/dep/ - Depression

They sound like massive faggots. Laugh at them.

Just dgafmaxx. Nobody can actually do anything to you as long as you don't break any rules.

>>305782
if i try that they get highly annoyed they just can't digest that its like those motherfuckers are addicted to my suffering and anger i can't win i'm in a bind.

>>305784
Stop showing them signs that you're suffering.

>>305785
i have a very serious demeanour face by default so people automatically assume i'm having a hard time despite being fine

i'm sorry op but in my experience it's impossible to btfo bullies. the only thing you can do is stop giving them dopamine and pray they have another prey to pick on. that's really your only option. i'm afraid you must learn, right now, how to be a very boring target. your life will never be the same afterwards though, likely not in a healthy way. sorry

Literally you should've involved the administration right from the first moment they filmed you, explicitly say you're harassed and being bullied. Organized a meeting between you, whoever the university version of HR is and the people victimizing you.

Then escalate if it happens again with a lawyer, you can go to the free legal services the government has, and get them to send an email detailing that you'll take legal action if this continues. As a resolution to the problem insist on no further communication or contact whatsoever with the people victimizing you, that anything they need they organize through the university HR.

Universities take this sort of shit seriously OP and that would've solved it immediately. because they know they're giga-liable for a law suit if there is a murder, violence or suicide after that point. ESPECIALLY if the people victimizing someone are filming it and posting it online. If you ever hit a stonewall with apathetic staff, an email from a lawyer really sets shit in motion.

>>305792
Siccing authorities on them and appealing to rules typically is what solves the problem. A lot of the "Hurr durr, snitches get stitches" rhetoric comes from bullies themselves as they know they'll actually fold to a higher authority. It's in their interest to seed a macho culture where people apparently solve problems directly.

A lot of the problems people face is that when the authorities don't take action, they fail to find another authority that holds them accountable. There's almost universally in western countries accountability in major institutions.

It's small companies and third world shitholes where this doesn't apply, where you have no choice but to eat shit unless you just leave the area. The worst sort of bullying abuse happens in mom and pop stores.

>>305794
Don't roast me but i'm from a shitty engineering college in India and authority management here is absolutely trash fucking degraded pigfuckers i reported them already the moment they did this to me but nothing happened and whole college has my stained image which bullies did.

Just ask for help. Your future might depend on your grades (don't stress about grades) so doing nothing is not worth it. It is worth it to ask for help, you lose nothing! Go through a list of the people you can trust or should be able to trust the most and contact them about your problem. they won't bite.


Do not stress. It will stop you from making changes out of fear. Find comfort somewhere that can encourage you to change your situation. Talk to an AI if you have no one else in your life.

Also if it really doesn't work out then just quit or switch college, ask for help about this if doing it. There are also a huge amount of learning resources online (Check out FMHY) and your government will in most cases invest in online education.

Do not get hooked on the idea of quitting college. Fixing your bullying problem should be your primary objective so that you can focus on studies. Though if switching / quitting college is the best alternative (ask people about it) and you live in India then NIOS and DIKSHA are some of the official initiatives by the Government of India (i just looked this up, don't trust me on this) and i assume NIOS will provide official papers on your education if you go that route.

I know these feelings all too well and it never gets better, I'm sorry to say, not even with medication. If you are destined to be gangstalked, there's nothing you can do. The stalkers are everywhere, they always have the upper hand and you will never defeat them.

Don't get stuck on the idea that you can't change anything.

>>305807
It's hard when half your life passes and the stalkers are still there. I can be alone in my house and offline and the stalkers in my head rent-free.

>>305808
Whoa. "In your head rent-free" sounds sadder than "Lain. 8th headmate."


Now, as a shoutout to that fella who peddles "military" approach to the problem, I requested an AI to make a sarge-themed check-up list to print.

Alright, Silly Bean, time to shake off those mental stalkers and *actually* make some moves! Here's your mission, should you choose to accept it. This isn't just about "wooing a gal," it's about reclaiming your life and kicking those inner demons to the curb. Consider this your "Operation: Get Out of Your Head and Into the World" checklist.

Phase 1: Clear the Runway (Mental Prep)

* [ ] Acknowledge the Stalkers: They're there, you know it. But they DO NOT control you. Write down their "greatest hits" – the negative thoughts, the fears, the doubts. Then, next to each, write a *counter-statement* – a positive, empowering truth. (e.g., "I'm not worthy" becomes "I am worthy of connection and happiness.")
* [ ] Therapy (Highly Recommended): Seriously. Talking to a professional about your anxieties, insecurities, and those relentless mental stalkers can be a game-changer. Find a therapist you click with. This is your secret weapon.
* [ ] Daily Mindfulness/Meditation: Even 5 minutes a day of focused breathing or meditation. This trains your brain to be present and to *observe* your thoughts without getting swallowed by them.
* [ ] Identify Your Value: What are you *good* at? What are you *passionate* about? What qualities do you bring to the table? Make a list. Remind yourself *why* someone would want to be around you.
* [ ] Self-Compassion Practice: Treat yourself with the same kindness and understanding you would offer a friend. Make mistakes? That's okay. Don't beat yourself up.
* [ ] Reframe "Stalkers" as "Negative Self-Talk": This helps you to take control.

Phase 2: Build Your Foundation (Self-Improvement)

* [ ] Physical Health: Exercise regularly (even just walks!). Eat relatively healthy. Get enough sleep. This makes a HUGE difference in your mood and confidence.
* [ ] Social Skills Refresher: Read books, watch videos, or attend workshops on building relationships and conversation skills. Practice makes perfect.
* [ ] New Hobbies & Interests: Find things you genuinely *enjoy*. This makes you a more interesting person and provides opportunities to meet others who share your passions.
* [ ] Dress for Success (Or, at Least, "Not Sloth" Mode): Start paying attention to your appearance. Not to impress others, but to feel good about yourself. Clean clothes, a decent haircut… it can make a difference.
* [ ] Clear Social Media (Optional, but Might Help): Clean up your online presence. Curate it. Present the best version of yourself.

>>305781
>start recording me whenever I react

Use very high-pitched Hz sound that interferes with microphones yet cannot be caught by human ear. I thing there is a device for that.

>a recording of me
AIslop
Your defence line? As a wizard who prolly needs a lawyer over "defamation" at this point? AIslop may be one of the defence lines.

There is a site to slap a Sоrа АІ watermark on a vid.

Bonus points if you add a little АІ filter.

>>305781
Also, check if your given name or surname or both *sound* Jewish and if you have *some* facial features of a Jewish person - say, an Ashkenaz jolly fella. Might be a literal case of anti… well, you know.

>>305781
Sorry you're going trough this, my friendu. I've never been dogpiled or gang-stalked to that extent, but I'd strongly suggest you look into some professional psych help for this kind of situation.

> Back when I was dealt with bullying and some light stalking in school, it was all start by a "friend". I knew his whole family, his issues, his insecurities - and more importantly, his address and bank info. Since I was younger, I didn't know how to ask for help or get even. Honestly, I don't even care anymore, not looking for revenge or anything like that. That scumbag is a total junkie now and is about to get clip*ed by a dealer anyway, lol.

>>305843
Not lie: If I wanted to, I could scrape all ther data online - social midia, pics, inner circle, phone numbers, addresses, banking info - and dup it all on a dark forum. People play good money for that kind of doxx. I could even use AI to cook up some deep fakes to wreck their reputations. I'd start a burner page targeting the top studentes at my high-school and let them spread the word about the absolute filth these people do around town. Of course, I'd have to be smart about it and cover my tracks, 'cause this isn't just fake - it's life-ruining territory – I once wrote this topic in my diary. Hate makes u want to do horrible things. But putting human trash in ther place feels like a full time job.

> Just my story, though. I'm not inciting anything. Like I said: get some professional help. Stay safe out there.