/wiz/ - Wizardry

Your situation sounds like that of a winner. No nagging wife, no kids who need dental work, and no job to get fired from.

>>226222
Check out eastern philosophy. Alan Watts, Daoism, Wu Wei, Zen, Buddhism, all that good stuff. There you will find centuries worth of thoughts and wisdom on how to do just that, achieving peace with what you have. Beyond that, you have to really think about what you want in life. Do YOU want a job with a nice salary, even if that means grinding yourself down 8h a day or even more and often not even having the time and energy left to spend it? Or are you insecure whenever you compare yourself to others who have 'prestigious' jobs, thinking you are less than them? Same with all the other things you listed. If you are only feeling like a loser through comparison then that's something you can change through mindset shifts. If you are actually lacking something that you desire then just go and pursue that individual thing and see if that makes it better.

maybe find a way to win in some other domain, outside of normalfag interests. you lost the career-wife-children game but you won, idk, writing the quintessential novel about depression, or a killer youtube channel about collecting coins.

just figure out what you care about because you clearly don't care about being a normalfag. you just want to feel like you're moving forward in life in a meaningful direction. hobbies and interests can help you with that.

>>226222
the normalfags arent that much of a winner.
>a nice salary
and they are still slaves, even worse than wageslaves because salaryslaves have a fixed amount they earn while the wagecuck gets paid by the hours he puts in.
and at the end of the day their entire life hinges on if they can make their boss jew happy. their gay income breaks away and so does everything else.
>a succubus
succubi are shit, its true the normalfags might have this honeymoon phase but these wear off fast and before you know it you are left with a fat nagging bitch that will cheat on you and take half your shit salary in the inevitable divorce.
this idealized perfect relationship that normalfags always shill is maybe the reality for 0.1% of the population, if its even real at all.
>house and whatever
houses and cars and shit are so expensive a normalfag has to take on 30+ years of debt to get and even then he doesnt own any of that crap.

so why would you feel like a loser when you arent stuck with any of that crap?
what you have is Freedom, what normalfags have is slavery.
so ask yourself why you as a free man think you are a loser and wants to be a slave?
its because you were brainwashed by media and by coping normalfags that advertise being a slave means you are a winner.

There's any actual wizNEET here that actually is in peace with their lives? Any tips on how to achiever loser nirvana?

>>226231
Muh content with bad situation philosophy is easy if you have material comfort and is only anxious because of silly thoughts like being seen as a loser or something. When you have to deal with problems like working a shit job or abusive families or diseases then being at peace is wishful thinking. It's probably still good as a cope at least. Better than psych meds or therapy anyway. Just do mindfulness meditation or something.

>>226231
I just own it. Yes my car is crap, no I can't hold down a job that pays enough to get ahead. Underachiever lifestyle is still a lifestyle.

>>226231
tbh if I just had a 3/10 gf I would've been okay with my life ages ago

>>226247
>having a succubus is a must for a happpy life

Wizchan 2025, almost 2026

>>226248
an ugly fat one, even. twice the neediness and hassle for less than half the pleasure. apparently that's a good bargain for this wizzy!!

>>226249
Honestly, if a wiz escape the wizNEET life and became a semi normie or something, I at least expect the ex wiz to have some standard like finding a semi normie girlfriend instrad of settling for a whore or some landwhale, I'm not saying that a ex wiz should only be with a model, but at least have some sense of self worth and have standard.

>>226250
>>226249
If I just want sex, 4/10 is good enough for me. Anything more is just showing off

>>226252
You know you broke a wizchan rule? If you want sexo, that wizchan isn't for you.

>>226250
If you put the average wizard on a dating app it's not like he has a choice in the matter.

For most it's going to be a choice between remaining a virgin but this time involuntarily, or choosing that mentally ill, 380lbs 49-year old bald smelly succubus with several face piercings and tattoos.

Keep in mind those places are hyper-competitive and even average 5/10 looking guys with 90k/year salaries complain of getting literally zero matches a month.

>>226247
>>226249
>>226252
Normies are so enviable. They sound like they can endure all of life's suffering if they can have sex and reproduce.

~40 years old
- Straight white male born in a country where thats a very bad thing to be, even got the hated blonde hair and blue eyes thing going against me
- mid-range truecel; ugly face, but just not ugly enough to be considered deformed; weak body, but just not weak enough to be considered disabled; short height, but just not short enough to be considered a dwarf; not old enough to be considered elderly, but definitely not considered young anymore, and feminine, but not femme enough to be able to be considered a femboy.
- on top of all that I am autistic af and way too neurotic; Ive also got bipolar, adhd, generalized anxiety, and a lifetime of trauma thats permanently locked me into cptsd. But I mask it pretty effectively.
- I am homeless and sleeping in random places, often too poor to afford food, but unable to get onto neetbux due to having too much money; it makes sense when you hear that my finances are under guardianship at a government office, so while i have money to afford to live, i dont have the power to actually spend it.
- never had a job, or a high school education, did nothing with most of my adult years, where i live, 2025 offers no opportunities to find work or housing, social services are useless, slow, and apathetic, and i am deeply entangled in systems that ruin my life while pretending to exist to help me.
- of course i am a khhv, thats the least of the problems for me to deal with.
- my life was constant trauma, violence, shame, abuse, humiliation, missed opporunities, and regrets, it was over for me before i was im the first grade.
- please feel sorry for me. Expressions of pity makes it feel like somebody cares.

>>226284
How the hell you don't have NEETbux? You're in your 40s, homeless and with mental issues, you at least have the right for NEETbux

>>226284
I have great sympathy for you. Thank you for sharing your story. I believe I am headed down the same road. I made a fan art of you in Oekaki, I give you my blessings.

>>226284
I feel bad for you. Reading this makes me realize how lucky I am by comparison. I genuinely hope it gets better for you but I know it probably won’t. You didn’t deserve this. I wish you well.

>>226222
I think you should just give up.
I used to think that giving up was wrong and pointless, but at some point life kicks you down so hard, there is just no getting back.
So some people just lay there facing the music.
One thing that might work is to get a hobby of sorts, something that would create a routine, something with progression system like in vydia, but IRL.
Here's a can in the hat, look at his whiskers!

>>226298
So, it's just give up and LARD?

>>226302
Yeah, sometimes I wish I would die and isekied into magical world, where I can start from scratch, with no regrets, clean and fresh start, sucks that we only live once, and I blew my chances away

>>226298
Yes, I agree with you. I've simply given up. Honestly, I have an elderly mother who feeds me and works for a living wage in my third-world country. When she dies, I'll be homeless or sent to an insane asylum (but I'll hang myself). I've already resigned myself to this. I spent a long time looking for work, trying to "get a couple of things done a day" or just somehow cope with life. But I realized that fighting is pointless; you can't defeat a system that's rigged against you (you can suffer from hunger and the like, it doesn't care, just like the normies do). I live in a small town and have a bad work history (I worked at the lowest levels when I was younger), but now, due to my health, I can't even do that (I haven't worked for over 3 years, and in fact, I've only worked for 2 years my entire adult life, since I'm 28). Plus, I live in an Eastern European country where you only need $500 a month to survive. My only chance is a $250 job at best. So why change anything? It's time to just accept that we're all going to die.

But I heard a good joke about a guy who's going to be beheaded tomorrow, and he decides to play sports in his cell. When asked "why?" he replies that he just likes sports. I realized the same thing about myself. I'll just spend the time I have free time enjoying myself. I don't have money for hobbies, so I'll just do what I have time for. And I advise everyone to do what they enjoy, because we're all going to die anyway. We're all going to die. We just have to accept that we're losers.

>>226222
>last job I got was 5 years ago
I have a job now and the looming threat of losing it by being sperg + everyone secretly hating me for being a sperg makes me want to kill myself. I'm destroying my body and swallowing my pride as a human being for a few measly slave bucks a week. I'll never get to make something of myself because the depression swallows me up and I have to save all of my energy for work.
My future is a black hole