No.311000
They don't hate you, they just treat you like a stress ball. They like unloading on you, you're useful in that regard, but after they're done unloading, they don't want you to walk away from them, so they play nice for a time.
No.311002
Perhaps your belief that they hate you is just a delusion. Perhaps you interpreting them treating you like an adult man as being an act of aggression is part of this delusion.