/wiz/ - Wizardry

>>223184
THIS, it's called exposure therapy, i fixed my severe noise sensitivity thanks to it.

>>223162
I understand, but doing that is extremely difficult for me.
>>223163
What about planning for the future? Even if you accept everything, how do you not get paralyzed making decisions if you're attached to the feelings the little things you have give you?
>>223184
Did that work for other things too?

>>223203
>I understand, but doing that is extremely difficult for me.
what part of it do you find difficult?

IS ASUKA HAPA OR NOT?????

>>223208
I think so. Why?

I still miss coffee tbh. i have some but i avoid because drinking it on empty stomach makes me sick. otherwise im doing pretty fine eating less.

protip: you dont actually need that much food to live.

>>223201
He need a mininal amount of calories and nutrients, he could get calories heavy foods and somd full multivitamin to complement, that wouldn't cost that much if done rigjt

stop drinking & smoking and just eat beans and rice and other cheap food.

Where do you live mate? Just go say hi to your local Sikhs

>>223171
Tried it and my body felt weaker.

Now I eat lots of meat/steak and lots of dark green vegetables. I sleep better, no brain fog and slightly happier.

I no longer eat bread at all.

>>223189
>lots of dark green vegetables
>literally oxalate
cut it now

>>223190
Oxalate overload is only an issue if juicing lots of it saily. I avoid juicing.

>>223199
Daily

>>223199
Hm okay then. What are your proportions (cm/kg)?

Psychology isn't "psychologists" I like psychology but do not really like any psychologists.
Write in depth all your issues/history/symptoms and put it in an LLM like a claude project or grok deep research.
Ask it to find specific studies that have been done to improve your symptoms and what techniques helped and find those and start doing them.
There's the obvious lifestyle stuff (makes a big difference), meditation, I haven't lookd as much into agoraphobia. (It's distinct from social anxiety/AVPD which I know more about) Agoraphobia is a subset of panic disorders but like I said.
Just write something as in depth as you can about yourself, your issues then ask for specific actionable steps known to help with it.

>>223091
I am a 21 year old NEET and I suffer from the same situation anon. I haven't left the house for months, I don't want to meet anyone, I can't even if I wanted to because I have no one except my own family. From May 2023 to February 2024, I spent most of my time working, but during this time I was going from home to work and coming home from work, but I was not doing any outside activity. Not my own parents, but other relatives think that I am working on an important project when they know that I do not leave the house, whereas I am scrolling the mouse wheel all day. I think there is no more pathetic person in this world than me.

>>223177
Funny pic, except for the last part. There's nothing "easy" about having a family or kid if you're a scroller who's been stuck on imageboards 12 hours a day for decades.

>>223179
>scroller who's been stuck on imageboards 12 hours a day for decades.
What causes this?

>>223091
the problem you describe OP is something I've never managed to overcome and I've just accepted its par of who I am. my life is structured around avoiding people and the outside world as much as possible. imo, my experience with treatment is this:

- the kind of meds you need to feel comfortable outside with this kind of anxiety have to be stupidly strong
- and stupidly strong means addictive (whether its benzos or ssris) – its not worth it

it might be treatable with years of psychotherapy. if it means anything when i was forced to participate in the world more due to having to survive in a foreign country i did things id never have imagined. then its just like… little by little you start to withdraw… until even doing small things is hard again.

maybe the frog out of water approach is best where its a do or die kinda thing. its terrifying and extremely hard at first but thats also what makes it so effective. i think small steps you will just avoid tbh.

>>223120
I've taken to the pics. Had a suspicion all along I never really liked females, and this discussion we've had resolved it.
Que le Japon vive bien.
Anime really is great.
Les « femelles » sont meilleures que les femelles.

I'm not repulsed by sex per se, I'm just baffled that it exists. I noticed that I relate less and less to sex-havers as I get older. It's like sex is some inside joke or a card to a premium club, and I'm not a part of it. If that's the case, then thanks, I'm out.
You can hate crabs, but they are right about teen love. Not experiencing romance in a certain age alters your psyche permanently and it gets even more intense with age. I disagree on the part that it's a bad thing. Normalfags would do crazy things, dangerous things, to have some of that action. They would endure abuse from their partners, get treated like pieces of meat and stick with people who want nothing to do with them, only because they are afraid of loneliness and want sex. Loneliness makes or breaks people. We are social creatures, after all. It breaks normies, but it also breaks crabs. Me? Us? Yes, it dented us. Not even dented, but molded into different people. Granted, most of us are schizoid probably, so loneliness didn't kill us. That's why I say that it's not a bad thing.
Anyway, that's why I say if you miss it early, you have less and less chances with time. You get molded slowly, so slow that you don't notice it, until it's too late and you get your wizard powers. Then, the divide between you and sex-haverd is so great that you realize that you didn't want sex in the first place. It becomes something so elusive, it gives you an ick. When you start thinking this way, you already passed a threshold. You were always different (ugly, autistic, whatever), but now you can't connect with fellow human beings over something as natural as having some sexy tike.

>>223120
>The poster
which is probably you because you write in the same obnoxious way.

>Whether intended or no, the projection of his masculine self will always appear, coloring the psyche of his drawn female character male.
never mind, you're not him because this is a simple and straightforward argument, whereas he only put forward convoluted ones, and though your writing style is annoying, it's still transparent, whereas his seems to be deliberately trying to obfuscate his arguments, probably because he's aware their extreme weakness would be evident if written in a clearer, more transparent style.
anyway, to address your argument, it is undeniable that every female character a male creator creates will be in some way shaped - or "colored", in your words - by his masculinity, but the way in which it is shaped is not in she being male, but usually in the sort of female he finds most attractive, or endearing, etc., both physically and psychically. so, for example, if he's specially attracted to females with large breasts and wide hips, then his 2d character is very likely to look like that. if he likes females who are meek and subservient, or maybe dominant and sadistic, then his 2d character is also very likely to be like that. and that is so precisely because he's not gay. so it will be "colored" by his masculinity, but in the opposite way of the conclusion you want to draw from it.
now, you might object that "you can't call that a female proper", as you say further below, because no succ is fully like that, but the same thing can be said of their physical appearance. no 3d succ looks like that because they represent an ideal of femininity to men that could never be physically actualized within the demiurge's world, and since that poster concedes that they are physically female when he says "in all but body, they are men", then using that same logic we also have to inevitably conclude that they're psychically female, even if no 3d succ's psyche could ever fully embody that ideal.

>See pic
okay, but what does that have anything to do with hume? if anything it seems very unlike hume to rely on holy scripture and fromit it to deny a sort of "univocity of masculinity" or of whichever other quality which can't be justified by sense perceptPost too long. Click here to view the full text.

what trauma did you have to be terrified of sex?


only people with trauma or who've suffered from abuse would be scared of sex, that means you're sick or have a mental problem that needs resolving

I wouldnt say terrified but ever since I found out what it is I knew that there is something wrong about it. Like its a morally wrong thing to do and this also shows in the language. Some examples: its said that when you have sex for the first time you lose your innocence. losing is overall a bad thing, switching from "innocent" to "guilty" is also a bad thing.
also everytime some shit happens people say "fuck" and fucking is just a different word for Sex, "I'm fucked", "I get fucked over" and many more such examples and always negative.
There is also sexual violence which is also seen as something bad and what counts as sexual violence and what not is a blurry line that people can make up as they go.
so my conclusion is that Sex is an evil thing and if you partake in it you are losing in multiple ways like roasties having leverage over you and its also addicting and when has addiction ever been something good?

I was mocked for stuttering in junior high.

The worst was when I was looked at like I was pure garbage. Not even a person.

>>223032
I'd let Mona emotionally abuse me all day

In elementary school I heard one saying I'd be a virgin for life.

I don't really find it hurtful though, but it's the worst I can think of.

>>223173
thats harsh for a elementary school

>>222427
Soviets in Germany raped any succubi, but if there was a choice, first thing's first they go for the more attractive ones. And then in one Soviet camp, there was a case when newly arrived prisoners before going to their cells (or shortly afterwards) were looked at by the local criminal boss and the most handsome among others were told to go with the thugs. The boss was almost drooling and sneering.

Once they returned to their cells, they sat in a separate corner together, sobbing and shaking. Exclusive prison bitches/punks/petukhi to the thugs. In some cases, rapists not only rape to just dominate without any care for the beauty, although they still do it to dominate. Who knows what Diddy did to Justin Bieber.

Black wrestler Keith Lee was raped by a white succubus who noticed him singing karaoke at the bar. Liked his voice and spiced his drink, he never went to bars and clubs again ever since.

>>222442
Fucking brutal mate.

I am from a country where peado shit is not even taken as a major offense. Majority of beautiful boys in villages get raped. If don't get raped they face sexual harassment for years and years. And threat of rape always hangs in the air. If godforbid kid is poor and besutiful then it is fucking over. He is in for sufferings of the whole earth. Being born as a beautiful boy in these places is a life long curse.

Society's fucking brutal.

neurotipicality is strongly correlated with physical attractiveness
so you're not wrong on that one

probably not, considering that >30yo virginity is uncommon.

>>223161
It *was* rare. It isn't and will not be rare in the post 1996 generation who are 29 now.

>>223080
With this statement your lack of understanding is clear; there are no sides, this is not a war, ascend the normal faggotry or rot.

>>223077
I'm disabled, so when someone asks me if I work I tell them "No, not anymore. I'm not all there in my head." And they usually just drop it or take pity on me.

I just lie and say I'm working. I've been lying and telling everyone I work for the last five years but I have been collecting NEETbux.

>>223149
wow you really showed that boomer
stupid wagie should of choosed to be born in a place with neetbux

>>223079
sounds like you're deeply affected by what this random OP is saying

Therapy kikes want to gaslight you into becoming a tranny or trying to coax you into taking the covid jew jab.

>>221020
I'd say therapy has been moderately helpful for me overall. It does 100% depend on your therapist though. It's cliche but most are only in it for the money and will just try to make wild interpretations about your state or assumptions. The good ones mostly listen and nudge you into self contemplation whenever you're falling back into bad routines and thinking patterns. A good therapist will not try to tell you specifically what to change. They might give suggestions, again, nudge you to break your mental patterns but from your own initiative. That's why it's often said that therapy also is dependent on how much work you are willing to put in.

I did find it useful to get me out of the NEET hole.

Found the most useful kind was essentially improved adulthood; i.e. isolating and adjusting the bad habits I grew up into that due to different circumstances no longer made sense.

Needed psych intervention a few times post-NEET when things went to shit and it wasn't quite so helpful. Meds were more useful by letting me *sleep* instead of stress out about everything and wear myself out with nightmares, which in turn gave me the physical strength to reduce the stressors.

If your head is on straight and your life strategies are both sane and without dysfunctional delusions, therapy probably won't help much. If you're involuntary NEET because you never really got past the tipping point of required skills and strength as an adult, it might be useful.

>>221020
I am a former neet who went to therapy and found it very helpful, so yeah it can be helpful, but it depends and not everyone's situation is the same. I took my therapy very seriously and I feel that I had a pretty good fit with my therapist. I actually am still going but we are probably ending soon.

>>221020
In general I'd say no, but I have a disorder that requires a specific form of treatment (OCD). I tried it on my own, but I must've been doing something wrong because the thoughts just didn't stop. The only reason I went to a "professional" in the first place was so I could do it "the right way". In the end it was all up to me anyway, I either choose to engage in compulsions or I don't. But I will say, there's something mildly cathartic about dumping all your problems on an "expert" and having him sort them out for you.

Wankers are ostracized. As it should be. Suck to be one.
But I am 20 years into being looser.
Sorry sorry sorry.
No job, bad attitude, no skills.
Also hopo in different country, where people think I am retarded, but I am just undecent sociopathic psych to get +1iq for that.

Only idea about my future is to buy one way ticket somewhere and hope I could find a place to live in and food. But one year ago I did that abandon all the hope, gate of hell thing too.

>>223072
Normalfag psyop. Loneliness is pervasive in modern culture because the culture itself is poisoned and designed to produce unhappy, consumerist slaves that are trying to fill the emotional hole in themselves by paying thousands of dollars on therapy, sports with people that spread the contagious modern culture, "experiences", etc. The solution is isolation, solo meditation, and avoidance since it removes the poisonous stimuli.

>>223072
No. I have had enough of playing normie games. I don't want to desperately seek acceptance from people just to be accepted at the bottom of the hierarchy out of pity. That's like telling a crab to just have confidence and talk to succubi only for him to settle with a 3/10 single mother who cheats on him. It's better to be alone at that point. I'll make social isolation work.

>>223130
personally, that's what i did and it mostly worked, tho it sounds like a contradiction
i only ever felt lonely when surrounded by normalfags, by myself i feel perfectly content
but i guess it wouldn't work if your loneliness is of a different kind
i only say "mostly worked" because sometimes i do think it would be nice to have a deeper connection with a like-minded individual, but i'd certainly never find something like that among normalfags