>>304579I will tell you this only one time because others here are in much better shape or form when it comes to expressing these kind of thoughts in a much more sophisticated way. So the idea is that whoever said that to you, that you are 'tacky' has a huge advantage compared to yourself when it comes to communication from a general point of view. Their advantage is based in the fact that they liekly have much more occasions where they socially interact with others than you have. What this means is that they effectively hurt you by saying such a thing without you having much of a chance to redeem yourself. They on the other hand have so many different situations of interactions that they not only forget about it much faster, they also don't take this as seriously as you, for them it's not much of a big deal, while for you it is because it directly insulted you and they didn't even think about it much. The point is that let's say ever since you had 20 possibilities to insult someone else yourself or at least to be annoyed by someone else or criticise them, get upset about someone elses stupidity or their slowness or their misunderstanding or incapability and so on then you would forget being called 'tacky' much faster because you would notice that other people are tacky as well, that this whole thing of being called 'tacky' is never a personal fitting analysis of anything or even your character but instead nothing but a mindless way of the other person communicating their feelings or fleeting thoughts which they will have forgotten about tomorrow or the next hour. In short, don't be hurt by it because this is nothing but pointless vocal proposition that has no substance or analytic value whatsoever. Other peoples judgement in 99% of cases not only doesn't fit, it also is of not much importance for them, theyll forget about it the next moment. It's not even real.