>>306726>Does yours has BPD or you suspect it?I’ve never suspected she has anything like a psychological disorder, but I do suspect she has childhood trauma linked to bullying, as she was bullied when she was little. I’ll describe her personality a bit: she’ll always judge you if you wear creased clothes; no matter what you do, she always judges you – she judges how you eat, she judges your hobbies, she judges your appearance, and basically, she once told me she shouldn’t have had me. She said that to me when I was 10, and it’s really affected me. When we eat with her, she’s always judging how we hold our forks. The worst thing is that my brother tells me I should put up with it and take more crap because “she’s my mum”. My brother is very submissive in that regard. My dad is nicer; he’s an honest man. He lets me get on with my hobbies and doesn’t judge me, although he does judge me if I do something that’s genuinely wrong. I’ll take your advice, anon. I remember giving a teacher who was always insulting me the silent treatment, and it worked.