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 No.276736

I live in a country [India] where the only real upwards mobility, or hell just not starving is a pretty big achievement in and of itself is only possible by having good grades. It is extremely uncommon to kick your children out here, not because of love but because of the "standing" of a family in the society, to leave your house is to be disrespectful to your parents for not being their slaves for the rest of your life.

My parents ("arranged" marriage) shout all the time, and even when they shout/fight for just a single hour a day, I am unable to focus on my studies for the entirety of the day and because of it I am on the verge of failing my college as I can't afford to live in a dormitory. Jobs for people in India after Grade 12 are virtually non-existent and incredibly low paying to the point that you would be lucky if you could manage to sleep on the footpath, if you could get one that is and also somehow all of them require 2 years of experience. The rates of NEET men and succubi are incredibly high here, they only survive because people live in joint families. One benefit of living with my parents is that I often convince my mother secretly to get me medicines for my asthma. And she keeps on insisting on frauds like Homeopathy and Ayurveda; because of those two I am here in the first place.

The only way I *might* get a job is after having a degree but then again I don't go to a good college and my course is not particularly prestigious. I am not allowed to stay in the college after 5 PM as I don't live in a dormitory. But I just can't study and that terrifies me, hell, my parents just might kick me out if I am unable to pass.

And in India, there is no such thing as social security, NEETbux, Food Banks, Safety Nets, Therapy (which is exclusively for the Upper Middle Class and Rich People), Community Housing, Jobs sponsored by the government, nothing of sorts. I would literally have to live in a slum, and I don't think I would ever be able to work without my asthma medicines.

I dream everyday of a good brother like friend (maybe I am trying to find a loving and caring father in someone else) who can help me by allowing me to stay in his house for a while, show me how the world works, and help me become an independent man. Now, I know in this world it's impossible and of course doubly unfair to ask an stranger for help.

With that being said, I do need some sort of help, and if the current trend continues, I will never be able to study, I will have to endure this forever or I'll be homeless. I have a real fear of dying at this point.

It just makes me really sad, that my parents were so abusive and my father even resorted to physically assault me several times when I was a kid, I still haven't recovered from that. Not to mention that majority of Indians don't give a shit when it comes to mental health. And I find it tough to let my views out on this sub as people here are generally from the first world and oftentimes I am unable to explain to the first worlders how much life truly sucks in the third world.

God, I daydream all day long, even when I am doing other tasks about someone saving me. Maybe some sort of god, alien, a brother, a succubus, whomever. And yet no help is coming. But the though of being save comforts me so much, I am never quite able to fully realise how truly delusional I am.

 No.276737

>>276736
You're a funny man, i wish you luck.

 No.276739

If you have a computer and access to the Internet, you should learn a skill that can be monetized online i.e. programming, design, video editing, writing, drawing etc. Shit, you can even scam people online for chump change and it will still pay more than whatever shit you can get in India. Since your country is a shithole, you don't even have to worry about income taxes.

Also, ditch all the bullshit excuses like psychiatric labels and "my parents yell so I can't study" bullshit. If you wanted to, you could find ways of doing it, but you don't care about your studies and it's just a way to please your parents. Figure out a way to make money online because that's the only real way out for third worlders. You might not know it, but through it you have access to the global economy and digital work is still work and pays a hell of a lot better than being a civil servant or even a doctor probably.

 No.276740

>>276739
Any idea where I can get started? Also, scamming seems to be really dangerous, as the American DOJ has filed several cases against Indian Companies, and India is not looking to jeopardise it's relationship with the United States, the Law Enforcement has been very stringent lately, and banking system is, dare I say thorougher and even more strict than the one in Western Countries.

 No.276741

>>276737
Thanks bhai, I wish you luck too.

 No.276742

>>276740
You can look up tutorials on YouTube and download paid Udemy courses on torrent sites. After you got a handle on a particular skill, make 2-3 examples of your work to use as a portfolio. Small scale project but polished as much as you can. Apply to job ads, sign up for freelancer sites, etc. While you're waiting for work, work on your own personal projects that can be monetized on their own. Maybe a blog, youtube channel, wordpress plugin/theme, templates etc. Those can make passive income for you. If you don't have any success online, you can always get a job in an Indian company for less money but more stable income, since these skills are in high demand.

As for scams, you can use Bitcoin as a middleman. Instead of transferring money to your bank account directly, buy bitcoin then sell it. You lose some money this way, but it's hard to trace. It basically looks like some random person paid money into your account. Only problem is taxes, but I doubt you'll be flagged unless you're transferring big sums. Also, with bitcoin you can also sell it in person and get cash in hand, but you could get scammed yourself. Preferably you would do it in a public place and make sure you aren't followed by some thugs.

 No.276743

>>276742
Will try to do all that, I am already learning programming but the thing is this, I can't really spare much time because of the fear of lagging behind in my college and pursing good programming skills in one language will take at least 4 months. But you're right, there's no harm in trying as I don't have much to lose except for college at this point. Blogs seem to be an interesting idea, although I don't know if I am good when it comes to write essays in English but they seem to be the easiest and something that is definitely worth trying. As for Indian companies, they just want their potential employee to have a degree from a good college.

And regarding scamming, can I do that alone? Majority of the scammers that I have seen generally work together, and have tons of capital (with regards to India) to begin with in the first place.

 No.276744

>>276743
From what you've said, you aren't studying much for school anyway. Now you're sort of paralyzed, procrastinating on school work while also not doing anything else because of fear of lagging behind in school. Whatever you do, just find something that "flows" for you, something that you don't need to motivate yourself and isn't a giant chore you wish to avoid, because that's the only type of work that's sustainable. Your parents probably won't kick you out, as long as they see that you're doing something, whether it's school or a course or just learning on your own.

When it comes to programming, degrees are a plus but usually a good portofolio of projects or a github or some other way of demonstrating your skills is more than enough to get a job. Once you have that first job on your resume, next job is easier with experience. You can always do an internship for a couple months and prove yourself that way. If you want to get paid work as fast as possible, learn Javascript because it's high in demand currently. You can learn to make functional websites in a couple months if you just focus on practical skills.

As for scamming, I wouldn't recommend a career in it, but isn't bad for making money on the side if you really need it. You can do it alone and as long as you keep it small, I doubt authorities will go out of their way to track you down. My impression is that those scam companies are usually set up to give scammers a way to clean their money. They probably don't give you much other than a computer, mic and some scripts they use.

 No.276745

The average human has nothing to offer, he is not really smart or physically talented. So don't be surprised if you fail, the average human fits slave labour.

 No.276746

>>276744
It's hard to find something that flows to be honest, as I am doing a degree in Computer Science albeit not a good one. It seems like freelancing is the only option in the third world as you need a degree to even be considered for an interview.

 No.276759

So many scamming advices in this thread.
Is this really what India is about ? A bunch of scammers ?

Shame.

 No.276769

What I don't get about third worlders is why they all grovel to large corporations and basically prostrate themselves, begging for a chance to wagecuck and be given a career. There's such a massive power disparity and there's obviously so few slots that it seems like a dangerous situation to be in even if you make it into that office. They could be dangling a threat of firing you over your head and milk you for what you're worth. They could basically threaten you into committing literal crimes because you spent 10 years getting into debt just to have a chance with them. Korea is basically destroying their society with this mentality and its bleeding their population dry with all this wasted effort.

Why don't more third worlders just start small businesses? That's what you more see firsties doing as they developed. Firsties bought some capital, worked long hours, buy more capital and filled a niche.

 No.276770

>>276769
idk you're so cynical about climbing the corporate ladder. and yeah the absolute power of bosses is part of the reason i'm neet. but then you have this idealism about small business. when the customer is the harshest boss of em all.

I mean I see plenty of entrepreneurs hawking their stuff in the poorest African countries, but I don't see any Samsungs.

 No.276773

>>276769
>Why don't more third worlders just start small businesses?
I'm guessing that lobbying by big corporations has made small business less profitable.
People don't consume groceries but each another, that's how the world works.

 No.276775

>>276759
Not really tbh. I was more curious if anything. Online jobs seem to be out of reach though. And scamming while being morally bankrupt is also legally dangerous.

I wish I could have an honest job that paid well, it would solve all my problems. The fact that there is no light at the end of the tunnel for a turd worlder like me depresses me. I am not a man enough to kms either.

 No.276781

>>276759
It’s what nihilistic westerners think. There’s many documentaries about scam industries in India and generally now good people find it soul crushing, and how they all try to convince the young why it’s ok. There’s plenty of legal scam jobs in the west if you ever find yourself on welfare being pushed on to one, convincing old ladies they need to spent $50k on a random home improvement/fix or insurance over the phone.

 No.276784

>>276781
Yeah, consultancy comes to mind. But overall there are a hell lot of jobs in the U.S. which are legalised corruption & thievery.

 No.276785

>>276736
You speak English so you can get a job as a tech support guy or something for a western company. Although honestly, isn't it normal for people to just live with their parents and do basically nothing? Might just want to angle for that even though it sucks. Having a job is a new kind of fresh hell, it is far worse than any sort of school or being NEET.

 No.276789

>>276785
Not really, that would require a degree as well lol, it's incredibly hard to get any job in this country/shithole whatsoever. We have some of the highest rates of NEETs and since the jobs are few and far in between they are almost immediately taken as soon as their are any empty vacancies. And somehow all the jobs that I manage to find on the internet and the handful of interviews I gave, I was rejected straight up for having no experience.

 No.276884

>>276789
Time to start lying straight up. Research and study up skills you'd like to have for the job, and then say you have professional experience doing that skill. Have a friend pose a professional reference. It's a shitty world and do whatever works.

And just curious, if there are so many NEETs in India, is everyone just living together with family? Is it "normalized" to be a NEET and hang out all day?

 No.276900

My mind cant comprehend how a country like India has hundreds of millions workers. I mean I live in Finland, probably 3m people Are employed.

 No.276908

Any Argie wizards? How do you manage?

 No.276920

>>276884
It's normalised living with the family. As most families are poor the people in them often do seasonal work, generally in the informal sector. Although if you are from a family which has respectable professions it's considered shameful to do jobs in the informal economy. It's better to NEET at that point. And we also have a law based upon the gender of the child. If you have a succubus who's an adult you can't legally kick her out.

 No.276921

>>276900
They are mostly illiterate.

 No.276924

oppic makes me seethe

 No.276925


 No.276931

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become a homeless wanderer-religious gymnast; a Sadhu, if you;re from india
im not being sarcastic at all…im serious and I would 100% do this myself if I ever got isekai;d into India with my current brain.
explore forests, the worst urban slums, eat anything, be naked and smoke all day.

 No.276946

>>276931
you can do that in south america fucktard, so why are you still posting?

 No.276948

>>276946
you must PRAISE me ,because Im celibate.

 No.276964

>>276931
Honestly would do this if I lived in a poor country. Just become ungovernable, as long as you aren't in a violent hellhole you will be fine, this is why >>276946 is retarded. You can't do this in latam without getting beheaded by a cartel.

 No.276967

>>276964
no thats BULLSHIT
cartels rarely kill random homeless -they prefer to get them hooked on drugs-
cartels are businessmen, not serial killers

 No.277079

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OP here, just witnessed a br00tal incident few hours ago, I was returning in a local transport to home and there was this beautiful stacyjeeta sitting near me, a succubus approached her and asked her if she would like to work for an airline as a flight attendant, she gave her some sort of business card, and told her that she could easily get 50,000+ INR per month and benefits.
>MFW my entire household of 5 survives on 23,000 INR a month.
Holy shit, some people literally get their lives handed to them. Meanwhile, I am rationing wheat. Goddamn it man, all I need are some balls to kms.

 No.277081

third worlders are the worst

 No.277084

>>277079
>50,000+ INR

I make that in a month just from staking my crypto

 No.277087

>>277079
shes gonna get trafficked
are you retarded

 No.277089

>>277087
You don't know that

 No.277091

>>276739
That's a waste of time, chatgpt is the pajeet holocaust, why hire indians that can barely understand English when chatgpt can do it better and cheaper.

I honestly think that India will collapse when all the pajeets have nowhere else to run after chatgpt and similar AI's take over.

 No.277092

>>277087
Nah, she's gonna go and apply on LinkedIN or Naukri.com, use the code on the card as referral, give an interview, get selected, post lots of reels on IG, live her life till 35, stay in good 4 star hotels, paid by airline, do lots of hookups, buy duty free, make posts about how Indian Men are bad, would fuck an India criminal on the side, and when she's done she's gonna go back home and would ask her parents to arrange an IT betabuxx who would get a video of her fiance giving a blowjob to his big cock one day before marriage, the IT collie would rope.
>>277091
Correcto.

 No.277093

>>277089
you are fucking pathetic for considering a putrid sack of bilis and pus beatiful
honestly go become a naked homeless ascetic with 15CM long nails and playing with snakes in an himalayan cave
git gud

 No.277113

>>277079
Kek foids live on tutorial mode. Literally have everything handed to 'em. And then say "Oh gee, the world is unfair sweaty; deal with it". Surprisingly, these kind of comments always come from someone who has never been on the wrong end of unfairness. It's over.

 No.277114

>>277113
>It's over.
If hetero sexual men giving more charity to females than they do to you makes you say "It's over", then it truly is over (for you), crab.

 No.277115

>>277079

>being indian


Makes sense that some of you post here, but protip this sounds like a scam and she is probably going to be raped. This was how my sister's friend was raped, I mean literally raped (held down and used by several men over the course of several hours) after she was offered a "job" for some shitty regional airline by a pilot, and she was too dumb to realize she was walking into their yearly party/event where they do nothing but drink and fuck. Police believed her but because she was in a shithole area, nothing actually came from her report because other foids claimed she consented (I personally don't think she did, but she enjoyed it anyway). This is the sort of hole that either regresses into drugs and coprophilia or becomes a true bimbo. She went the former route and is now dying from it lol. My sister ended their friendship shortly after this, because it was "too much emotional bullshit" from her. This was an important experience for me as it showed me exactly what succubi are.

I don't know how it is in India but in the US and West, flight attendants aren't exactly a job for pretty people. 9/11 took a massive toll on the industry, due to the real safety concerns and generally shitty passengers the only cunts who become flight attendants now are succubi too young/stupid to know or hags that couldn't make it as cargo loaders (which actually make more money where I live, about $65,000/yr base and $80,000/yr for supervisors). Airlines don't just recruit random pretty people off the street, especially when there's an extended background check airline employees have to go through now.

 No.277118

>>277115
She didn't got recruited directly but she got a referral from other succubus. Because of which she'll hundred percent get recruited besides, I looked it up, she doesn't have to go to the airlines first but to police to get a background check report and then to the ministry of aviation. When that is done, she'll probably go for the interview. Tell you what, if one thing that India has done well is that airports are quite secure. And she'll have to apply on the airline's official website first.

 No.277144

>>277114
It was a succubus though.

 No.277148

>>276736
What does ayurveda say against asthma?

 No.277151

>>277148
inhale cow farts

 No.277193

>>277148
Eat warm honey every night.
And a small piece of garlic heated over a stove with salt.
>>277151
kek

 No.277213

OP have you gone to the "rat temple" ? do you want to go?
become a volunteer at the rat temple. the rat temple is cool.

 No.277319

>>277213
Last thing I want is to be caught up in a cult kek.

 No.277367

>>277358
Pasta aside, I think my bigger problem is not being able to wage slave.

 No.277369

16,000 km separate us, I don't understand your language, your culture, or anything about your country, with the exception of one thing, third worldism and poverty.
Look OP, if you finish your studies you will go to work for a company, and you will earn 2 coins while you kill yourself working to continue enriching a parasite. What I would do in your case is something very simple, I would grab some money, and I would go to the fields, and I would buy potatoes, onions, oregano, etc., and I would sell it to the local greengrocers, since the people are poor, and no matter how poor people are, they will need to eat. But if not, you can also buy products directly from the producer such as clothing, technology, tools, or whatever they produce in your area, and sell it directly to retailers, and through Facebook.
With this you will earn a lot of money. Buy from the producer, sell to the retailer.

With all the money you earn save it and keep it, you still live with your parents and you don't need to spend it.

 No.277371

>>277358
Yankee stop obsessing over race, the OP just asked for help.



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