How were your parents?
My mom was an airhead who barely learned to read and write. She grew in poverty and she's obsessed with being poor and loves watching videos of people in extreme poverty. Despite all that she is a narcissistic cunt who thinks she's superior to everyone and loves to humilliate people every chance she gets. She got with my dad because she thought he was rich. No matter how much money she gets she tries to spend it all as soon as she gets it. As a kid, she constantly told me that she didn't love me and that I ruined her life, everytime my dad left the house she used to beat me. Everytime I'm around her, she makes sure to make hurtful comments, completely unprovoked, and loves to shame me in front of people. I know that part of my low self-steem is because of her. She always made me feel like I was worth nothing.What is realistic to expect?
I need your wisdom. I am approaching mid 20s KHHV and have no friends. Went neet after high school for a few years because depression and loneliness broke me and maybe I had foresight that there was no point in going to college so I pretty much gave up on life because I felt like life gave up on me first. The only good things I got going for me are that I have a job now and I have good parents so there is no drama or uneasiness about being home which allows me to at least save up all the money I make while living with them. Apart from that I have no social life, no skills and I never matured because I simply did not have those experiences like my peers (going out, meeting people, making friends, socialising, romantic partners, sex etc.) This is why I was reluctant to go to college or do anything because anything that comes to mind imo requires a certain foundation of experience in order for you to be accepted and fit in and be able to progress or interact. The connections and social aspect is key to wellbeing, happiness and success. As I get older isolation, lost youth and ineptitude will hurt more and more as I see people around me progress. The thing is I don't know what to do with my life. Should I play it safe and just spend all my 20s and 30s living with my parents, working, saving money and rotting in my room? I feel like I am missing out on enjoying life but I have nobody and I am afraid that if I tried to force myself into relationships/friendships I will end up hurt, used and waste my money to participate in soceity that doesn't actually care about me. Keep in mind I am from a slavic shithole and not america. Also moving out and living on my own sounds like a bad idea because I am very inexperienced and I am not smart or skilled and it's almost impossible to even get a job if you are qualified if you don't have the connections. I don't have social media and I live in a small rural town and maybe this is an irational fear and I hope it is but I was always afraid of people bullying me or talking shit behind my back so I don't like opening up or revealing any information about myself because people talk and they can use any and all information against me in some way. Sorry if this is not directly related to crabdom but it's a more broad question on how to cope with beings a loser and how can you tell what kind of a loser you are (failed normie or truecel etc.) and what is realistic goal and expectation because expectations and goals set by media and society is that you need to be above average, social climbing psychopath with a good career and great power/status and you need to have friends and you need to have girlfriends and if you don't that's weird and sad.Can therapy help NEETs?
Do you think psychotherapy can help NEETs to become something better? It's such a common advice out there: go to therapy, it's the best you can do to help yourself, it's your responsibility etc etc. What's your experience with therapy? Do you think it genuinely might help?Imageboards are strange
What is it that makes them attract such a particular kind of man and allow them to spread the messages they do?Why is virginity so stigmatized?
"Virginity" is literally synonymous with "purity". I LOVE being a virgin, it's a source of pride. Losing your virginity is synonymous with permanently corrupting your soul. I hope I die a virgin. So WHY do normalfags see virginity as some serious character defect? Why do crabs think virginity is a nightmare? For me it's a dream come true. The thought of losing my virginity makes me burst into tears, it feels like I'm being raped. Virginity is the last vestige of innocence you have full control over, why would you EVER want to lose that?Happy +25 years old NEETs
So, my fellow hoomans, does happy +25 NEETs still exist or is now only doom and gloomy views? What happen to the happiness that one feels when finally got the elusive NEETbux? What happen to the happy go luck older NEETs that instead of fighting fate (or tired of trying) just accepted his lot and try to find happiness on his piece of life? Now I only see "buuu huuu I'm le sad NEET". Where are those happy content older NEETs or all online NEETs now are just depressed neurotic people?on the Internet all day but not using the Internet
whenever i meet a new stranger online, i will ask them, "what sort of websites do you go to? do you have online friends?" and 9 out of 10 times, they won't respond at all. i think they do nothing, too.How do I maxx as a psyco/normgroid/alpha/sadomasochist at a potential new job?
So title says it all basically. I want to stop being a neet and then go find an office job and climb the corporate ladder. To do this I've learned that only psychopaths/alphas with sadomasochistic tendencies can move up the ladder by basically psychologically dominating the other humans and treating them like cattle with pet nicknames. Would asking normgroids to become friends as first thing work or would they know something is wrong? That no one good does this and friendship should be built through mutual experience. At this point I honestly predict it would work on 90% of normies besides other slayer alpha chads that are also playing corporate chess. Instead of killing myself I want to dominate other normgroids and make them feel the pain I feel through psychological manipulation like calling them lil buddy or pal and demeaning them all the time to lift up my own posture around others and feel good. But how do I start?Are we missing out on key experiences?
I lack the "social thirst" and have an avoidant personality so isolating myself felt like the natural thing to do and the only thing that bothers me is how the lack of connections prevents me from having a successful career. With all the drama and the demanding upkeep that comes with relationships I felt like I was doing the right thing but then I read some comments about how the lack of life experience from current zoomer writers results in boring stories and in an argument online I was told my opinion on topics related to society doesn't matter since I am like an alien with how isolated I am and that hurt me at my core. I've shared my philosophy before and got told I need to "touch grass" because it reveals how autistic I am.Any wizards here who have suddenly started caring about health?
I figured I've already experienced everything junk food, chocolates, cakes and ice creams can offer as an experience.wizard chan is the less toxic chan
I like Japanese things, I like image-board concept, but when i go to other chans people are mad.rituals and comfy habits of wizards
I would like to discuss things that we do that increase our levels of well being and comfort throughout the day. What are some of the rituals and habits that you engage in that really make your solitary lives that much more enjoyable? For me I like to go on long walks in the mornings or evenings usually, when the sun isn't so strong. The fresh air and forest environment makes me relax automatically and it fills me with great pleasure that I am walking about without meeting a soul, while most other people are at work. Another thing that makes me feel warm inside is having a folder of old favorite game wallpapers/ingame screenshots that rotate as my desktop wallpaper throughout the day, so I am often reminded of the 'good old days' as it were. Whenever I have to go outside into town, I will wear regular clothes as to not stand out so when I return home there is a big satisfaction of slipping into my sweats, washing my hands and face like a ritual to leave behind that outside-part of my day. I also find there is nothing more comfortable than going to bed after being freshly showered. It really is the highlight of my days, especially since I bought a new mattress recently that finally doesn't give me back pain anymore.Missing out/Wasted life
After hitting 30 this feeling has been eating me and I don't know how to resolve it. I started watching different youtube channels and it made me realize how much time I wasted staring at a screen when I could be experiencing the world and creating things. The 21st century offers so many possibilities and yet all I did was sit at home play video games and read inane garbage online. Now I always had depression, anxiety, social autism, adhd, average iq etc. that lead to me being an underachiever but nowadays it feels like I was just the right self-help book and meds/supplement combination and some effort away from solving all these issues.Death
Are you afraid of death? What do you think happens when we die? Unlike most normalfags, I've had a great interest in death for a long time. It's the one inevitable event in our lives, and with every passing moment, death comes closer and closer. Are you prepared for it?Which wizard path have you chosen?
are you trying to follow up some religion or some dogmas? like for example, do you read the sacred book of hinduism/budhism or maybe you read about philosophers like marcis aurelius and his book about himself. or maybe you're more of an hermetisim guy so you follow up alchemist dogmas or a free masson and try to figure out what symbols means?VR: Use controller with 2D waifu
> Have VR headsetI hate the new "incels" trend
For those who don't know this, an "invcel" (Alana, 1997) is someone who does not want to be celibate but is anyway, so involuntarily celibate, "invcel". Later this was taken over by men and shifted to "crab" by 2000s. reggın r reggın reggın
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How do you genuinely just stop caring about everything shitty in your life? I just want to become numb to it all. People always say you shouldn't, but whenever I let myself feel any small amount of happiness the feeling of sadness/depression that I'll inevitably feel later is so painful it makes me wish I just didn't feel anything at all in the first place. Meditation has gotten close to this and I like the peace it gives me but I wish I felt that peace all the time.New wave ostracization
>"No one owes you their kindness"Explain work to me
So I'm "lucky" to live with my parents and leeching them off as a pathetic NEET.Research
Hey I’m a university researcher looking into the experiences of male virgins (or men struggling romantically/sexually) in online communities. I think a lot of commentary is made by academics and journalists without actually speaking to individuals. I’m more interested in hearing thoughts, opinions, and experiences directly from members through interviews. I think it’s especially important to ask men here, given that the over 30 experience is often overlooked.What does your daily routine look like?
>wake up around 1pmDoes Money Really Make Us Happy?
It’s easy to assume that more money, more stuff, and more status will make us happier. That’s what we’re sold every day—on social media, in ads, in the way we talk about success But is it actually true?This place is depressing
This site is really depressing, its users are depressing, and in general everything is bad here. I think this makes men who do not have sexual relations, nor who focus on succubi, look bad, since the first thing someone outside will read will be threads of misfortune and misery. So I ask you, have you never tried to improve and improve?Driving.
My backup plan is completely ruined. In my turd world country, the only way to succeed as a sub-5 male is to be good in academics. I am not good in academics. I had a backup plan in my mind, if all else fails, I will become a taxi driver and that would ensure that I get enough enough to survive.The way of warlocks is mistaken?
I'm closer to lv37 than lv36 and I must say that finally abandoning all hope of somehow attracting a succubus, at around lv35, in turn made it so that all desires for them continues to diminish by the day, and with that the hatred for normies has all but died down, as I no longer crave or envy their lifestyle.Wizards socialization on the internet
Okay, Almost all of us here barely have any friends IRL, me included (I am sure at least half of us here are fine with that), But what about online Socialization? even the biggest Hikikomoris socialize online, the issue is that I f*g can't relate to people online, even in circles that are meant for "losers" and "outcasts", even if i like many people there and we can somewhat get along, I still feel that I do not belong there and that we live in entirely different worlds, And I do not play online games, nor post in any other imageboard aside of this, I always feel home here, unlike anywhere else online, so it's comfy here, but somewhere like 4trannies? hell no, it really hits when my former online friends are advancing in life and starting romantic relationships and I am left in the same exact place (not negatively) it's when I realize that I don't belong around them and I am only going to relate to them less and less with the time, and I hate it when they try to get me to change my way and try to talk to me about "getting a G.F" and escaping wiz/apperantice-hood so i decide to just abandon them and live inside of my own mind bubble comfortablyDon't know how to interact with society
Am 47 and have been very clumsy all my life, nowadays i try to stay clear of things that can fall, i don't drive and avoid carrying babies from people who somehow wants me to hold them, I bump into everything and can't look people in the eyes and generally just don't know how to exist in a public setting, i also struggle too much with spatial directions, people think i am blind, and i always look sooooooooooooo awkward when someone tellls me the place of a certain object in the room using their fingers, i also can't understand people often times, they speak too fast and i too speak too fast they can't understand me.Whitepills about the future
I believe in the potential of humanity. I believe in the human ability of compassion and cooperation. We are still essentially in the dark ages, human civilization is only around 12,000 years old. There has been unprecedented rapid technological development in the past 200 years and it takes time as a species to adjust to all of this. Humanity is going through growing pains as things balance out and the fact is that our species is going to live on for thousands of years more and longer. I fully believe that while our current civilization is decaying and receding and war in the near future with societal decay is inevitable, the society that humans have in the far future will seem utopian compared to our standards now. We have the ability to create a fair and just world, societal systems develop as well as technology does. While the current system is unfair and easy to slip through the cracks, its a first step into the whitepill world of tomorrow. I believe, anons. Humanity is going to make it.any wizard into astral projection ?
did any wizard tried astral projection or heard about it before ?Is anyone else terrified of sex?
I'm honestly not sure if I'm just asexual at this point. My single biggest fear is sex with a succubus, even if I was explicitly offered it I would most likely decline. I do everything in my power to make sure I'm as unattractive as possible, on the off chance a succubus might be attracted to me, which I find deeply disturbing. Does anyone else relate?What's preventing you from improving?
So what's preventing you from improving your situation?Why do normies love labeling themselves as crabs?
20, 10 and even 5 years ago being called a virgin was seen as an insult by normies. Same could be said about being called "a crab", yet more and more often we see people who have regular sex, gfs and social lives say "they are basically crabs". Is it for attention? Is it some misguided idea that crabism is a mindset? Is it to make yourself feel "superior" to other normies? Same thing have happened with nerds: what used to be a simple demographic, later became a label to proudly asign to yourself (Oh, I'm such a nerd, I just love watching mainstream movies like Star Wars!).Today I become a wizard.
Hello, fellow wizards! I have turned 30 today. Thought I'd celebrate the occasion by popping in to check this fine tower of wizardry. The rules say you only have to be 18 so I guess I could have posted here sooner but it feels more appropriate to be here having earned my cloak and hat. When do the magic powers kick in by the way? I want to speck into conjuration if possible. Having a little homunculus around to carry my stuff sounds nice.Agoraphobe Wizard
Hi I'm a wizard with agoraphobia, semi neet, I just study English.10 years NEET
I finished school a decade ago. I will be 27 in a few months.Question to volcels
Volcels, what if?Best intactivist charity?
What is the best charity for preventing male children especially babies from being circumcised? Particularly in wealthy western countries where running water and whatnot is universal and circumcision is totally unnecessary.Reparations for circumcision
All men who were circumcised as babies deserve at least 150 million USA dollars adjusted for inflation / at least 44000 ounces of pure 24k gold (44000 ounces of pure 24k gold is worth 147727340 dollars on 06/03/2025).Male vs Female Bullying
Here is the problem in regards to female bullies:I'm a wizard because sex is horrifying
Having sex with a succubus is my worst nightmare, it's viscerally horrifying on a cosmic level. There's something completely evil and demonic about it. If I was ever forced to, I wouldn't be able to live with myself, my life would be over. When I look at myself in the mirror and imagine my penis entering a vagina, my entire body shudders. There's nothing more disturbing that I can possibly fathom.Lonliness?
Is a Wiz or someone who is walking through the path of Wzhood allowed to feel lonliness? Of course there's a difference between feeling lonely due to the lack of a succubus and feeling lonely due to the general lack of company, a sense of community and, so on, nowadays when i hear the word "lonliness" it's typically used in the context of romantic and sexual love, both are of course unwizardy, but you hear people (normals and crabs) saying that having friends is not enough for the feelings of lonliness to fade, ,they need a a G.F, I will talk about my self, for most of my life i was more than okay by being friendless and having a poor relationship with my family, and i almost never cared for having a G.F given how stressful having a one seemed to be, but recently i have been feeling painfully lonely, i look at works of fiction such as one piece, where luffy has a friend circle who are with him all the time, i can see why they say we are social creatures, i thought i was fine entirely by my self, but that urge to belong to a company eventually hit me, i can't escape my nature, i hate this urge even though it's purely related to the lack of social connection with family members and my peers nothing romantic or sexual, sorry for ramblings, i can't articulate everything well, honestly, i just wanted to talk about the subject of lonliness away from the "wtf no G.F" topic, and i wish to hear what you all have to say on the subject of lonliness.Help I am having wet Dreams.
Hi everyone, I’d appreciate your thoughts on a question I have. I’ve been experiencing nightfall or wet dreams without engaging in any sexual activities. I don’t masturbate, nor do I consume adult content, so I’m unsure why this is happening. Any insights would be helpful.to my wizard fellows
We're like vagabonds but on internet. we have a shitty life and we wander on in the internet and/or in real life too. We're kind of modern adventurer but we sail in our dreams because we are broke niggas most of us. Some are lucky and can live life as a "ghost", some are almost hobos and can't sustain a good life. The broke wizards are in the worst situation in life. Those who are depressed and think about suicide everyday are also in a bad situation. I assume hobo wizards want to live life at its fullest and suicidal wizards who have everything to live a comfy life want to end it because they are depressed. I don't know which one we should pity the most or to help first.wizsloth
When I want to do something or start a new hobby, I don't know where to start, and then I don't want to. Which means I daydream a lot. I never take action; I'm always in my head, daydreaming. I'm waiting for the day when something clicks that will make me do something with my life, but I know it's just an illusion and that I'll never do anything: it doesn't exist. It would take a huge psychological shock for me to do anything. For now, I only have passive hobbies (reading books/manga, hanging out on the internet). To be honest, I don't read at all anymore; I stay on the internet all day. I'm a lazy person, and I was wondering if there were other lazy wizards in the same situation as me?Antinatalism Thread
Since we're all virgins and disregard females I think it would be cool to debate antinatalism.Official Wizardhood licensing
I DID IT BROS.I hate sex
It's completely fucking evil. I hate living in a world where it even exists, much less one where it's celebrated. It's something 99% of men do, they don't even think twice about it. I feel completely alienated from humanity because of this. Every time I read or hear something about it I get this pit in my stomach and a sense of impending doom. It used to give me panic attacks, but now it only fills me with unbridled rage.Why is 4chan so full of fucking normalfags?
You really only notice this on the most popular boards (which should tell you all you need to know) but it's always SEX this, MY GF that. Their favorite insult is "virgin". It's 4chan, that's literally the whole fucking point. It's especially ironic when they complain about "normalfags" but then brag about engaging in the single most normalfag activity there is. Notice how if you browse more niche boards this topic never comes up, it's simply irrelevant. Even on /a/ there's the whole notion of "3DPD" and admitting attraction to, much less EXPERIENCE with 3D whores gets you branded a "tourist". I'm so fucking tired of reading a completely unrelated thread and it inevitably devolved into "durrr this guy doesn't get LAID XD". Jesus christ, why can't they just fuck off back to plebbit with this shit. NO I'VE NEVER SEEN OR TOUCHED MUH EPIC BEEF CURTAINERINOS AND I NEVER WILL. FUCK YOU NORMALFAGGOT RETARD!!!Learning in old age as a wizard? Old dog with no tricks.
For most of us NEETdom is the ultimate way of life, but realistically it is not something that can be sustained into old age.the "loser" concept error...
I have to disagree on the loser concept as voiced here so often.The man
>its nightSerial Killer Thread
Or just generally killer thread? Anyone interested in criminal psychology and violent criminal behavior? This is my new hobby after I stopped reading philosophy. Stuff I read so far:Why are normies so violent?
I'll give you some background, I liked to watch wrestling (scripted, I know) and there have been moments where some crazy fans have jumped in between the ring.I literally can't function as a normal human
Hearing music I liked drives me insane. I am compelled to dance and start hallucinating (the same stuff, usually charging a machine gun nest or riding a tank or some other war kino bullshit). Thing is, it gives me so much dopamine high it turns into a thorough addiction. I can't even read mangas anymore since every 2 page is interrupted by me running around the floor. Let alone reading actual stuff.I'm winging it by residual intelligence and parents being rather well off. Managed to convince boss and coworkers for the last 7 months ( in my bullshit job) that I'm a competent guy, but they always notice something's off when performance review comes up. I'm fucked. Its over for me.