/wiz/ - Wizardry

I need your wisdom. I am approaching mid 20s KHHV and have no friends. Went neet after high school for a few years because depression and loneliness broke me and maybe I had foresight that there was no point in going to college so I pretty much gave up on life because I felt like life gave up on me first. The only good things I got going for me are that I have a job now and I have good parents so there is no drama or uneasiness about being home which allows me to at least save up all the money I make while living with them. Apart from that I have no social life, no skills and I never matured because I simply did not have those experiences like my peers (going out, meeting people, making friends, socialising, romantic partners, sex etc.) This is why I was reluctant to go to college or do anything because anything that comes to mind imo requires a certain foundation of experience in order for you to be accepted and fit in and be able to progress or interact. The connections and social aspect is key to wellbeing, happiness and success. As I get older isolation, lost youth and ineptitude will hurt more and more as I see people around me progress. The thing is I don't know what to do with my life. Should I play it safe and just spend all my 20s and 30s living with my parents, working, saving money and rotting in my room? I feel like I am missing out on enjoying life but I have nobody and I am afraid that if I tried to force myself into relationships/friendships I will end up hurt, used and waste my money to participate in soceity that doesn't actually care about me. Keep in mind I am from a slavic shithole and not america. Also moving out and living on my own sounds like a bad idea because I am very inexperienced and I am not smart or skilled and it's almost impossible to even get a job if you are qualified if you don't have the connections. I don't have social media and I live in a small rural town and maybe this is an irational fear and I hope it is but I was always afraid of people bullying me or talking shit behind my back so I don't like opening up or revealing any information about myself because people talk and they can use any and all information against me in some way. Sorry if this is not directly related to crabdom but it's a more broad question on how to cope with beings a loser and how can you tell what kind of a loser you are (failed normie or truecel etc.) and what is realistic goal and expectation because expectations and goals set by media and Post too long. Click here to view the full text.

is male celibacy a sort of phenomena that become more common with the time? I am especially looking for the answers of older wizards here, but everyone's are welcome.

"Virginity" is literally synonymous with "purity". I LOVE being a virgin, it's a source of pride. Losing your virginity is synonymous with permanently corrupting your soul. I hope I die a virgin. So WHY do normalfags see virginity as some serious character defect? Why do crabs think virginity is a nightmare? For me it's a dream come true. The thought of losing my virginity makes me burst into tears, it feels like I'm being raped. Virginity is the last vestige of innocence you have full control over, why would you EVER want to lose that?

So, my fellow hoomans, does happy +25 NEETs still exist or is now only doom and gloomy views? What happen to the happiness that one feels when finally got the elusive NEETbux? What happen to the happy go luck older NEETs that instead of fighting fate (or tired of trying) just accepted his lot and try to find happiness on his piece of life? Now I only see "buuu huuu I'm le sad NEET". Where are those happy content older NEETs or all online NEETs now are just depressed neurotic people?

How do I get rid of my desire to have children and to continue my lineage?

I’ve been able to eliminate my desire for succubi and stop fantasizing about romantic relationships but I still have a desire to be a father and at times daydream about having children to raise and play with.

I feel once I rid myself of this want I can truly be content with my existence as a solitary invisible man in this decaying world.

So title says it all basically. I want to stop being a neet and then go find an office job and climb the corporate ladder. To do this I've learned that only psychopaths/alphas with sadomasochistic tendencies can move up the ladder by basically psychologically dominating the other humans and treating them like cattle with pet nicknames. Would asking normgroids to become friends as first thing work or would they know something is wrong? That no one good does this and friendship should be built through mutual experience. At this point I honestly predict it would work on 90% of normies besides other slayer alpha chads that are also playing corporate chess. Instead of killing myself I want to dominate other normgroids and make them feel the pain I feel through psychological manipulation like calling them lil buddy or pal and demeaning them all the time to lift up my own posture around others and feel good. But how do I start?

I lack the "social thirst" and have an avoidant personality so isolating myself felt like the natural thing to do and the only thing that bothers me is how the lack of connections prevents me from having a successful career. With all the drama and the demanding upkeep that comes with relationships I felt like I was doing the right thing but then I read some comments about how the lack of life experience from current zoomer writers results in boring stories and in an argument online I was told my opinion on topics related to society doesn't matter since I am like an alien with how isolated I am and that hurt me at my core. I've shared my philosophy before and got told I need to "touch grass" because it reveals how autistic I am.

Do you think that's true? Are our views on human matters irrelevant? I want to make art but I worry that my autistic perspective will make it speak to no one as my lack of life experience will be visible through it and the ideas I will be communicating are not in touch with what people feel.

I like Japanese things, I like image-board concept, but when i go to other chans people are mad.
I jut want to talk about hobbies music and things not hate/insult people.
I'm not technically a wizard yet, but probably is my destiny, but I like this chan.
what we can do for have more people just a bit, I'm starting too be bored of the same content.

I would like to discuss things that we do that increase our levels of well being and comfort throughout the day. What are some of the rituals and habits that you engage in that really make your solitary lives that much more enjoyable? For me I like to go on long walks in the mornings or evenings usually, when the sun isn't so strong. The fresh air and forest environment makes me relax automatically and it fills me with great pleasure that I am walking about without meeting a soul, while most other people are at work. Another thing that makes me feel warm inside is having a folder of old favorite game wallpapers/ingame screenshots that rotate as my desktop wallpaper throughout the day, so I am often reminded of the 'good old days' as it were. Whenever I have to go outside into town, I will wear regular clothes as to not stand out so when I return home there is a big satisfaction of slipping into my sweats, washing my hands and face like a ritual to leave behind that outside-part of my day. I also find there is nothing more comfortable than going to bed after being freshly showered. It really is the highlight of my days, especially since I bought a new mattress recently that finally doesn't give me back pain anymore.
Please feel free to share yours!

Is there anyone here who doesn’t know what to do with their life? I’m thinking about getting a job in my country, but god, it’s awful: they offer $200 a month (I’m from Eastern Europe) with no prospects for growth. I have poor health, I live in a small town, and options are almost nonexistent. I honestly don’t know what to do. I registered at the employment center, but they basically told me I’m just a headache for them.
Now I feel completely lost. Where do I go? What do I do? How can an outsider with bad health even find a decent job? I’m already 28, and it feels like I’ve hit a dead end. I want to try to get out of this hole, but the government and society openly don’t care. My problems mean nothing to them — to them I’m just a loser, while the “normies” my age already have careers, families, and kids. I don’t care about succubi I just want to work and feel alive, but I keep hitting the same wall over and over again. People here are toxic, hostile, and take pleasure in looking down on others’ failures. It feels like the system is designed to crush people like me completely.