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To those wizards that have managed to stay as NEET for extended periods of time; do you have any advice for an apprentice? I know I can outright refuse, but to do so would generate ill will and hostility, things that I would obviously like to avoid. For the last six months I have been making an effort to help with tasks around the house such as mowing the lawn, vacuuming the house and sometimes cooking dinner. It seems this way I am not viewed as completely useless. Any further tips, life experiences or suggestions are welcome.

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there's not much you can do, it all depends on the particular psychology of your parents. you can try to minimize your footprint, contribute to the household, make yourself invisible to avoid triggering angry outbursts, but at the end of the day, none of that matters if they just decide they don't want you there. milk it as long as you can, but it will eventually end and you should think about an exit strategy (in my case it's suicide).

if you have socially conscious parents i.e. normalfags, they care a lot about how they're perceived and their kids are basically an extension of their self-image, so they will pressure you a lot to get out and have a job and all the other normalfag milestones. even though practically cost nothing and you aren't demanding or a hassle, the fact that you are a stain on their self-image is enough of a motivator for them to fuck with you. every time some friend or family member asks them about how you're doing, they're experiencing humiliation and it lowers their perceived status. at some point, kicking you out becomes a way of saving face and they can practically disown you so you no longer make them look bad.

i guess if you're stuck with such parents, you have to give them a way out, an explanation of why you're just sitting at home instead of hustling and bustling with all the other normies. sometimes you can use the "mental illness" card, your parents might be able to garner sympathy for having a sick son rather than a good-for-nothing loser. doesn't work if they don't believe in psychiatry and also most of the time forces you to take psychoactive medication that can have side-effect, plus regular visits to some form of mental health practioner. of course, this doesn't last forever, since at some point they start asking when will you be fixed, but you can buy yourself a couple years with this. another one is online university or some such program, since they can "he's focusing on his studying". the point is to help them save face somehow.



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