No.293808
>>293806I'm 27 yo apprentice.
>not learning in school>no dream job>playing video games every time I come home>no hobbies beside video games>doing homework 1/2 of the time>not doing sport>fapping all the timeleading to me being a fumbass neet who had schizophrznia and fucked up my 20-27 years
No.293810
>How old are you?
30
What brought you to where you are?
An old pair of blue leather shoes
>What prevents you from changing?
My arms are too sore from working out to get my shirt over my head
No.293822
>>293808Everything you said is understandable, but I have a hard time understanding people like you, I know everyone needs a job, but have you ever considered that letting another man exploit you isn't really a good path?
No.293823
>>293810Why not exercise your legs? They are the best part of the body, the most useful, and the most aesthetic. Imagine that someone bothers you, with a good kick you can kill them, while to give a good punch you need decades of training.
No.293824
>>293820Sudaca tier. Brazilian, Indian, Argentinian or Venezuelan?
No.293834
>>293822I can't stay a NEET all my life
No.293838
>>293823You still have to train your kicks. Effective punches are generated by your lower body.
No.293839
>>293833
With good legs you can walk many kilometers, hit hard, and if you exercise your back more it will help carry heavy things.
No.293840
>>293838It's true, but with a steel-toed boot, and with a basic technique you can break anyone's legs.
No.293844
>>293806>How old are you?37
>What brought you to where you are?tfw no gf for too long
>What prevents you from changing?I am in the process of change, but the major thing was not being grounded in reality. So many false beliefs that fueled my depression and anxiety.
No.293845
>>293844>but the major thing was not being grounded in realityVery sure. The real change is mental, thinking that you can achieve it, that you are strong and capable.
>no gf for too longRejection can be painful, but you have to understand that your life cannot revolve around a succubus. It can be hard not to have anyone to love you, so you have to learn to love yourself, and focus on truly important things.
No.293862
>>29380620. Vidya basically. I never figured instinctvely how to fit among the crowd as I spent a good portion of my childhood within four walls. Not having the desire to become a normalfaggot, lacking the will to improve myself, hatred towards people (normoids) from my hometown (at least). Plus 3/4 of my family members have/had depression and/or OCD that prevents me from thinking in good stuff instead of past situations where I was wronged. I don't think I'm eternally doomed though, this shit will pass. I just wish to have grown smarter when I come up in life. Not obsesivelly think in how to get a job, talk to a succubus or do this or what other people think of me.
No.293863
>>293862Oh and high school was bullshit-tier. Getting permanently rejected by succubus whilst my colleagues didn't. Getting beat by niggers. Having no friends. Thank God it's over.
No.293864
>>293863>Getting beat by niggers.can you explain? why did they beat you?
No.293868
>>293864I brought this one upon myself. I did some things in order to impress the bigger boys – some were meant to harm the nigger in particular, others just to make fun of me and caught their attention, one day he went mad on me and gave me a beating in front of everyone. I looked out for payback and gave me another, thing viralized all over my hometown, it was filmed. Moral is, I should of had more self steem and not act as the sad clown at the time. I was stupid.
No.293869
>>293862Dealing with family members like that must be hard, I feel sorry for you anon. But I think that hatred towards others is due to the rejection of bad people around you, and although the world is full of bad people, there are still good people, but you still always have to show yourself as you are, or at least the best part of you. But I think that hatred towards others is due to the rejection of bad people around you, and although the world is full of bad people, there are still good people, but you still always have to show yourself as you are.
No.293887
>>293806>How old are you? 31.
>What brought you to where you are? Lack of self-discipline.
>What prevents you from changing?Lack of self-discipline.
No.293893
>>293887>Lack of self-discipline.same
No.293895
>>293886I thought Australia was a first world country, how can there be poor people and crime. Not to offend or sound racist, but are you a negro?
No.293897
>>293895NTA
You think poverty and crime can't exist in "first world" countries?
No.293899
>>293897A poor person from the first world is an upper middle class person from the third
No.293914
>>293899It doesn't work that way. When a loaf of bread and some cold cuts cost $12 while your monthly food allowance is $300, nobody gives a shit you could buy a house in Burundi for $300.
Australia is one of the most expensive places to live on the entire planet. Being a poor aussie is utter hell. Temperature-wise as well.
No.293917
>>293914Poverty in Australia is very hard, and I am very sorry for not being empathetic with your situation, but a poor person in a Latin country puts his children in the garbage can and they eat straight from the garbage.
No.293937
>How old are you?
27
>What brought you to where you are?
My official guesses are that I was neglected by my parents, they just didn't really engage with me a lot and I didn't learn much.
Then my cousin who was my only non-school "friend" who hung out with me a lot, but I think mostly just to hurt me and take my things from ages like 6-10.
I tried to avoid him a lot but my family didn't really let me since he was family, also it was most of the socializing I got with anyone around my age.
It's the closest thing I had to friendship in my life but I feel like the relationship made me very secretive because he was very judgemental of me and the things I liked.
Then I was fat the entirety of my school experience and just very under socialized, students didn't really bully me but I don't think they wanted to be my friend and I didn't engage.
>What prevents you from changing?
I try to take care of myself, if you mean getting a job or socializing more I don't really feel a desire to.
By the time I hit my mid 20s I stopped caring about things like "changing".
No.293939
>How old are you?
32
>What brought you to where you are?
Controlling (arguably abusive) father, poor relationship with family in general, underdeveloped social skills, and self-loathing.
>What prevents you from changing?
Deeply-engrained pessimism, lack of self-discipline, lack of confidence, cowardice, and more self-loathing.
No.293942
I am a 26 year old apprentice and I feel like all of my problems stem from having a bad gut biome which has left me with near permanent bloating. I have attempted to fast for many years to get my body back to a suitable state but I lack the willpower. If I didn't have this stupid gut, I would not be who I am.
No.293953
>>293942Didn't you think about learning to cook? Today's food is full of crap, you know what is good for you and what is not, so if you make a diet that suits you, you will be able to improve a large part of your life.
>>293939Why do you hate yourself?
No.293961
>>293953>Why do you hate yourself?I guess the root of it is that I know I'm more intelligent than the majority of normalfags, so logically I should be more successful and accomplished than the average person. In reality, however, I'm pitifully unsuccessful in life. I have few real accomplishments or skills, practically no money, I still live with my parents into my 30s, and I move from dead-end job to dead-end job. Granted, I am working to get certified in web development so I can try to make a career out of that, but my utter lack of confidence in myself makes it difficult to commit to it fully. I constantly doubt myself, which often leads to me giving up so I don't have to face the sharp gut-punch of dismal failure, and I end up hating myself more for it. I basically have nothing worthwhile to show for my 32 years of life on this planet, I feel like I've wasted all of my opportunities and potential, and it leaves me with a deep sense of shame and guilt.
No.294788
>>293806>What brought you to where you are?The opportunities required for me to succeed in any of my goals involve variables all controlled by others.
I do not have any meaningful control over these others, so I do not succeed.
>What prevents you from changing?Genetics, physical shape, the upper ceiling limits on human nature, the lack of manoeuvring room with the resources I don't have that prevent me from achieving the things I can't do.
I could pretend that I would use my time productively, but to do what? What could I possibly do productively in a crippled state that couldn't already be done better by someone else?
I can't even die. I'm not even allowed to choose that. I have no free will, no freedom of choice, nothing I can say or do will improve my situation. I am in a prison, of sorts, and it seems I have finally found my fellow inmates who are all experiencing much the same thing.
No.294800
>>293961start mindfulness meditation and stop overthinking.
im in the same boat 3 years ago (25 yo rn) overthinking is just a fucking stress spammer.
mindfulness meditation lets you be aware of your thoughs and you can stop that nonsense overthinking and do the job.
No.294803
>>293806>how old are you?32
>what brought you here?reading about various alt-chans on /qa/ around 2016
>what prevents you from changing-unstable moods
-psychosis, depression and mania sometimes all at once
-autism
-extreme social anxiety
-extreme internet addiction
-crippling low self-esteem
i have a stem degree and have the mental capacity to be employed but i am also a mental basket case. mania, psychosis and depression and the same time is fucked. imagine being hyped as fuck to hang yourself.
No.294808
>>293806>How old are you?Young enough that people would say that my life is just beginning.
>What brought you to where you are?I can't get off imageboards, and this one has a more relatable userbase.
>What prevents you from changing?I can't be socially active because of autism, and I have little interest in trying to achieve financial success because it's pointless and there's nothing to spend money on. I think casual sex is pointless and degenerate, and the idea of getting into a relationship (with a good ending) is not realistic because of autism and because most 3DPD succubi are shit. I wish I could indefinitely stay a NEET, but that would bring some hardships so I may look into college and/or working, however I predict that I may have a hard time or possibly fail at those.
No.294809
>How old are you?
37
>What brought you to where you are?
Trauma from culture and family memebrs leaving me to fend from myself. Also trauma by so many poeple calling me ugly when I was a teenager.
>What prevents you from changing?
I am changing now, but looking back it was quite a few things. Not having my own space to relax, ignoring my trauma, and participating in crab in a bucket communities were teh major things. A gf would've fixed my problems, but looking back I had plenty of opportunities for that but my damaged brain prevented that from happening. My experiences and natural temperament put me in a state where the only way to heal was with time, unfortunately.
No.294825
>>293942You sure it's just bloating and not inflammation? Have you tried xifaxan which usually is used for SIBO for example.
No.294831
>How old are you?
28.
>What brought you to where you are?
genetics.
>What prevents you from changing?
genetics.
No.294842
28, despair,health issues
I don't even want to fix my life anymore, or maybe I do… it's just too painful what I have been through. I want it all to just end.