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 No.316786[Reply]

For the longest Time i had none other than my Parents to share my problems with and they Would Always say stuff like:
"Everything Will be alright, just be positive"
And for The longest Time i believed that was bull shit, to think our thoughts could influence reality and our outcomes in life, and lately After another conversationv with my father where he said the usual stuff of "everything Will be alright for you as Long You remain positive and optimistic"
I thought to my self why don't i become positive and optimistic just in order to relieve my present anxities? even if maybe it's all dogshit and the universe is indifferent about your thoughts and such, but of course when you are a life Time pessimist, it's not easy to change your mindset, even if it's just wanting to delude my Self.
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 No.321548

>>316818
A random positive thought: electronics are cheap these days; you will probably get your niche as a "prompt engineer". Autist's experience should help you to shape well thought, logical prompts - something neurotypicals with fluid speech seem to struggle with.

 No.321549

>>321548
>Autist's experience
Oh I don't think any positive application can be extracted from "Autistic experience"

 No.321551

>>321549
I always think is funny those delusional people that says "autism is my superpower" or "my high neuroticism or mental illness x is my super power", like bro, you have a disability, and it's called disability for a reason, the better route would be finding a way to minimize the illness effect on you.

 No.321553

>>321551
Because you zoomers were born at the worst time for nerds. There was a kernel of truth for that claim 15-20+ years back when not everything was automated and certain behavioural traits, generally associated with nerds/outcasts, were useful for certain tasks that normalfags either found boring or took a level of critical thinking and effort that was below their normalfag status.

Now that all those things are automated or the complexity has been taken out of the tasks, it's just a mental illness/disability with no upsides. It's even worse actually since back then nerds/outcasts didn't have normalfags claiming austism as a badge of honour.

 No.321556

>>321549
As an autist, I would not recommend the autistic experience



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 No.320627[Reply]

My goals are pretty linear.

Draw for 10k hours currently just over 1400 hours.
Run 100 miles might take 7 years to build up the endurance
Grow vegtables and other stuff
Read allot of stuff that I care about
Continue to learn the piano

How are all you doing and what’s your persuit any pitfalls ?
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 No.320732

>>320719
Sounds like you're your own Scumbag Steve..

 No.320737

Complete some sort of creative project that is good enough that I will be remembered after I am dead.

See the grand canyon with my own eyes.
See Japan with my own eyes.
Go on a cross country adventure.

Put down some of my martial art's knowledge in a proper training manual that other generations can learn from even after I am physically incapable of teaching anymore.


Working on my writing skills currently, as well as saving up a significant amount of money for future adventures.
So it's not just wishing and hoping while not doing anything.
I am actively working on such goals, at least in the background.

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>>320732
I have Avpd so yes.

 No.321550

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I want to open my own used bookstore and I want it to be comfy

 No.321555

>Make at least 1,000,000 USD
Never made it there, probably will never make there unless there's major inflation

>Marry & have 4 children

I think I might be too old for that

>Own a house and a farm

Since I don't have 1,000,000 USD, I can't have that and likely never will

>Become an educated sage having equivalent of PhD in physics, math, biology, chemistry and archeology

I realized I'm too stupid and lazy for any of those

>Own and fly my own aircraft ideally a large Zeppelin

since I don't have 1,000,000 USD, I'll never own a cesna, let along fucking blimp.

>Live one year while being happy most of the time

I will never have that, no money, no family


>Die a painless death

I still might get there, still have high hopes for this one



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 No.321282[Reply]

I have manga and books but I don't want to read them because I'm afraid to move on to something bigger if I read. I also don't want to waste my time but I stay on internet 24/24 7/7. it is a weird effect: when I'm on internet, I see it like a virtue and something good being on internet but when I want to do an hobby (read, play video game, drawing, etc..) I see it as a waste of time…it should be contrary, I don't know why I am lile this.
I wanted to ask you, wizards, how do you make yourself read books?(mostly about the hobby: reading)
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 No.321291

>>321285
>I was afraid of reading or watching anime before because I saw it as a serious hobby and put pressure on myself to perform well
jej

 No.321292

>>321285
I have the exact same problem when reading books . The understanding everything thing + I also can’t concentrate if I hear/might hear (that is the retarded part) noises, which means that I basically have to be recluse in order to be able to read anything ”complicated“.

 No.321309

>>321285
poor soul


i had the same problem


regards, "survival mode" wizard

 No.321520

>>321292
wear noise cancelling gear (5$) plus wireless earbuds (?$)

 No.321552

>>321285
>I was afraid of reading or watching anime before because I saw it as a serious hobby and put pressure on myself to perform well.
What the hell is wrong with nerds today?



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 No.319696[Reply][Last 50 Posts]

this thread is for Hikikomori and N.E.E.Ts.
use this thread as an exchange between hiki and neet and share what you think is worth sharing.
here's a website that sell hikikomori themed magazine in japan. the website has some interviews of hiki around the world. if you'd like to check it, here's the link: https://www.hikipos.info/
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 No.321513

>>321307
Yes mom is ableist and believes in machismo

 No.321542

Got a worker that brings groceries and does chores here, so based

 No.321543

>>321306
I don't know where you got this idea. And it's not true that japanese hikikomori literally never go outside. Some of them do rarely, even the guy from Welcome to the N.H.K went outside sometimes.
There's also the fact that I disprove your post by existing since I haven't gone outside in months.

 No.321544

>>321543
How old are you, bro?

 No.321546

>>321544
the same age as sato, 22


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 No.312958[Reply]

Post your results from the big five personality test.

https://www.outofservice.com/bigfive/

I suspect that many wiz are high on neuroticism and low on extraversion
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 No.317097

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 No.320806

interesting


may take the test next month

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>>316708
>Conscientiousness
>5
Based, but I can do you one better

>>317097
>open mindedness 2
Actually incredible.

>>321498
>スクリーンショット
Are you japanese or just a weeaboo

 No.321545

>>321499
I am PROUD weaboo otaku, アニメis LIFE, JP > ENG.



 No.316606[Reply]

Are you disabled wiz? Mentally or physically? I'm talking actual diagnosis. I got pretty bad OCD and PTSD.
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 No.321522

Autism and MLD/MDD.

 No.321527

>>319995
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>>319987
I'm about to say fuck it and start taking massive doses of Vitamin D, I know you need adequate magnesium and potassium, but what else can I try right

wait!


Vitamin D should be eaten right before you eat food.
Eat less fat food plz.


>magnesium



Fizzy magnesium with lemon flavor rocks


>potassium


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 No.321530

>>316606
Not really. But apparently I have something akin to burnout. I have physical negative reactions when I am at work. My eyes get this glazed over feeling where I'm unable to focus on my monitor, my mind shuts down, I get some restless feeling in my back between my shoulder blades that makes me want to run out of the place and my eyelids start twitching. Only happens at work or when I'm on my way to work pretty much. So not a disability but I don't think OCD or PTSD really qualify either. More of a mental condition that makes it difficult to function.

 No.321535

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>>316606
i am straight up retarded

 No.321540

>>321530
I had to reduce my coffee intake … heh



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 No.319768[Reply]

Anyone else here deal with hallucinations as they drift off? For me they come in episodes, usually it's just some sudden noise like the sound of a dog shaking its fur or a loud creaking like someone is jumping on my bed and I will wake up in a panic. This usually repeats multiple times until I finally fall asleep properly. More rarely I also get these half-asleep nightmares where I will see some shadowy script moving on my walls, I can sit up and try to look at it and usually I know it's not real and then it kind of dissipates as I wake up fully. It's just kind of annoying, has anyone here dealt with this or any tips on how to get rid of it?
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>>319837
Why do you see gays everywhere

 No.319847

>>319841
Bad karma?
Seriously wizzies, even if you get a boner you should assume it was a demon and not yourself. This is the necessary resistance. Don't go along with their lies even if the truth is silent. Never do what they want.

 No.319854

>>319768
Shit scares me I fucking hate it.

 No.319994

>>319768
this only happens to me when I drink massive amounts of alcohol.

 No.321537

>>319841
childhood trauma, maybe



verbal trolling/abuse in kindergarten is enough to ruin wizard's "dense-ness" into "seeing everywhere"



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 No.319599[Reply][Last 50 Posts]

No politics or religion in the crawl thread, please.

>Ambient sounds to wash away distraction

https://asoftmurmur.com/
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 No.321524

>>320641
Jim Cornette (pro-wrestling personality) was chosen by Nielsen to be added to their viewership count. Rewards were promised. He declined as it was necessary to have some shit like an ankle monitor ALL DAY (maybe sleep was an exception). It would recognize automatically from streaming by sound and I guess web data.

 No.321534

>>321524
That is so fucking cool

 No.321538

What's the wizzies opinion on FREETER lifestyle?

 No.321539

>>321538
I think freeter is inevitable for wizards, since regular work is very difficult and taxing on health (freeter more forgiving) while keeping interactions somewhat managable. If I ever go homeless, I'd prefer being a freeter or mechanic freeter. My life would already be hard, I don't need a solid job to make it more difficult.

 No.321541

>>321539
What would be the western equivalent to freeter lifestyle, since freeter is a Japanese idea.


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 No.321531[Reply]

Where the fuck is /f/ now? Any alternative? I am literally fucking dieing because it's gone. The sadness can't be expressed in words.

 No.321532

From what I know, Heyuri has a relatively active flash board but other than that there's always places like swfchan.

 No.321533

https://7chan.org/fl/
it even has T H U M B N A I L G E N E R A T I O N



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 No.317967[Reply]

Why do Baby Boomers seem to have no taste for movies before their time? Not even before their time, but before their 20s or even 30s. In my personal life I've never seen one bother with any movie from before 1965, or even before 1970 for a lot of them, and they all speak of old movies from before then with a tone of total contempt. They grew up with old cowboy movies and seeing John Wayne, but as adults seem to have zero nostalgia for those films.

Contrast that with Millennials, and even older zoomers, who grew up watching 80s movies, and remember them fondly and still soyface over them hard. 1980 is as far away from the present as 1935 is to 1980.

Was stuff like Casablanca and Little Shop Around the Corner playing on TV all the time in the 1980s? It just seemed like the late 1960s was a hard cultural reset and for that generation, they put away their childhood to a degree Millennials never did, to a point where they don't even venture into that territory at all for nostalgia.

Like I'm sure some of it is young people are peter pan syndrome man-children who can't move on, but at the other end it's uncanny that all the fondness boomers have for culture comes from their early adult life instead of childhood.
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 No.321310

>>317967
My opinion is, 1950s/1960s movies and muzik were divided in 2 categories:


* movie theaters grade color movies + background music for malls like Muzak


* soap operas on 1950s tellies + traditional pop on the radio, "adult contemporary" beautiful music/easy listening


Both were, probably, overused.

Besides, Star Trek and Star Wars have changed the game of drama by employing merch.

 No.321318

>>318244
>I put these people in the same basket as picky eaters that make faces when you eat things that they themselves don't like

ty

never realized pickybpeople tend to make faces

 No.321335

>>317967
The baby boomers mostly grew up in the 50s which was a time when Hollywood was struggling. After WW2 people had largely moved out of the cities, where theaters were the largest form of entertainment, and into suburbs where they partook in other hobbies. At the same time, the television was invented and popularized, which added competition to the movie industry. Compare this to the 80s-90s, when Hollywood was having a boom with major blockbusters, and VHS made it so that people at home could watch their favorite movies again and again. The younger generations also saw the rise of streaming services, where companies heavily leaned into nostalgia for advertising. Subscribe to Netflix and you can watch all your favorite movies from your childhood!

For what it's worth my boomer parents are both somewhat film buffs, especially my mom, and they showed me a lot of classics and interesting older films. I don't think they are typical examples of the generation though.

 No.321528

>>317967
IDK, my boomer mom likes some grayscale movies.

Not sure if thats common to have a taste for Chaplin or Film Noire for a boomer though, as my mom has a taste for classical literature also

 No.321529

>>321528
*Film Noir



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