Absent yet omnipresent, both overbearing and useless

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Absent yet omnipresent, both overbearing and useless Anonymage 09/01/26 (Tue) 13:51:29 No.229729

Just saw this while scrolling 4chan. My parents were exactly like that. Just wondering how true this is for any neets on this board?

My father is the single most negative person on the planet. He will often tell me that what I am thinking about doing is too much trouble and I shouldn't bother. He will poke holes in all sorts of plans I have. My mother does the same because she worries about me and then to deal with that she tells me all the things she is worried about happening to me as if it is helpful and she is protecting me from those things by telling me about them. In reality she is just instilling me with anxiety and doubt. Then they tell me to be a normalfag and am surprised when I can't do it. For many years I actually thought they were being helpful too, until I realized not being around them is like a weight has been lifted off my shoulders. My first reflex has always been to turn to them for advice because I lack confidence. I realized that was a massive mistake because the reason I lack confidence is because of them.

Did your parents meet the mold in pic related?

Anonymage 09/01/26 (Tue) 21:00:38 No.229732

Stop sharing your plans with people, they all want to see you fail, every single one no matter how much they claim to love you or whatever, nothing brings them more joy than seeing someone fail

Anonymage 09/01/26 (Tue) 21:35:09 No.229733

>>229729
This post is horoscope-tier vague and I think it applies to pretty much any bad parent as long as they didn't beat the shit out of you

Anonymage 09/02/26 (Wed) 02:04:49 No.229735

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>>229729
In a way this is a form of narcissist over-protective parents things, they do everything for you but never give you opportunity for independence or even, they never teach you anything useful for self independence. Sometimes do but its hard to do.
>Also
They can say its your fault at everything when you fail, you can take as example some form o common routine like time managment, be social, survival skill, cooking, any common thing that maybe healthy families and parents teach to their sons.
They can take you this to even your 20 years old, is like a abandonment of human life development but hidden and masked in a lot of ways.

Anonymage 09/02/26 (Wed) 14:27:15 No.229738

>>229735
>you can take as example some form o common routine like time managment, be social, survival skill, cooking, any common thing that maybe healthy families and parents teach to their sons.

It's interesting that despite how overbearing they were, they never taught me any of these life skills. They never even told me what jobs they thought were good just that I had to go to college and get a high paying one. Never taught me anything about finance, never really taught me any skills directly at all.

Anonymage 09/02/26 (Wed) 16:56:41 No.229740

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>>229738
Its being neglected in a lot of ways.
>Also
You can get a lot of these dudes in narcissistparents sub from plebbit, in avpd sub there's some people, in a lot of ways a lot of non functional normies and NEETs of these places have these form of parents.
Maybe my mother is like this, she just repeat "better study" than teach me anything and she doesn know how much it hurt so much to no know anything or learn useful things like common people, so i slowly learn with internet or by others. And yes she keep gatekeeping me to teach me, or teach one time and very bad with little patience
I learned later (12 years old) to tie my shoelaces so that say all, very dehumanizing and damaged self-esteem not big surprise, if you start to compare yourself with other more healthy or normies is the worst.

Anonymage 09/04/26 (Fri) 22:30:16 No.229745

>>229732
Yeah, you're right. I'm done telling my parents shit just so they can sabotage me and fill me with doubt and worry.

Anonymage 09/10/26 (Thu) 18:32:01 No.229792

>>229729
>Did your parents meet the mold in pic related?

It's THE recipe for baking the perfect 30khhv until the very moment this very 30khhv suddenly realizes if everything is a "sin" then… nothing is, since nothing stands out in this universe, because what is a sin? Everything is one. You have a need to reproduce? LUST. You want to eat some more food? GLUTTONY? You want to preserve some food for the next year? Whoops, also GLUTTONY. You want to hoard some nice figurines? Nuh-hu, LUST again!

The experience with dealing with such a leash makes people like myself believe everything is a sin - something a regular Jake or a regular Matt never goes through.

Bottom line is, yes. I do think my parents fit the mold. I am not some thug of a bandit though; had I been completely fatherless I would become a bandit but instead… I am just a wizard.

Anonymage 09/25/26 (Fri) 19:00:00 No.230066

>>229792
The entire point of "sin-ifying" every natural human behavior and animal instinct is to gain control over a population (because 100% of your subjects have animal instincts and urges).

In reality there is no sin and it's not any more immoral for a human being to kill another human being than it is for a lion to kill a weaker lion just for the fun of it.

Nothing matters in nature. All kinds of weird demonic species have been created through natural selection and they kill, steal and destroy as a way of life.

There are no repercussions for senseless violence except a stronger ape or group of apes incarcerating you. It's all a power balance of who can dish out the most violence, and in most cases that's the state itself.

Anonymage 09/26/26 (Sat) 02:59:18 No.230075

>>229738
>never taught
They can't teach you what they themselves don't know.

Anonymage 10/10/26 (Sat) 19:33:36 No.230288

>>229729
I feel…

>>229733

>This post is horoscope-tier vague
The OP-pic greentext hits home, though.

>>229792

… You know, that's just super-ironic how normies don't seem to understand a 30KHHV wizard may find *a reason to live* well outside of "normie" bread-and-circus stuff.

Reminder the story of a certain 30KHHV from ~2000 years ago has been normalized… and NORMIE-lized, too. They literally attend a circular building AND consume bread as a part of the ritual! It IS a bread-and-circus mass~

How ironic~

Anonymage 10/11/26 (Sun) 08:05:35 No.230312

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I think parents like OPpost ones were the reason someone wrote the Bible in the first place. As a drama. Not necessarily as a faith object, but as a tear-jay story. A story where absent-yet-omnipresent parent makes the sun too different from … the folk.

Anonymage 10/11/26 (Sun) 09:52:07 No.230318

>>230288
Same, if making it means to get married, become a debt and lifelong wage slave paying off a mortgage then no thanks, it's a choice for me, a choice to be free

Anonymage 10/11/26 (Sun) 14:59:54 No.230319

>>229729
>Absent yet omnipresent, both overbearing and useless
most parents were like that, and their children grew up to be normal (past tense because gen z&alpha are fucked by societal and economical collapse)
my parents are university grads and white collar workers, they expected me to be the same, I'm a compsci dropout with vague ideas about using AI to be self-employed/collect adsense money from my site, when I talk about it they're unconvinced, and tbh I am too, since I have no motivation to do anything, when I was trying to graduate at least I had deadlines to procrastinate, now I only wish I had money to buy electronics and an used car.

Anonymage 10/12/26 (Mon) 10:17:59 No.230327

>>230075
>They can't teach you what they themselves don't know.
They know. They know they've been suffering since before they became parents. They know they are poor in money and/or poor in assets, poor in mental and/or physical health, poor in education, poor in knowledge, poor in skills, poor in creativity, poor in love, poor in laughter, poor in meaning, poor in social connections, poor in exercising their will, poor in anything of value.

And yet…AND YET THEY DECIDE TO DRAG AN INNOCENT LIFE INTO THEIR HELL AND FEED THEM LIKE BATTERIES TO A SYSTEM THAT DOESN'T CARE ABOUT THE WELLBEING OF POOR, UGLY, USELESS, LOW STATUS BOTTOM FEEDERS. THEY DID THE SAME THING TO THEIR CHILD AS THEIR OWN PARENTS DID.

THAT'S NOT IGNORANCE. THEY KNOWINGLY AND WILLINGLY MULTIPLY THEIR SUFFERING AND FEEL GOOD WHILE DOING IT. THAT'S EVIL. THEY'RE NOT UNFORTUNATE VICTIMS WHO DID THEIR BEST THEY COULD WITH WHAT LITTLE MEANS THEY HAD. THEY ARE EVIL. EVIL. EVIL. LIVE.