bragging that you have friends is normalfag behavior
>Nothing in the rules suggests that you need to be anything more or less than an adult male virgin to post here.
that's because that's a clear misinterpretation of the rules, look at all the other rules as a whole and you will see there is a clear outline of what type of person can post here
if virginity is all you got to show for your wizardry then you do not belong here
I hate these friendless, smelly and unlovable retards. No wonder they've been virgins for so long. Why do these stupid virgins always have to ruin everything by being losers? They should just fuck off and let us enjoy our wonderful lives in peace.
What the fuck happened to my beautiful thread?
I realized I'm a covert narcissist and have zero empathy. On top of that I'm 100% isolated, I don't give a fuck about your labels, this is just me.
"Everyone I Do Not Like Is A Crab" by Anonymage
u sound like a crab
Wizards are by definition involuntary celibate. They always have been. Their low status in society ensured they would never reproduce, let alone even touch a succubus. The wizard meme was about being a lonely virgin who lived an unconventional lifestyle, eg in their mom's basement. This is why it's against the rules to make fun of NEETs here or discuss relationships. The wizard lifestyle was never about being a successful male who fits in with society and is normal in every facet of life except for being a virgin. If any of you have proof otherwise, I'd love to read it.
Spirit of the rules vs letter of the rules debate again. It is lost on the normalshits who claim that you could be in theory a successful professional model with a bustling social life and still belong here. Heck why not be married while you're at it. It's only for fiscal reasons, I swear! No sex involved, and the children I sired? Artificial insemination of course. :^)
Well then it's up to us wizards to kick the normalniggers out and make them feel unwelcome. Take back this site for ourselves.
The mods are in on it, no point.
I would rather have normalniggers than furries posting gay shit in the fap thread when browsing /all/
Because sex havers are obsessed with talking about relationshits, sex, dating, and other bullshit and succubi are fucking cancer to online community they get a foot hold in.
I can talk about my hobbies or have discusions about whatever without it turning into a attention vortex about/around/or for succubi.
This is a male only space where succubi can't suck attention away from whatever the topic of discussion is to themselves and thirsty guys have to chill the fuck out or get banned.
Why do you post here if you hate being a wizard?
>>176897>words have no meaning except whatever one I give them in the moment that aid in my argument
>>176933>I can talk about my hobbies or have discusions about whatever without it turning into a attention vortex about/around/or for succubi.
That's really the only redeeming quality of this site tbh.
>>176913>there is a clear outline of what type of person can post here >if virginity is all you got to show for your wizardry then you do not belong here
Do you have any arguments at all to support this interpretation?
well it's true the word crab has lost its meaning
what you have now are basically normalfags larping as crabs for pity points
the crabs from pre-2010's made wizchan and were basically proto-wizards
and we had enough run time to know all volcels are just larping normalfags as well
so what are we left here?
wizards take the involuntary celibacy from crabs while dropping the parts that make them normalfags, as well as keeping parts of volcel like ignoring succubi and not pursuing relationships and keeping out normalfag parts like optimism/improvebrah shit
>>176526>How do you stop socializing?
Be content with imageboards.
There are people on this website who have had sex and have girlfriends without a doubt. It's impossible to gate keep image boards and no way of knowing someone's sexual history here. They could be in this thread, they could even be you. You could even be a succubus trying to start drama by purity spiraling harder and harder as a troll.
You're now bitching about relationships yourself, derailing a thread with your obsession over sex, dating and other bullshit.
There are plenty of people who don't like being 30 year old virgins. A meme about being a wizard doesn't stop them craving things they can't have. There's no rule against being a virgin who wishes he wasn't one.
I hate normalfags
You're pretty much one mister productivity.
yes it's obviously about celibate virginity
I don't think I ever had an urge so socialize, I'm always surrounded by family members and that's enough for me.
>urge to socialize
I've never really understood this. I can imagine feeling bored, even isolated, alienated, and so on. But there was never a conception in my mind that other people could somehow solve this malaise for me, especially not through idle chatter. This is probably why I've not only felt unmotivated to be around people and to follow through into deeper relationships but actively shunned every opportunity for someone to be invested in my life or feelings, so as to call them a "friend" or "partner". I realize the idea of being close to someone repulses me on an instinctual level and I can only stomach interactions with others where there is no danger of actually relating to someone personally i.e. abstract/technical discussion and debates.
Welcome to the club.
I struggle with need to socialize from time to time then I slow my mind down and realize I'm just Borderline+Narcissistic lookin' 4 supply… People suck
Yet you are still here and responding to this post
Well if you put it that way… I meant outside of the internet of course.
I think that tendency for narcissism is simply a natural response to solitary self-sufficiency. Even if you're unable to get any stimulation from other people, deep down somewhere, you're always going to end up craving a little self-affirmation. If you had a healthy, active social life, you would get your fill of this without even having to stop and think about it, but since you most probably don't, your brain has to resort to these urges to help you stay grounded.
This is pretty much how it's always manifested itself for me as well, by the way, and I just finished going through a particularly bad bout of it that left me feeling more alienated than ever. If this means anything to you, I recognized enough of my own schizoid worldview in those two posts you made that I had to share my feelings about this.