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 No.296810

Does any of you get irritated with family gatherings or when guests come to visit you in your family's house?
I am 24 years old, little to not school education, no job, whenever I am with some relatives or in some family gathering I can sense how much they look down at me for being a massive loser, even if they almost never express it directly at all, since I was a child I would always be asked by them questions like "how are you doing in school?" or "are you getting any good grades" Of course they no longer ask me such question, But I still feel a lot of shame when I am around them, I try to avoid sitting with them like the plague

 No.296815

yeah, i can feel this psychic pressure being applied to me when normalfags are in the room. they don't even have to say anything, you know you're being measured against a standard that you don't believe in but your brain has evolved to push your towards conforming so there's always that internal conflict that bubbles up as anxiety and shame. the only thing that seems to help is just leaving the situation. solitude is such a blessing.

 No.296818

>>296810
Aye, it feels like an interrogation, and the more distant the family, the worse questions they ask. Sometimes I wonder if they are curious, or if they just want to listen to a freak mumble for the kicks. I mean they get these demonic smiles when they're listening to me, like children watching a rat try to escape from a bucket of water.

>>296815
>being measured against a standard that you don't believe in
so much this
and I'm sure they pick the questions they know I don't have a good answer to, like they already know, but want to hear me admit it

 No.296853

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the worst thing is when you are with your family relatives who are in the same age as you but have achieved far more than you, it's almost crazy seeing the people who you were once in the same level as become vastly successful compared to you

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>>296853
leaving family relatives aside, there was a guy who I used to play C.S source with in 2018, he bought his own place in 2022, and he is in the same exact age as me, i know i sound like a failed normie, but i don't know how can you repress the feelings of shame in such situations.

 No.296870

>>296853
and its even worse when these relatives are younger than you and are more accomplished. Like I have many cousins that are younger than me but they have careers, they are married and have children and their own families, they go on vacations and have money and technically some of their kids already reached milestones that I never got to, yeah so meanwhile I'm older and dont even have 1% of their shit.

 No.296871

>>296870
being an uncle and a massive loser must feel like shit at times

 No.296872

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I've avoided all contact with my family. They only make degrading comments about my sexuality (voluntary celibacy) and my lifestyle (NEET). As a highly sensitive wiz, I'm easily affected by vulgar language and attitudes. Living in a third-world country and a low-income area, people with a genetic predisposition towards physical and verbal violence are common. I practically live locked in my room, avoiding people as much as possible and only going out when absolutely necessary

 No.296873

>>296872
where are you from ? (may i ask)

 No.296874

>>296871
My elder sister (she has a daughter) refused to take my calls and it feels like nothing at all because I don't feel like being a family goy in any capacity. My existential problems first.

 No.296875

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>>296872
stay strong anon

 No.296881

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>>296873
South America
>>296875
Thanks wizbro

 No.296884

Don't be a wizard unless you really have to
This isn't a good life.

 No.296885

>>296884
Pretty much this.
>>296810
Bro I am literally losing my family. Most of my family consists of accomplished doctors or engineers who went abroad. In India a lot of things revolve around family, its a major part of life here and meanwhile I haven't earned a single rupee in my life and I study at a shut college because of my shitty grades and I am bad at academics because I can't remember information for my tests and exams. Meanwhile my cousins are making six figures in America and have been happily married and are raising kids. And I can't make a life for myself here. To be honest with you, I have lost the will to live our do anything. I am not suicidal or anything but I won't mind if I go to sleep and don't wake up tomorrow.
What's worse is that my immediate family is poor too. So I would have to quickly figure out something to do. But I don't know what. Almost everyday is the same. And slowly I inch closer to death.
A lot of other responses in this thread has covered the problems.

 No.296888

>>296884
why do you imply being a virgin and disregardging females and sex means you are going to be a unemployed person or a mini-wagie?

 No.296890

>>296888
Being ugly (which most wizards are) and a virgin directly relates to being unemployed or stuck in a dead-end job because both are products of the vicious cycle of social rejection and systemic bias that unattractive people face throughout their lives. Society’s obsession with appearance impacts every facet of life, creating ripple effects that stretch far beyond dating or relationships. From childhood, unattractive individuals are treated worse—facing bullying, exclusion, and a lack of positive reinforcement. This hinders the development of confidence, charisma, and social skills, all of which are crucial for professional success.

Blackpill confirms that attractive individuals are seen as more competent, trustworthy, and capable, even when qualifications are identical. Employers subconsciously prefer hiring attractive people and are more likely to mentor and promote them. Conversely, unattractive individuals are often dismissed as unfit for leadership or client-facing roles, regardless of their actual skills. The lack of romantic success, symbolized by virginity, compounds this issue. Virginity often reflects broader social isolation and a lack of intimate relationships, which translates into poor interpersonal skills and lower relatability—qualities employers value highly in team-oriented or customer-facing positions.

This bias doesn’t stop at hiring. Attractive people benefit from constant validation, which reinforces their confidence and charisma, creating a virtuous cycle of upward mobility. They also gain access to better opportunities through social networks, mentorships, and informal referrals. In contrast, unattractive individuals are excluded from these networks, forced to rely solely on formal applications where appearance again works against them. Repeated rejections and career stagnation further erode their self-esteem, creating a feedback loop of despair that affects every aspect of their lives.

The impact of looks extends far beyond employment. Unattractive individuals are judged more harshly in legal proceedings, receive worse medical care, and are less likely to be trusted by peers or authority figures. They face chronic stress and poor mental health from repeated rejection, which diminishes their motivation and productivity. The resulting physical and emotional toll makes it even harder to break out of the cycle, leading to stagnation in both personal and professional spheres.

The connection is clear: unattractive people, particularly men, are systematically marginalized in ways that affect every area of life, from education and health to employment and relationships. Society rewards attractive individuals with unearned advantages, from better grades in school to higher salaries and leadership opportunities. For unattractive people, every rejection—whether in love, friendships, or job applications—feeds into a vicious cycle of exclusion, failure, and hopelessness. It’s not just about being a virgin or unemployed; it’s about living in a world where appearance dictates your worth and opportunities at every turn.

Tldr: Being ugly puts you in a vicious cycle, causing you to not lose your virginity, causing you to withdraw from society, lack of any appreciation or supportive group usually means that you weren't good at studying and had no real motivation to do it, because attractive people have massive positive reinforcement, they usually end up at good places because of it, and uggos who have no positive reinforcement end up in a worse place, and also not being a virgin is also related with low-inhib (something that matters greatly)

I can't exactly explain it properly, as I am an ESLet, and I have also lost my ability to articulate things so it's like in my head, I know the answer lol but I can't explain it properly, sorry to make you read all of that.

 No.296901

>>296890
possibly the best post i read on an imageboard website

 No.296902

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>>296890
basado

 No.296903

>>296890
Lookism conspiracy crabbery. Most people are very ugly. Ugly people have just a fair enough chance at """""success""""" and """""status"""""" as normal looking people do. Stop blaming your brown skin and your dry dick as the cause of why you got turned down from McDonalds. If you act at all IRL like how you type, then that's probably why you feel discriminated against. It has nothing to do with your looks and ebil gnomies can't sniff out your virginity.

 No.296904

>>296903
They did in before the 2010s. Today a guy like Danny deVito aged 20 would be an íncel browsing messageboards all day and employers would just laugh at him.

 No.296905

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>>296810
all my friends and family members now have a fuckbuddy and they constantly ask me why i dont have a walking talking fleshlight

 No.296906

>>296905
a fuckbuddy? Like someone who they agree to just fuck sometimes..what a fucking bunch of lucky normalfags. that's why normalfags and oucast people like wizards live in a different world

 No.296907

>>296890
>
I can't exactly explain it properly, as I am an ESLet, and I have also lost my ability to articulate things so it's like in my head, I know the answer lol but I can't explain it properly, sorry to make you read all of that.
just use google translate your first language

 No.296908

>>296890
based and truthpilled. Low iq niggers will cope and tell us to self improve when society rejected us from day one. Smartphones and internet have made this society the most superficial on existence.

 No.296909

>>296890
The last sentence in your post gave it away that you are too low IQ to come up with the text yourself and used ChatGPT by prompting it to explain "how are ugly men disadvantaged in society".

However, the ChatGPT text is accurate and nothing about it is incorrect.
All those effects of physical repulsiveness are very real. And ultimately lead to wizarddom as well.

 No.296910

>>296907
>>296909
I did use some Google Translate. However, I wrote most of it myself. I don't know if ChatGPT outputs contain "blackpill" written in them. Although here is the thing, I have indeed lost my ability to articulate my thoughts even in my native language; see these posts as I posted earlier here >>296062 and here >>296896

 No.296911

>>296810
Hehehe, my aunt used to always tell me to become a doctor or engineer when I grew up, but I am way past schooling years and I lack even a H.S diploma, I once called her on phone and she almost cried at my situation, but I can't care enough, plenty of people manage to obtain fancy degrees but end up being unemployed or working in minimum wage based jobs especially if they lack the connections or have autism (like me)

 No.296913

>>296910
>I used Google trad
oh ok
also I relate to you when you said
>I have indeed lost my ability to articulate my thoughts
because I think its the lack of training my brain

 No.296931

I knew that I was a loser when my body forced me to barge in the middle of a dodgeball game among my classmates, steal the ball from them and run as far away as I could. None of them chased me, and the thought of tackling me never even occurred. There was always a misanthropic impulse, a desire to spite their indifference towards everything.

 No.296938

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Is there even a Point in college degrees anymore since it's crystal clear that connections are way more important than degrees?

 No.296961

>>296931
Why would you do that? I think they were confused rather than indifferent…

 No.296962

>>296938
people just say "and college is where you get connections, anon. so be sure to socialize and go to all the parties hehe"

 No.296972

>>296938
I got my job thanks to my uncle who knew some rich boomer, so I ended up wageslaving in his company, I was lucky my family helped me

 No.297192

>>296890
This post is so true that I want to take a screenshot of it to print it and hang it on the wall.

 No.297300

>>296810
almost 30, family has given up on me and wants little to nothing to do with me

 No.297304

>>296901
It's too long and not racist enough



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