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 No.306232[Reply]

You guys ever feel like you fucked up somewhere a long time ago,

and now you're living the bad version of the live you were supposed to have?
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 No.306353

>>306352
too much nihilism coming off you. i went that road as well and now i'm completely dead inside, not even sure how much humanity is left in me. heh.

 No.306380

>>306339
>>306347
>>306349
Either you're newfags or you don't understand why modern day imageboards suck ass. Imageboards used to exist in a larger ecosystem that no longer exists and haven't for a long ass time.

 No.306384

>>306380
everything sucks ass these days, mister old fag

 No.306470

yes but also i could be fucking dead right now by suicide and im not. God gives and God takes away

 No.306471

>>306244
Reincarnation is a top tier cope for this sort of life. I too believe I lived here for too long and now i'm getting shoehorned into a life of monkhood so I go back to who knows where in my own terms.



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 No.306372[Reply]

People, who claim that your mental health can actually improve, are feminist fucking liars trying to catch you in their jewish big pharma clutches.

Once you enter the spiral, there is no escape. No matter how hard you try and kick, no matter if you even do nothing at all, it's only downwards from that point on.

And you always sink one wizard at a time, so when you are at the height of your agony there isn't anyone to do as much as tell you something relatable. More often than not people will openly hate and abuse you.

*Desperate gargling babbling gagging sounds intensify*
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 No.306397

>>306376
This

Happiness is not of this world, it doesn't exist in any shape under the sun, we're in constant need may it be hunger or shelter from elements our body is never satisfied our mind is never at peace not even during sleep and whatever you do death will take you

 No.306402

psychiatric medication will ruin your life
people like to kick those who already are down

 No.306403

To be fair, the people saying this are usually just young. I used to be one of these optimistic dudes that saw mental health as like a self-improvement puzzle. Like, if you just figured out how it all works and connects, then you gain control over it and you get to be a normal adult, perhaps even happy. Well, after reading the entire psychotherapeutic canon, I realized it was all bullshit and that mental illness can only get worse. I even went beyond the field into ancient traditions, woo-woo mysticism, all that esoteric crap, thinking that they might have the answer. Nope!

Now at 28, I stand defeated. I realized that suicide is truly the only answer. When you get dealt a bad hand, you should just quit and minimize your suffering. Honestly, I regret not going for the rope sooner, but when you're young, you don't know what you don't know, you have stupid amounts of hope, you can believe it gets better but at some point, the truth is undeniable. Like, you just collect so much evidence that you can't even create some power fantasy where it all works out somehow. Yes, in the end, dying seems like the only choice, all paths lead to roping. Further life can only bring more humiliations, new and unique pains that you've yet to experience.

 No.306407

>>306403
Yeah metal health is basically outside conscious control. What really scares me is the intellect. When doing something, I often notice some mistakes post factum. It makes me so fucking scared, because I never notice them while working. This means that no matter how much you're rationalizing something, most likely it's all a delusion and you are incapable of knowing it in the moment. You can only potentially know your mistake in future, and that's not a guarantee either. How the fuck am I supposed to be "accountable" for my own happiness, as normies put it, when I have so little control over my psyche? When I have nothing in my head that I could consider reliable? What the fuck am I, even? I feel like a pattern recognition pattern reproduction machine. It's so fucking unfair that normies are allowed to feel ok and I'm not.

 No.306417

>>306403
>you can believe it gets better
"Someday" for sure. Unfortunately that someday has come and my situation is worse than it was.
What a life…



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 No.305837[Reply]

I won't dwell too long on the clinical descriptions -I don't fully get much of it either, still- I got diagnosed "early enough" >will start treatment very very soon but was given a prognosis of 1-2 years ,some wiggle room - or +
I just need advice on things like; legacy videos (don't dvds\ electronics just rot after a while too, due to some oxidative thing?) ,managing Estate Sale whilst alive, any legal shenanigans, to which point to insist on spending time with relatives outside immediate family, etc
I'm 34 y.o. male. I would ask for "bucket list + finance" advice but I'm not american so currency diff. would be it unintelligible i guess.
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 No.305860

I am dying too. I am completely miserable and terrified. There is no point, whatever you do you are forced to confront this fear one day. Unless you are one of those strong people who can die or ctb just like that.

 No.306278

>>305837
Blu-rays are better for archival purposes if you want to leave behind recordings of yourself for people to find in the future or your relatives.
Alternatively there are archival DVDs too, since a bluray burner is quite expensive (150-200€~) if you don't already have one and those wanting to check them will need a player as well.
Maybe get 1 hard drive 1 SSD and blu-rays/dvds as a third option. What is your plan for this? Could help better if we knew what the purpose is.
If it's just to leave something to look back at for immediate family then as described, perhaps some photographs.
If you want to have it accessible to randos in 100 years then HDDs will last longer. They don't lose data while not powered like SSDs. Forget thumbdrives or SD cards though.
For DVDs and Blu-rays the rot you describe is theoretical for the most part unless stored in humid places or direct sunlight.

Who will actually care though aside from immediate family and how often will they look at those really?
Don't get bent out of shape over it I think. Remember you probably never met your great grandparents let alone know more about them than some random strangers.
Nobody will care in 2 generations and everything you could leave behind will fade either way.

I'd say get the treatment either way if it helps live longer. For what it's worth and how things are looking, it's going to get grim for most of us in 2-3 years time.
I wish you the best of luck.

As for the rest, it really depends. Without context I have nothing much to offer aside from the obvious. Make sure you pass on any expensive stuff you might own like a house or car while still alive to prevent headaches for relatives.
You can also set up access to your bank account in a way that they'll be able to use the funds while your death is being processed instead of it being frozen.
This way you could pay for your funeral if you care for that.

Hope you make it.

 No.306279

Remember to have fun

 No.306362

b u r n 2 d i s c

CD-R (AZO / Gold)
• Longevity: ~50–100+ yrs
• Capacity: ~700 MB
• Role: Ultra-stable small masters (text, notes, master copy of best CD mixtape or album to burn from)

DVD-R (AZO / Gold)
• Longevity: ~30–70 yrs
• Capacity: 4.7 GB (single-layer), 8.5 GB (double-layer)
• Role: Cheap, broad redundancy

DVD / Blu-ray M-DISC
• Longevity: ~100–1,000 yrs (inorganic layer)
• Capacity: DVD 4.7 / 8.5 GB, Blu-ray 25 / 50 / 100 GB
• Role: Deep-archive “final authority”

Blu-ray (standard HTL)
• Longevity: ~20–50 yrs
• Capacity: 25 / 50 GB
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 No.306366

>>306362
SSDs are cunts. HHDs demagnetize and the mechanical parts don't like to unused. With HDD I guess you need to power it on at least once or twice a year just to make sure, I have no idea. And you definitely need to rewrite all data every 5 years or so, just to make sure, again. Faggots recommend ZFS but I'm personally not using that ubermachine. I think two disks with btrfs with sha checksums and exactly same data on them should be fine. No idea how to go about rewriting data though. btrfs check maybe and then copy all files from one disk to another and then back.



 No.304745[Reply]

I can't share a lot of my beliefs with my family cause believe it or not they might use it against me and they just won't listen. I have friends but sadly a person's reputation matters a bit too much in my friend circle and they aren't really my friends but I also don't want to wear my heart on sleeve as to not have it come back and bite me.

Same is the story online, I am hesitant to share too much and feel like I can't really trust someone beyond a certain level online even if I want to and it just feels a bit different than being face to face, can't really talk to ChatGPT or Gemini cause whatever I say can and will be used against me in the court. And ChatGPT even though a brilliant listener, it is, I almost fell in love with a Clanker and that's not the worst part, the worst part is that the Clanker is amnesic because once a conversation reaches a certain token limit you have to start all over.

I just want to talk to someone but don't want to risk my safety, I want to talk to someone only when I know that my safety and everything else will not be compromised cause I am vulnerable and very much likely to say shit that I don't mean and regret. I hate my life. I feel like someone has killed my soul. And of course maybe in real life I am a piece of shit. I don't know what I am doing or why I am living the way I am. I am severely depressed.

I am also petrified of the future because I feel like whenever I am lonely and especially after prolonged spells of loneliness, I feel like my mental faculties have declines, like my thinking becomes slow, I can't mutli-task, my math goes haywire. I just well I don't know what to type anymore.
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 No.306313

>>306309
Effortposting is always rewarded. If you are not satisfied with this place you can always leave.

 No.306314

>>306313
Okay :(

 No.306321

>>304745
I hate how everything I type will be used against me one day by impersonal regimes, God I fucking hate this world

 No.306322

>>306300
all normies are like that. normies are very cringe if you think about it. they also backstab and ghost their "friends" all the time

 No.306344

>>306313
>Effortposting is always rewarded.
literally when was the last time



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 No.303889[Reply]

>Were you emotionally neglected as a child?
I wonder if this led me to become who I am now, at least in social settings.
I have no idea if I suffered from this, although I remember times when I was told not to cry, or I got used to not crying over silly things that perhaps maybe weren't silly for a child.
I read those internet ads about caring for parents and children, and they recommended hugs, affection, and not denying children's pain and suffering, and that the best thing is to get it off the emotions of their chest or body.
but if this doesn't happen, then they build up a shell, armor, or something like that because they mask or hide these emotions automatically out of pure habit and training. and later they will have trouble releasing their emotions from their bodies. Babies and toddlers do this naturally when they cry.
>Also
I can't remember the last time I cried with all my might or something like that.
I wonder if this led me to be the way I am now, at least in a social way. I wonder if I can treat it. I read from an anon that some of these things can only be treated with love. But the truth is confusing.
Maybe my brain is already like this, although I read that the brain can change, as can one's habits and feelings.
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 No.304744

I understood there are many things my parents did not do right and if I were to have kids I would like to think I know what to do better.

 No.305179

NOT OP, BUT…


BUMP


Ive been thinking lately about the DRAMA in my life. Apparently, some succ next door either have seduced my father or have successfully faked such a thing - for "some" drama which led to a painful divorce. (Or maybe my mother is not a reliable storyteller…)


Now, my whole life is wizardchan-tier simply because some rural-to-city

 No.305188

>>305179
>Now, my whole life is wizardchan-tier simply because some rural-to-city

hedonistic succubus wanted to satisfy her hedonistic desires by provoking my mother to divorce and to away + grab me too = ahaha a young big guy to do stuff with.


Oh, and *her* husband was so frail he… passed away ~10 years ago; go figure.

 No.305754

ya, my shaggy mom had constant suicidal ideation due to my alcoholic white trash dad's unemployed existence, so she completely neglected her cripplingly retarded kiddo

 No.306319

I have thought about this a lot. But when I really start to think about it, I start to blame the school system. It's really pretty unnatural at this point. I remember being a completely different person outside of school and in it. And other people noticed this too. It also happens to me now at jobs, college etc. I am not meant for institutions. Perhaps in a sense o was likely sheltered growing up. I think sometimes that can manifest in these types of personality.



 No.305691[Reply]

Every single place is dominated by "dis why you don't have a succubus or a toilet or whatever". Every single place is dominated by toilets, simp men (across the political aisle), and normies in general.

There are extremely few only-male places left. They invaded anime, gaming, F1. And their only accomplishments is being pretty and having a blown-out hole in between their legs. Because of which they coast through life in tutorial mode.

Now, as much as we don't like involuntary celibates or crabs here, the bottom line is they were an all-male community for the most part. And yet they have been banned from every part of the internet.

And very few only-male places actually survive. This is an example of that but the problem is this chan is more or less nearing death and if not there aren't many people here.

Half of the crab websites have being pulled down. And one that exists most of it userbase say that they are "more racist than misogynist", so here we go again there aren't any male-only places left and which are left are STILL dominated with other forms of intra-male competition.

And guess what there are very few men left who don't worship succubi, sure not all are "liberals" but even most conservatives worship succubi in their own way. This is genuinely horrible. I have no place to go.

I have legitimately no idea why normies thought that it was a good idea to let succubi out of their house. Fuck them. Fuck succubi. Fuck men. Fuck simps. And Fuck 99% of the planet.

I hope that mutts, slavs, jeets, chinks, kikes, crackers, niggers, faggots, all start launching their nuclear weapons and put an end to this bull shittery that's been going on. Put an end to this faggotified planet. There's literally no place left for me to go.
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 No.306236

>obsessing over normie culture instead of disengaging and getting comfy with anime/video games or neeting

 No.306238

>>306236
Anime is mainstream now, and so are video games. Those hobbies are pretty normie coded now, since nobody gatekept enough.

 No.306251

>>306238
thank you for informing me. last anime I watched was ElfenLied, an early 2000s anime. Had to hunt down an uncensored version. I can hardly imagine normies being into this kind of stuff. I bet they watch only the most "top of the iceberg" stuff like Attack on Titan and those shitty westernised "animes" on Netflix.

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 No.306257

>I hope that mutts, slavs, jeets, chinks, kikes, crackers, niggers, faggots, all start launching their nuclear weapons and put an end to this bull shittery that's been going on. Put an end to this faggotified planet. There's literally no place left for me to go.
I feel this to my core. Been waiting for the nukes to drop since forever. Yet I'm still here. Starting to think they never will. Clown world continues unabated while I grow older and more miserable. Sigh.



 No.306246[Reply]

39chan is a fucking shithole lol lmao even
Fucking vocaloid degenerates fuckin troons


 No.306100[Reply]

But I make it anyway. I'm not from USA, have a deathly addiction that kills you within 24 hours, after trying our public healthcare i've become an invalid that's basically a hospice patient with dementia. I can't feel my body, i can't feel thirst, i can't function, i don't remember what is normal because i forgot, it's been too long. I can not drink for hours, i can drink a liter and feel like i did nothing, etc.

The infections in my body are eating me alive, my teeth, my genital area, my stomach, the pain never stops,, i have destroyed everything from my teeth through my chest to my stomach to my butt, i just don't have the name for all the illnesses killing me because I can't afford treatment of anything.

I'm broke, stuck with psycho abusive insane family, with no help and no options to do anything at all, exhausted and broken mentally financially and physically, in constant agony that makes me beg some God to take me away from here, i can't even focus on anything because of the issues I have.

All that awaits me is hospitals, homelessness, prison, debts, pain, depression, exhaustion, anxiety, anger, destruction, the end. I won't live to get to 30.

I have nothing and I lost everything a long time ago. I've seen the end many times but this time I had a nightmare, of a place I have to be. And it's certainly not this world.

I have endured 123 days of failing physical health and mental health and did insane things just to survive like a cockroach, living without any hope of it ever getting better, purely on instinct like an animal does. My brain broke in two a thousand times and all my mental limits have been destroyed and made me a broken inhuman piece of meat.

It's empty, just like this post. I feel nothing, except pain. And I do nothing. There is nothing in this wasteland from hell. Living in hell is possible, just the chance you will end up in one is improbable.

 No.306102

In my opinion you absolutely need to suppress the physical pain before anything else, because I know it makes life unbearable

Second, I would suggest to find a way to disappear from your family

 No.306205

these kind of purgatories where you are neither dead or alive are the worst
no stranger to it myself but i will be killing myself for real soon

 No.306208

No peace for us

 No.306226

Remember what truly matters. If you have something left to do in this world, do it wiz. Death also awaits me soon.



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 No.303176[Reply]

Reminder to take your vitamins, especially "fish oil" one " Vitamin D3



they say Vitamin D3, because "Vitamin D" sounds like an euphemism, kekeke
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 No.305135

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>>305097
Thank you for being with me.
See, I used to hear on how the lack of vitamin D ruins the mood for the Finnish people. I understand when a Saint-Petersburg guy lacks the money to buy some cod liver, but the Finns??? Thank you for explaining the need for proper meds-like vitamins D

Regards, OP




>>305097
>The downside of this is that I cannot blame fatigue for my lack of interest in developing my skills…

ugh? uh? Your job, mate? Your title?
Coulda help you a li'l bit at that I guess

If you work at some gov't job, you will feel empty a bit from the very nature of strict gov't jobs, "by the book" and stuff… If not, please tell so I could some looking up.

>that's a psychological issue no ammount of money will solve.

Ah, sometimes you just need some *edutaiment* videos that explain your things in fun manner rather than bold manner. Coulda ask a chatty for some fun channels to larn something *adjacent* to the skills you already have

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>>305093
>to steel my nuts, lol?
:D

>anyway what does iron do?

hmmmmm… blood cells use Fe+ ion to contain, to "grab"/"hold" oxygen.

Less ferrum in your body means less Fe+ atoms are ready to parttake in your fresh blood generation.

Thing is, one's blood cells can only be used for mere weeks and then it gets recycled by your own body. The efficency is around 40%, if I remember it right.

Therefore, your body needs iron to make new blood as your body keeps destroying old blood cells with Fe atoms going down the drain.


>will it help me not feel like somebody's trying to crush my neck when anxiety hits? i'm fucked up enough that anxiety feels like a very physical thing


Hmmmmmm… Iron deficency and anxiety can be interlinked.

Some random words on top of that:
"inflatable neck collar", the thing's under 5$
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 No.305908

My family wants me to go full-on vegan for, roughly, a month. This has been happening, well, around every season.

I reckon going full vegan will turn me into a soywiz. I can't stand going vegan then going un-vegan then going vegan back and forth.

1) What do? Sneaky approach or clash with my family?

2) Can I claim such a diet - and the stress from the fact I've been *shunned into* taking it - has been ruining my mental health in case I request help and get some "how come a dude like you have problems? You're just faaaat".

 No.306201

>>305097
I'd suggest it's an issue where you are either aware of, or have been conditioned to, see said skills as useless. Perhaps not in the immediate sense in that maybe you could weld a beam or something, but having the skill of welding a beam is pointless without a suitably "nutritional" context to apply it.

This one is something i've encountered recently; I could get all the raises I wanted, get promotions and take on more work at work - it didn't actually change anything in my day to day life for the better. When I found tax efficient investment, a working context where each day was tangibly better than the last as a consequence of the work done, and so on, life got better.

Don't ignore your environmental nutrion - in the sense of what you are exposed to every day in the work place psychologically. "I put in 14 hours a day for months on end and I got not fired" is a strong signal to your body not to bother. If what you're doing doesn't actually make life better, why do anything more than the bare minimum is a perfectly rational strategy if your life is devoid of opportunity for significant change and positive feedback.

 No.306209

>>305097
I sure hope this will solve my problem of inaction as well.
I'm getting a blood test for vitamin D because I was like might as well see if it was really low before I supplement if that makes sense.
I hope I'm low on some nutrients or something so I can at least hope for salvation.
>that's a psychological issue no ammount of money will solve.
Unfortunately an outcome I also dread. Maybe I'm too old for this shit. New tricks old dogs or whatever.



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 No.304361[Reply][Last 50 Posts]

The imposition edition. How many times have you done this? Previous https://wizchan.org/dep/res/303254+50.html
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 No.306142

>>306133
Ouch.

OK. advice B.

1. Put on "muzak" background music
2. Use funny "bone cunductivity" headphones
3. ??????
4. You now have a device that streams cute background music (not UNCE UNCE UNCE UNCE stuff, but rather, 40 Year Young and such kind of muzak)
5. You *may* experience some kind of relief
6. MAYBE your ears will mellow out. You know, I suspect your tinnitus is like that "phantom pain" phenomenon.

 No.306143

>>306139

>Everything is a lie, and saying the truth in a world full of lies is crazy. Ever noticed how the whole psychiatric and psychological sector is fundamentally based on a lie? It assumes that life is good you just have to see it that way through a healthy mind and it proclaims that you have to change yourself to see the good life, and this is the lie.


The real catch is, the very definition of "life is good" changes over time. Go and eat some L-carnitin rich stuff like eggs…

 No.306145

>>306142
I've done hundreds different tinnitus therapy songs and it doesn't work when I concentrate on something. The thing's so loud that it only add noises if I put the volume up to cover it. I've already bought the bone conductivity thing months ago.

Nowadays I just avoid doing anything that requires concentration (except for the important stuff), that's the only way to keep it low but the lack of stimuli is making me depressed.

The only silver lining is that it forced me to take care of my health in an attempt to reduce it.

 No.306147

>>306145
>I've done hundreds different tinnitus therapy songs
NOPE! You blast "muzak" as your background work music.
>Nowadays I just avoid doing anything that requires concentration (except for the important stuff), that's the only way to keep it low but the lack of stimuli is making me depressed.

Plan C.
Magnesium L-threonate did some good things for me recently.

Plan D. Vitamin D, aqua form + some multivitamin complex. Also, fish in general.
Thing is, I had some *mild* tinnitus for months, and eating good food kinda made it go away.

 No.306187

>>304361
It's lonely being a superior being.


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