>>303218It's crazy how much of this just looks like "he is a lazy retard" from the outside when it takes more energy for a simple step than it takes for others to walk the whole road ahead.
I tried many things, bought many tools, set things up for myself to start a path, but I get stuck in mental loops until I reach a breaking point and give up.
I feel shackled by this basically all my life and it affects every aspect of it to the point where inaction and quietly rotting away became preferable to the torment of choice and the overwhelming obsessive thoughts that action spawns.
A stupid example would be a hobby I tried getting back into. Card games (yugioh) were a huge part of my childhood.
Now as an adult every part of it is driving me to the brink of madness.
The acquisition of cards, the storage of them, sleeves, double sleeving them, making and learning decks.
Preparing for the "event", the logistics of it all, then going there, the interactions and actually playing.
All of this, ever step of the way is a new torment.
Cardstock is also poor quality so they curl, bend whatever from humidity and it's making me mad. Sleeves are uneven so they might be considered marked. Stuff like this. The social aspects and storage/management too.
Then I see random people showing up with filthy sleeves, unwashed hands curled and damaged cards they can barely even read due to the language barrier have a time of their life enjoying the game without a second thought.
Yet here I am obsessing over everything, killing myself in the process.
Making simple decisions like what decks to play, what characters to pick in a video game also send me for a loop that fries my brain until I uninstall.
This has been a theme since childhood.
I could never progress much into MMOs because I'd keep rerolling, same for games, same for life… I started a degree for 3-4 different things, and other schooling that I never finished.
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