/dep/ - Depression

my honest reaction:



IKR

>>310806

OH! I have another path to explore. They probably eat food that gives them some kind of food deficiency. I suppose.



>>310806
>My father: Total naive nimrod

Install some shit on his car that *looks like spying devices* even if it won't do shit.

Say, a nice antenna. A "GPS protected" sticker. Cheat stuff that deters most of tech illiterate guys like "kia boyz".

This, also, two real and two broken/used/fake GPS trackers. The chop shop guys will be in awe once they realize they got mogged back

>MY mother: She's even worse, she has all the same qualities as my dad but she's also mumbling to herself non stop. She talks 24/7 and that isn't a joke.

>mumbling 24/7

Last month, I read people who mumble things are more focused on the stuff they're mumbling about…

Giving her a *nice* note book may help. My mother does notemaking all the time.

These things that you have to say about your parents… Have you tried saying it too them? It's how adult men with strong opinions about someone typically go about expressing those thoughts. You're 29 years old, after all. And how exactly are their actions destroying you?

Sounds like dementia or the onset of Alzheimer's, fuck living with prion zombies

About november last year by boomer father started to rant about wanting to hurt people. Since then he's systematically excluded me from every social event, gloats to my face when we catch up about how he gets to see everyone and has everyone around. He is worth millions and has multiple relatives working for him, so when the order came they all ghosted me. Around june i rang up basically crying asking to be let back into the family and trying to work out what was happening, and he'd sneer basically laughing that it's all in my head. All the while he's been going around talking shit about how he hates me and how im a loser.

I cut them off around august once i realized i was being treated as a joke by a semi demented boomer and my phone just constantly blared. Like 4 times s day he'd ring for weeks. Dozens of phone calls, he even wrangled in the aforementioned relatives to try to contact me. I give in for one meeting with him just out of boredom and he kept on pressuring me to let him buy me things. I turned him down and played it friendly and within a week he was back to ringing me gloating and sneering and the rest are avoiding me again.

It's now six weeks later in october and ive cut him off forever. His company has less work and the relatives of current workers are all getting jobs, doing nothing. I'm certain my relatives are milking him dry and it's bizarre how i wasnt even working there and i became this devil figure/punching bag without realizing it. Idk im an autistic loser so family was all i had and it cut very deep.

When you're this hurt there isn't even anger left. You're just tired. It's not even like i could realistically talk to him anymore if i wanted. I feel at this point its quite literally a legal risk being anywhere near him. He is clearly on the verge of having all his money siphoned off him.

My parents were hoarders. I couldn't even use my bedroom closet because it was filled with old shit.
Goddamn it cripples you mentally living like that.

>>310806
1998 or 1997? if the former, yes you're a zoomer, if the later, no you're a millenial

>>310809
The GPS tracking stuff is barely worth it unless it's for insurance. You could hand all the hard evidence to the police on a silver platter, and they wont do shit 99% of the time. My mother can't read or write anymore ever since "the breakdown" she's not really functional. If she does write it's just swirlies and doodles.

>>310810
Yes, do you think those people I described are able to be reasonable? Lmao.

>>310811
Sadly they've been like this all their lives.

>>310859
Sounds like a nightmare. I don't know why so many of them are demented psychopaths who like to hurt others. I have a few like that in my family. As good as the perks of a family are, I'd rather stay away from that drama and bullshit. I'm happy to be left out, hell they've probably even forgotten about me.

>>310892
Aunt/Uncle are hoarders, it's so bad they have stuff stored on the grass verge and footpath lol. Also weird how the family gatherings were always held at their place, so we all had to just eat and drink on the footpath essentially as there was only room for 6 ppl inside.

>>310893
1997, im a zoomer

>>310909
no, 1997 is the last year of millenialism

>>310892
I'm a hoarder.

get a low paying job in the other side of the town and live in a box in someone's trash yard.

>>310920
google it. 1997 is gen z.

>>310924
i have a job, not possible

>>310859
Okay he just contacted me again all sympathetic and complaining about how all his other relatives are exploiting him. He's been really nice and offering to buy me lots of things again. It sounds like theyve been threatening to withhold grandkid visits unless he keeps sinking money into the business.

Idk I dont want to be entangled in what's clearly elder abuse.

>>310909
>unless it's for insurance
see? Insurance companies LOVE fighting that very
>You could hand all the hard evidence to the police on a silver platter, and they wont do shit 99% of the time

since insurance companies are, well, interested in not getting tricked.


>mother can't read or write anymore ever since "the breakdown" she's not really functional. If she does write it's just swirlies and doodles.

try looking for some other types of insurance lel

>>310806
I'm used to dealing with my damn parents like this I think my father is a devil he is alcoholic drunk and my mother is an evil witch I'm now 22 years old and often they scold me just because of trivial matters and my father also always hits me if I'm wrong and he's emotional and my mother always makes me stressed with her endless nagging and I'm just used as an outlet by both of them and everything is forbidden and I can't be free and it's like I'm locked up at home without being allowed to go out to breathe fresh air and feel what it's like to be a human being in general they chain me at home and keep blaming me for what they do themselves

>>310909

Weird for hoarders not to be ashamed.

>>310923

At least you're not inflicting your conditions on anyone.

>>311032
I am. My mother has to put up with it.

My mom will say she wants me to be happy but she cares more about outward display of happiness than actual internal states. Most people are probably like that.

both my parents were kinda mentally ill , but my dad was way more mentally ill.

im not gonna do a rant but my dad was a perma neet mental case who, while bein forced to be be out workin and scool, meets my mom and they had me.

dad wants to wander off. and wanders off for years.

my mom wants to be a carefree single lady so left me to rot w/ my grandparents

>>311017
This country doesn't do that. They'll take one look at my fathers history and automatically charge like 2k a month for insurance. Old people here are more retarded than the usual world population. He'll also sign up for anything. He has had a netflix subscription for 10+ years now because he wanted to watch ONE movie ONE time. He's kept it ever since and never used it again.

>>311019
There are so many shitty people who become parents, I can't stand it. Wouldn't you want to be cool with your own fucking blood? It's crazy. Even if you were a normie they would still find shit to get mad about, I'm sorry you're also going through it.

>>311059
"smile and dance, MONKEY!" is how I internalize it. Family has fights all the time but force us to post happy pictures of us.

>>311089
Sounds like a bad combo. Lots of weird men grew up in a time where they were able to get succubi pregnant and just did so because I guess it was the thing to do? Knowing full well they weren't built to have a fmaily or raise someone. I would never make children even if I could, how cruel it is to them. I must live on my own and follow my routines

>>311119

yea, i avent spoken to my emmm Dad, in a couple of decades, could be dead for all i know,

but ill probably never get an explanation for why someone who knew never wanted to work made a kid.

and neets will say yea awesome neet,

and i always say were your parents neets , reply errrrrrr Noooo

i was never taken to a dentist, never taken to an eye doctor, never taken to a doctor, etc….

i almost went into foster care,

i despise m mental case dad,

Your dad sounds incredibly endearing ngl, dont hate on them

>>311132
My mom died when I was 7 lol for reference

>>311132
You may have missed the part where I said he gives everyone money aside from his own family. It also implies he is kind to strangers but not to us, and that would be correct. He will talk shit to me ALL day for not meeting his standards despite the fact I work full time and do extra chores that aren't reasonably required of me such as taking care of extended family for NOTHING but contempt and insults. This moron let our drug abusing rapist uncle move in for free whilst charging me more to rent my own room. abuser uncle steals from my father and he doesn't care about it, but I drink too much milk suddenly I get yelled at despite the fact half the milk is bought by me anyway. He is an asshole and retarded

>>311223
Yeah you have a point, nevermind my original comment

I suggest you steal your dad's car and go live in it.