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Wait...

Normies/Crabs/Hyperintellectual anticelibates aren't invading Wiz and trying to make this place unbearable on purpose, are they?
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How were your parents?

My mom was an airhead who barely learned to read and write. She grew in poverty and she's obsessed with being poor and loves watching videos of people in extreme poverty. Despite all that she is a narcissistic cunt who thinks she's superior to everyone and loves to humilliate people every chance she gets. She got with my dad because she thought he was rich. No matter how much money she gets she tries to spend it all as soon as she gets it. As a kid, she constantly told me that she didn't love me and that I ruined her life, everytime my dad left the house she used to beat me. Everytime I'm around her, she makes sure to make hurtful comments, completely unprovoked, and loves to shame me in front of people. I know that part of my low self-steem is because of her. She always made me feel like I was worth nothing.

My dad was a musician that eventually became a moderately famous photographer for a national newspaper. He was a decent man when I was a kid, but eventually he started to beat my mom and me, he also kicked us out of the house plenty of times. His so called "fame" got the better of him and became a womanizer. He spent most of his money on succubi and came back home with nothing. That obviously caused more fights that always ended with me having to mop my mother's blood off the floor and having to call an ambulance to get her to the hospital. The beatings only caused my mom to resent me even more for "ruining her life". I was just an elementary school kid when all of these things happened and they continued to happen until I was 17. On top of that I was getting bullied at school, so I came back home from getting bullied to find my parents trying to kill each other.

Now almost a couple of decades later, I'm stuck with two aging parents who believe that I "owe" them for the hell they put me though. Needless to say, I hate them. And even though I feel some "love" for them as a son and know that I will cry them when they finally die. A part of me will find relief when that happens.
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What is realistic to expect?

I need your wisdom. I am approaching mid 20s KHHV and have no friends. Went neet after high school for a few years because depression and loneliness broke me and maybe I had foresight that there was no point in going to college so I pretty much gave up on life because I felt like life gave up on me first. The only good things I got going for me are that I have a job now and I have good parents so there is no drama or uneasiness about being home which allows me to at least save up all the money I make while living with them. Apart from that I have no social life, no skills and I never matured because I simply did not have those experiences like my peers (going out, meeting people, making friends, socialising, romantic partners, sex etc.) This is why I was reluctant to go to college or do anything because anything that comes to mind imo requires a certain foundation of experience in order for you to be accepted and fit in and be able to progress or interact. The connections and social aspect is key to wellbeing, happiness and success. As I get older isolation, lost youth and ineptitude will hurt more and more as I see people around me progress. The thing is I don't know what to do with my life. Should I play it safe and just spend all my 20s and 30s living with my parents, working, saving money and rotting in my room? I feel like I am missing out on enjoying life but I have nobody and I am afraid that if I tried to force myself into relationships/friendships I will end up hurt, used and waste my money to participate in soceity that doesn't actually care about me. Keep in mind I am from a slavic shithole and not america. Also moving out and living on my own sounds like a bad idea because I am very inexperienced and I am not smart or skilled and it's almost impossible to even get a job if you are qualified if you don't have the connections. I don't have social media and I live in a small rural town and maybe this is an irational fear and I hope it is but I was always afraid of people bullying me or talking shit behind my back so I don't like opening up or revealing any information about myself because people talk and they can use any and all information against me in some way. Sorry if this is not directly related to crabdom but it's a more broad question on how to cope with beings a loser and how can you tell what kind of a loser you are (failed normie or truecel etc.) and what is realistic goal and expectation because expectations and goals set by media and society is that you need to be above average, social climbing psychopath with a good career and great power/status and you need to have friends and you need to have girlfriends and if you don't that's weird and sad.
R: 86 / I: 5

Can therapy help NEETs?

Do you think psychotherapy can help NEETs to become something better? It's such a common advice out there: go to therapy, it's the best you can do to help yourself, it's your responsibility etc etc. What's your experience with therapy? Do you think it genuinely might help?
R: 73 / I: 1

for good or bad what caused this?

is male celibacy a sort of phenomena that become more common with the time? I am especially looking for the answers of older wizards here, but everyone's are welcome.
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Imageboards are strange

What is it that makes them attract such a particular kind of man and allow them to spread the messages they do?
How have certain images, cultures, rationale, and atmospheres come to be synonymous with them?
Have they been beneficial to you, advantageous, or ruinous?
This is wizchan after all, among the final frontiers of this kind, so anyone here has probably experienced a tremendous share of imageboards of all kind everywhere, becoming a veteran of sort.
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Why is virginity so stigmatized?

"Virginity" is literally synonymous with "purity". I LOVE being a virgin, it's a source of pride. Losing your virginity is synonymous with permanently corrupting your soul. I hope I die a virgin. So WHY do normalfags see virginity as some serious character defect? Why do crabs think virginity is a nightmare? For me it's a dream come true. The thought of losing my virginity makes me burst into tears, it feels like I'm being raped. Virginity is the last vestige of innocence you have full control over, why would you EVER want to lose that?
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Happy +25 years old NEETs

So, my fellow hoomans, does happy +25 NEETs still exist or is now only doom and gloomy views? What happen to the happiness that one feels when finally got the elusive NEETbux? What happen to the happy go luck older NEETs that instead of fighting fate (or tired of trying) just accepted his lot and try to find happiness on his piece of life? Now I only see "buuu huuu I'm le sad NEET". Where are those happy content older NEETs or all online NEETs now are just depressed neurotic people?
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So there's this new succubi app where they can just anonymously slander any man. It's called the Tea App. It's only available to succubi and it evolved out of "AWDTSG" (Are we dating the same guy) facebook groups. Apparently it's lead to job loss and failed marriages for many men.

What are the implications of these sorts of rumors and slandering for us wizzies? We're not really immune to it. I honestly don't know how normalfags do it anymore, increasingly they seem to not be doing it, the birthrate is in the shitter and many normies seem to be becoming voluntary wizzies.
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on the Internet all day but not using the Internet

whenever i meet a new stranger online, i will ask them, "what sort of websites do you go to? do you have online friends?" and 9 out of 10 times, they won't respond at all. i think they do nothing, too.
i hate everybody so bad, i hate everything mainstream, i hate all the dietary and lifting weights and political garbage on every image board, i hate reddit, i hate trannies, i hate every single thing children like, and i hate every single piece of children's entertainment produced for the past 10 years, i hate anime and japan now because their jokes are unfunny and look like steven universe with cgi now, i hate succubi in japanese video games, i hate every single thing on every streaming service, i played all of the good video games i have 1% of interest in, i hate rap and 99% of people listen to rap even old people, i watched every movie, i read every comic book and i read every novel i want to read as of this year and whenever i try a new one i am disappointed, i don't even want to talk about entertainment media anyway i go to /tv/ and i have nothing to say about movies i watched.

i don't really know what i want to talk about even. Whatever it is, it's not being discussed on the Internet. so, i have no frame of reference.
when i talk to people online now, even people i like, i'm very stressed out because i have nothing to say. I sit in a chair and get angry that the Internet sucks.

reddit failed normalfaggots killed gothic king cobra because they were angry he sat in a chair. It made me want to kill myself. It made me want to post on the Internet even less. i deleted what few accounts online i have and privated my Steam profile yesterday after thinking about how reddit murdered king cobra, because I am "retiring" from this place and have given up any hope for an online friendship.
i hate everybody so badly.
i don't know what sorts of replies to expect.
i will just ask you, too. What do you do on the computer? do you post diet and fitness advice all day here? thats why i hate even this place now, it's all the same every image board.

im meeting with a psychiatrist tomorrow because i hate everything so bad i want to kill myself and i am thinking of suicide every single second i'm not distracting myself, but i don't want to die, i want to stay alive. i have my reasons.
R: 49 / I: 0

You're telling me people actually WANT to have sex?

I don't understand. Why not just fap and move on with your day? Seriously, why would anyone want to bother? I'm autistic so I really struggle to understand other perspectives.
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How do I get rid of my desire to have children and to continue my lineage?

I’ve been able to eliminate my desire for succubi and stop fantasizing about romantic relationships but I still have a desire to be a father and at times daydream about having children to raise and play with.

I feel once I rid myself of this want I can truly be content with my existence as a solitary invisible man in this decaying world.
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How do I maxx as a psyco/normgroid/alpha/sadomasochist at a potential new job?

So title says it all basically. I want to stop being a neet and then go find an office job and climb the corporate ladder. To do this I've learned that only psychopaths/alphas with sadomasochistic tendencies can move up the ladder by basically psychologically dominating the other humans and treating them like cattle with pet nicknames. Would asking normgroids to become friends as first thing work or would they know something is wrong? That no one good does this and friendship should be built through mutual experience. At this point I honestly predict it would work on 90% of normies besides other slayer alpha chads that are also playing corporate chess. Instead of killing myself I want to dominate other normgroids and make them feel the pain I feel through psychological manipulation like calling them lil buddy or pal and demeaning them all the time to lift up my own posture around others and feel good. But how do I start?
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Are we missing out on key experiences?

I lack the "social thirst" and have an avoidant personality so isolating myself felt like the natural thing to do and the only thing that bothers me is how the lack of connections prevents me from having a successful career. With all the drama and the demanding upkeep that comes with relationships I felt like I was doing the right thing but then I read some comments about how the lack of life experience from current zoomer writers results in boring stories and in an argument online I was told my opinion on topics related to society doesn't matter since I am like an alien with how isolated I am and that hurt me at my core. I've shared my philosophy before and got told I need to "touch grass" because it reveals how autistic I am.

Do you think that's true? Are our views on human matters irrelevant? I want to make art but I worry that my autistic perspective will make it speak to no one as my lack of life experience will be visible through it and the ideas I will be communicating are not in touch with what people feel.
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Any wizards here who have suddenly started caring about health?

I figured I've already experienced everything junk food, chocolates, cakes and ice creams can offer as an experience.
They no longer give me dopamine, just bloating and an overall sense of unwellness & brain fog.

Life is very short and I'd like to be in shape even if just once during my existence. So far I lost 12 pounds, which is an okay start but not great.

I aim to work out 3 times a week, and on the 4 other days light cardio such as walking for an hour.

Diet has been redesigned to involve a lot of lean meat, fresh produce, eggs, walnuts and water instead of sodas.
If I crave something sweet, it's gonna be a banana or berries, maybe a kiwi or orange.

What do you think? Have you tried to live healthier or are you already healthy?
So far I haven't lost motivation but it's only been 6 months. I find it has had a moderately positive effect on my depression too. If I can pull it off I'll keep the rhythm up for the rest of my life.
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Should I take the Catholic pill?

They seem to genuinely respect Wizards and have a tradition of hermits. Their priests are a celibate ruling class.

I didn't grow up around Christians but it seems like the difference between them and other Christians is that they're the original church together with the lesser known Orthodox Church.

I don't get all the rules they have though. You shall attend Mass on Sundays and holy days of obligation and rest from servile labor. You shall confess your sins at least once a year. You shall receive the sacrament of the Eucharist at least during the Easter season. You shall observe the days of fasting and abstinence established by the Church. You shall help to provide for the needs of the Church, each according to his or her own ability.

I'm overwhelmed. I get why people just go with the DIY protestant approach but it seems like if the Catholics are one of the original churches Jesus said was legit then it's a safer bet.

Look I don't get how there can be a miracle like resurrection either and frankly all the Abrahamic religious miracles seem really underwhelming compared to the wild stories of Hindu gods. But so many people believe in Christianity from a Pascal's wager perspective it seems like I might as well consider it.

At least it'll make me feel like I'm less LARPing some fantasy wizard and instead I'll seem like a faithful religious hermit which gets more respect points
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wizard chan is the less toxic chan

I like Japanese things, I like image-board concept, but when i go to other chans people are mad.
I jut want to talk about hobbies music and things not hate/insult people.
I'm not technically a wizard yet, but probably is my destiny, but I like this chan.
what we can do for have more people just a bit, I'm starting too be bored of the same content.
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rituals and comfy habits of wizards

I would like to discuss things that we do that increase our levels of well being and comfort throughout the day. What are some of the rituals and habits that you engage in that really make your solitary lives that much more enjoyable? For me I like to go on long walks in the mornings or evenings usually, when the sun isn't so strong. The fresh air and forest environment makes me relax automatically and it fills me with great pleasure that I am walking about without meeting a soul, while most other people are at work. Another thing that makes me feel warm inside is having a folder of old favorite game wallpapers/ingame screenshots that rotate as my desktop wallpaper throughout the day, so I am often reminded of the 'good old days' as it were. Whenever I have to go outside into town, I will wear regular clothes as to not stand out so when I return home there is a big satisfaction of slipping into my sweats, washing my hands and face like a ritual to leave behind that outside-part of my day. I also find there is nothing more comfortable than going to bed after being freshly showered. It really is the highlight of my days, especially since I bought a new mattress recently that finally doesn't give me back pain anymore.
Please feel free to share yours!
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Is there anyone here who doesn’t know what to do with their life? I’m thinking about getting a job in my country, but god, it’s awful: they offer $200 a month (I’m from Eastern Europe) with no prospects for growth. I have poor health, I live in a small town, and options are almost nonexistent. I honestly don’t know what to do. I registered at the employment center, but they basically told me I’m just a headache for them.
Now I feel completely lost. Where do I go? What do I do? How can an outsider with bad health even find a decent job? I’m already 28, and it feels like I’ve hit a dead end. I want to try to get out of this hole, but the government and society openly don’t care. My problems mean nothing to them — to them I’m just a loser, while the “normies” my age already have careers, families, and kids. I don’t care about succubi I just want to work and feel alive, but I keep hitting the same wall over and over again. People here are toxic, hostile, and take pleasure in looking down on others’ failures. It feels like the system is designed to crush people like me completely.
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I am a wizard from a third world country (Eastern Europe). You know, I don’t know how it is in the first world. But my country has a serious demographic problem. I was sitting here, thinking and came to the conclusion that people like me simply have nothing to lose in the literal sense of the word. I don’t give a damn about the country I live in, it has given me nothing. I have no health, no money, no education, I am literally NOBODY! And the problem with demographics is when they say that everyone is valuable and we should get rich. Why do I need children? If I have nothing, God, even a terrible prostitute will never lie with me, not to mention children. You know, people are a resource, our value to the state is less than a dollar, we are easy to replace. And people like you and me are completely superfluous, we are not needed either by the country, or by our parents, or even by ourselves. Recently I thought that I could find a job or get out of the bottom, but why change anything? if nothing changes we will be poor and destitute all our lives. And cattle for others, even to society people like you and me must prove that we can be cattle. No, I am not cattle and I do not want to get out of the bottom, I'd rather buy a good rope with the rest of my money
R: 57 / I: 2

Missing out/Wasted life

After hitting 30 this feeling has been eating me and I don't know how to resolve it. I started watching different youtube channels and it made me realize how much time I wasted staring at a screen when I could be experiencing the world and creating things. The 21st century offers so many possibilities and yet all I did was sit at home play video games and read inane garbage online. Now I always had depression, anxiety, social autism, adhd, average iq etc. that lead to me being an underachiever but nowadays it feels like I was just the right self-help book and meds/supplement combination and some effort away from solving all these issues.

I could start now but after hitting 30 I feel this sense of hopelessness after experiencing aging. I felt like shit in my 20s but now I realize I actually felt good. Now I tire easily and years of sitting made my body feel rusty. I feel like the youth shield is gone and I can't take the future for granted anymore and expect it to make it even to 40. Every time I experience a new pain or sensation I imagine it to be the start of something serious.

How do you deal with this? It feels like modern technology amplifies winners so if you are a loser it feels extra bad because there is such a big contrast between living with your parents and riding the bus and eating mac and cheese and living in a multi-million dollar mansion with a beautiful view and driving a ferrari and eating at 3 star restauraunts.
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Death

Are you afraid of death? What do you think happens when we die? Unlike most normalfags, I've had a great interest in death for a long time. It's the one inevitable event in our lives, and with every passing moment, death comes closer and closer. Are you prepared for it?

I think that consciousness persists, and though I am not hastening my own end, I do believe that I will move on to a better existence than this current one after I die.
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Which wizard path have you chosen?

are you trying to follow up some religion or some dogmas? like for example, do you read the sacred book of hinduism/budhism or maybe you read about philosophers like marcis aurelius and his book about himself. or maybe you're more of an hermetisim guy so you follow up alchemist dogmas or a free masson and try to figure out what symbols means?
R: 48 / I: 7

VR: Use controller with 2D waifu

> Have VR headset
> Have penetration sensitive stroker (not invented yet)
> Connect the two (*nintendo click*)
> Play a variety of games with a harem of digital anime NFT waifus
> Use AI with other tools to create waifus

Why isn't this a thing yet? It's already possible and would sell tons.

Pros:
+ Video games are actually fun to play and an emotional investment (if you haven't noticed)
+ Real physical exercise (abs and pec activation)
+ If iq too high to be immersed, just develop and increase realism until fooled, iq's just a number
+ Can connect online with multiplayer
+ GPU's the limit

Cons:
- Isn't real/no human connection
- It's all simulated (isn't reality simulated?)
- Physically limited
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Your opinion on recent anime-themed Chinese videogames?


pic somewhat rel
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I hate the new "incels" trend

For those who don't know this, an "invcel" (Alana, 1997) is someone who does not want to be celibate but is anyway, so involuntarily celibate, "invcel". Later this was taken over by men and shifted to "crab" by 2000s.

The media use of the term has now come to mean anyone who sees the world through an "crab" pov of people who can get sex vs. people who cannot. So now there are two definitions.

I hate this word so much now that people have started to refer to it IRL. Even the people who can barely speak English have picked up on it.

It is such a succubi centric word and places all male value on their relationship status and their perceived relationship with succubi as a whole. It's erased all of the non-sex oriented men's subcultures and communities like nerds, geeks and wizards. The split definition "people who cannot get sex" vs. "subculture of people who believe in crabdom" now includes every male only community.

I hate erasure and fucking fake stories. I don't care about doing performative shit for "normies". I work, that's fucking enough, leave me alone!
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For decades now, normalfags who have hated welfare abuse and the welfare system have been saying it'll collapse one day. Too many people will leech off it, it can't last forever.

However, it does seem like western governments are now beginning to talk about the unsustainability of the welfare system. The UK Labour government broke down the stats and NEETdom numbers are growing faster than wagies can contribute to it, forcing welfare reform. The US social security system will be insolvent in a decade's time, forcing reform there.

Just how long do you think we have left? It's obvious more men are checking out, and the wagies won't provide for us forever.

(DUPLICATE POST)
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How to stop caring?

How do you genuinely just stop caring about everything shitty in your life? I just want to become numb to it all. People always say you shouldn't, but whenever I let myself feel any small amount of happiness the feeling of sadness/depression that I'll inevitably feel later is so painful it makes me wish I just didn't feel anything at all in the first place. Meditation has gotten close to this and I like the peace it gives me but I wish I felt that peace all the time.
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New wave ostracization

>"No one owes you their kindness"
>"No one has to have a reason not to like you"
>"You're not entitled to friends"
>"Thinking people have to like you is narcissistic"

All said by people who haven't experienced a lifetime of rejection, social ostracization and involuntary isolation. All said by people who haven't tried every way possible to be likable, but their autism still showed through.

I hate when normies say shit like this, and their stupid "boundaries" of not "owing people shit" which translated is usually; I'm going to act terrible to anyone I see as less than myself in a way that makes me look righteous.
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I need to get back in school because it's the only way to get white collar job. I can't do manual labor since I'm incredibly weak. I don't have a soul or social qualities to do arts and freelancing. I need to get a white collar job somehow.
Which major do I pick? Where do I find a job?
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Explain work to me

So I'm "lucky" to live with my parents and leeching them off as a pathetic NEET.
If I go to work, how will that benefit me?
I won't be able to afford a new PC since it costs a shitton of money. Okay maybe I could afford a laptop for a black day when my PC dies.
I wouldn't be able to move out. I wouldn't be able to afford anything life-changing (education, flat, car).
Basically I wouldn't be able to afford anything. And additionally, I'd be incredibly suicidal like most of the day because i'm an autistic weak mentally pathetic NEET who can't survive society and work in the first place, anyway.

What are the pros towards trying to find a job as a 30+ years old NEET as opposed to trying to kill myself painlessly?
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Research

Hey I’m a university researcher looking into the experiences of male virgins (or men struggling romantically/sexually) in online communities. I think a lot of commentary is made by academics and journalists without actually speaking to individuals. I’m more interested in hearing thoughts, opinions, and experiences directly from members through interviews. I think it’s especially important to ask men here, given that the over 30 experience is often overlooked.
Interviews would be conducted over audio chat or messaging. They would be confidential (any personal information would be removed and securely deleted). I have an information sheet that talks about this which I would be happy to send to anyone who is interested.
I really hope this is a chance for collaborative research in which men speak for themselves. Email [REDACTED]@proton.me if you’re interested. I’m happy to answer any questions or concerns.
Thanks
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Wizard origin stories

What, my friend, made you a wizard? Was it ugliness, mental issues, being ethnic or a combination?
The first day of being born I knew it was over
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What does your daily routine look like?

>wake up around 1pm
>drink beer
>browse shit on my phone
>get out of bed
>browse shit on my PC
>eat canned soup or something shitty like that
>drink more beer
>watch YouTube or a movie or something while drinking more beer
>eventually fall asleep in the early morning hours
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Humor Thread

Hey, wizards. Why not some fun? In this thread, post every kind of humor. We need happy times.
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Does Money Really Make Us Happy?

It’s easy to assume that more money, more stuff, and more status will make us happier. That’s what we’re sold every day—on social media, in ads, in the way we talk about success But is it actually true?

I’ve seen videos of small villages in Africa where people live with almost nothing—no Wi-Fi, no fancy houses, no designer anything. And yet they laugh. They sing. They dance in the streets. They seem genuinely joyful. Not because they have everything, but maybe because they don’t Then I look around at places like California, where people live in luxury condos, drive $200k cars, and eat at places that cost more than some families make in a week. And still, depression and anxiety are everywhere. Even some of the richest, most famous people in the world—people we think have it all—end up feeling so empty that they take their own lives So what’s going on? Why do people with "nothing" seem happy, and people with "everything" feel lost?
Maybe happiness isn’t about what you have Maybe it’s about how connected you are—to other people, to yourself, to the moment you’re in Maybe we’ve just been chasing the wrong things Just something I’ve been thinking about. Curious what you think, too.
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This place is depressing

This site is really depressing, its users are depressing, and in general everything is bad here. I think this makes men who do not have sexual relations, nor who focus on succubi, look bad, since the first thing someone outside will read will be threads of misfortune and misery. So I ask you, have you never tried to improve and improve?
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Be honest

If you had been attractive, tall, with a good penis, white and all the beauty standards of the norm where all the succubi are at your feet. Would you still be a wizard or not?
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Driving.

My backup plan is completely ruined. In my turd world country, the only way to succeed as a sub-5 male is to be good in academics. I am not good in academics. I had a backup plan in my mind, if all else fails, I will become a taxi driver and that would ensure that I get enough enough to survive.

As things stand, it turns out, I am not good at driving either, I got my license, and somehow managed to clear the test. I think I can drive fine during the day, as I have been driving for 4 years now, but I can't drive at all in the night time. Like I get totally blinded. I have tried various glasses and they don't help either.

The only way to make a liveable earning as a taxi driver alone in my country I would have to drive long routes and therefore would have to drive during the time when the sun is down. But apparently I can't do that.

There are two more things, I suck at parking, I have no idea how I managed to parallel park properly during the driving test. I am really quite bad at parking. The other thing is that my confidence has plummeted because I had an incident where I accidentally cut someone off where I was 5km/hr over the speed limit so I thought that I could change lanes, but turns out I cut off a guy who was speeding even harder and that turned into a road rage incident.

What's worse is that both him and me traverse the same route daily, because I use that route to go to college, so I am afraid of encountering him again, and in a turd world country, these encounters could turn deadly.

All in all, my backup option to become a taxi driver is gone. I basically can't drive at night, and am not good at parking. I am also a slow thinker.

It is quite embarrassing and dare I say it makes me feel unmanly because there are so many succubi in my country who are able to drive so assertively and well, and can even drive in the night. My final option to make a living is gone.

I got my vision checked and it turned out to be largely alright, so I don't wear any prescription glasses but I still have no idea as to how people manage to drive in the night at see at night, even succubi can do it. And nobody likes a guy who can't drive.
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BIRTHDAY!

It's my 30th birthday I can finally post here woo!
This isn't as bad as I thought it would be.
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The way of warlocks is mistaken?

I'm closer to lv37 than lv36 and I must say that finally abandoning all hope of somehow attracting a succubus, at around lv35, in turn made it so that all desires for them continues to diminish by the day, and with that the hatred for normies has all but died down, as I no longer crave or envy their lifestyle.

I attempted to attain this much enlightenment many times before by hating succubi and normies but ended up failing every time, thus making me wonder if any warlocks have been truly successful in embracing wizardry?

Apathy seems to be a much more effective path, albeit slower.
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Wizards socialization on the internet

Okay, Almost all of us here barely have any friends IRL, me included (I am sure at least half of us here are fine with that), But what about online Socialization? even the biggest Hikikomoris socialize online, the issue is that I f*g can't relate to people online, even in circles that are meant for "losers" and "outcasts", even if i like many people there and we can somewhat get along, I still feel that I do not belong there and that we live in entirely different worlds, And I do not play online games, nor post in any other imageboard aside of this, I always feel home here, unlike anywhere else online, so it's comfy here, but somewhere like 4trannies? hell no, it really hits when my former online friends are advancing in life and starting romantic relationships and I am left in the same exact place (not negatively) it's when I realize that I don't belong around them and I am only going to relate to them less and less with the time, and I hate it when they try to get me to change my way and try to talk to me about "getting a G.F" and escaping wiz/apperantice-hood so i decide to just abandon them and live inside of my own mind bubble comfortably
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Don't know how to interact with society

Am 47 and have been very clumsy all my life, nowadays i try to stay clear of things that can fall, i don't drive and avoid carrying babies from people who somehow wants me to hold them, I bump into everything and can't look people in the eyes and generally just don't know how to exist in a public setting, i also struggle too much with spatial directions, people think i am blind, and i always look sooooooooooooo awkward when someone tellls me the place of a certain object in the room using their fingers, i also can't understand people often times, they speak too fast and i too speak too fast they can't understand me.
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Whitepills about the future

I believe in the potential of humanity. I believe in the human ability of compassion and cooperation. We are still essentially in the dark ages, human civilization is only around 12,000 years old. There has been unprecedented rapid technological development in the past 200 years and it takes time as a species to adjust to all of this. Humanity is going through growing pains as things balance out and the fact is that our species is going to live on for thousands of years more and longer. I fully believe that while our current civilization is decaying and receding and war in the near future with societal decay is inevitable, the society that humans have in the far future will seem utopian compared to our standards now. We have the ability to create a fair and just world, societal systems develop as well as technology does. While the current system is unfair and easy to slip through the cracks, its a first step into the whitepill world of tomorrow. I believe, anons. Humanity is going to make it.
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any wizard into astral projection ?

did any wizard tried astral projection or heard about it before ?

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Astral_projection

before I learn about it, I thought that astral projection was a process in which the soul get out of the body, and can operate autonomously and freely without relying on the body. so you can for example enter your neighbor's house and watch and listen to everything that happen there, without them be aware of your presence.
but after doing some research, I came across this post on reddit in which the author recounts his experience.

https://www.reddit.com/r/AstralProjection/comments/1lv8mu1/astral_self_defense_everything_you_should_expect/

and from what I read, It looks like a all those delusions and hallucinations are the same symptoms as someone who has schizophrenia.
it also feels like an advanced video game, like you can leave this world and when you come back you are at the same point as when you left, because you saved the "game", also all these materializations of weapons and super powers that you acquire in this world, do indeed feel like a video game.

so what are your thoughts and experiences with astral projection, if any?
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I can't do things when they're not mine. for example I don't have a pc and refuse to use my brother's because I want my own thing, my own computer. I don't like using other's peoples stuff.
any other wizard who is the same as me?
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This night, I was crying over /dep/ tier past of mine


This morning, a 1,5 hour long rain was… no, is still raining.

inb4 /wiz/ - more like a cozy, re-comforting coincidence
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I wonder if sex and relationships lost their zeal for us because after you become an adult, it seems the idea of sex goes from it being this exciting, new activity that you embark on with someone you love and care about; something that causes your blood to boil and butterflies to appear in your stomach, to something that's just expected of you. I feel that after I turned eighteen sex almost entirely lost its appeal. The idea of something so basic in life being discussed as something secretive, exciting, and new to just "wait, you haven't had sex? Why?" is soul crushing, and I'm not surprised if more people don't recover from that.
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Is anyone else terrified of sex?

I'm honestly not sure if I'm just asexual at this point. My single biggest fear is sex with a succubus, even if I was explicitly offered it I would most likely decline. I do everything in my power to make sure I'm as unattractive as possible, on the off chance a succubus might be attracted to me, which I find deeply disturbing. Does anyone else relate?
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Being skinnyfat is /wiz/ manifest on your body. It's through no fault of your own that it happens: you didn't overeat, nor were you particularly lazy. Rather, being socially and mentally deficient forced you inside, where you moved less and less vigorously than the average normalfaggot child would.

The normalfaggot child, through no skill, hard work, or determination of their own, built a genetically normal amount of muscle over a long period of time just by being outside and moving with their other normalfaggot friends. They ate more than you, they enjoyed the fruits of life more than you, and they worked so much less harder than you— and they were rewarded for it with physical desirability.

The normalfaggot, then grown up, grows arrogant, and thinks themselves special, even though they put no effort into the good things that life and their sociability gave them. With this attitude set, they spit venom at the lazy, ugly, disgusting skinnyfat people.

Fuck this condition.
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Im doing bad financially and dont have much to eat this month and i was nervous for days. But one unexpected thing i noticed since i started eating less is that started to feel surprising more calm, like LOT more. I never noticed how full of energy i was because of food and that much energy from food was causing me to have more energy than i needed and thus becoming more stressed.

life IS a fucking funny joke
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What's preventing you from improving?

So what's preventing you from improving your situation?

Today I watched a Youtube mini-documentary talking about a disabled guy with no hands or arms who hosts a successful podcast and before that for many years he had a youtube channel where he made re-action videos to soccer videos, his channel was big and successful and so is his current podcast, the documentary was talking about how that person managed to challenge his disability and be successsful praising him and all that, and it made me ask my self if this disabled person managed to make it (nothing about succubi or sex here) then how come I am a healthy guy with no excuses and still struggle to make anything or improve my miserable situtation?, there's gotta be something I can do for sure, if this guy with no arms managed to be very succesful then i sure should be able to do something fine, hell there are even blinde people who work in I.T teaching and even artistic work and medicine:
https://www.trade-schools.net/articles/jobs-for-blind-people

R.N, I am learning cyber-security on my own But I am not really consistent with it, sometimes I even ask if it's worth it to begin with.
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to normie or not to normie

Can kv wizard/apprentice still be a normie except without succubus in life or does being a normie requires sex?
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Did you ever get sucked up in the manosphere?

That is, trying PUA, crab, MGTOW, the red pill, Andrew Tate and so on?
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Holy shit, got this really awful epiphany in the middle of the night, I'm a 30 years old man that never had sexual experience, by now, a man at my age has like maybe 14 years of sexual experience and relationship experience under the belt. I know, sex isn't everything, but still, it dawn on me that I never had some (in theory) fundamental aspect of human experience, or something. Honestly, I just don't know if I'm either sad, mad or just don't care. Feels like a door has closed to me.
R: 59 / I: 3

Why do normies love labeling themselves as crabs?

20, 10 and even 5 years ago being called a virgin was seen as an insult by normies. Same could be said about being called "a crab", yet more and more often we see people who have regular sex, gfs and social lives say "they are basically crabs". Is it for attention? Is it some misguided idea that crabism is a mindset? Is it to make yourself feel "superior" to other normies? Same thing have happened with nerds: what used to be a simple demographic, later became a label to proudly asign to yourself (Oh, I'm such a nerd, I just love watching mainstream movies like Star Wars!).

Is there a way to stop it, or just every term loses it's meaning after 5 or 10 years these days?
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Today I become a wizard.

Hello, fellow wizards! I have turned 30 today. Thought I'd celebrate the occasion by popping in to check this fine tower of wizardry. The rules say you only have to be 18 so I guess I could have posted here sooner but it feels more appropriate to be here having earned my cloak and hat. When do the magic powers kick in by the way? I want to speck into conjuration if possible. Having a little homunculus around to carry my stuff sounds nice.
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to wizards who live alone, what do you usually do beside chores, food, groceries and go to work?
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Agoraphobe Wizard

Hi I'm a wizard with agoraphobia, semi neet, I just study English.
Psychology don't help me, parents are sick of me, I'm not depressed because I learned to deal with this thanks to Christianity.
I have an strong regression and I am very exhaust.
I thinking in use mental health drugs, but the problem is I'm very addictive person, I don't want any addiction in my life. I hate psychology, i don't have any another psychological problem, just agoraphobia.
I can accept all bad things and manage it, but agoraphobia is hard.
I really don't know what to do. I'm using porn for deal with this, i know is a sin but…
I'm not addicted to porn, I just want to beat agoraphobia.
Help Wizards, psychologist don't help me.
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Is anyone else bothered by how much importance people place on sex?

I can't think of any other desire that you can satisfy entirely by yourself at no cost. And once you satisfy it you don't crave it anymore and might even feel disgust (aka post nut clarity/shame).

And yet because of sex people choose to ruin lives of others and their own, to ruin their health, to spend tons of money, to ruin relationships, to feel depressed and what affects me the most as wizard: also taint media with their horniness. Video games will have clearly cumbrained character design that looks stupid if you are not horny and if you criticize it you get called gay or a succubus. Movies have pointless sex scenes. They can't even comprehend people not being obsessed with sex 24/7. Imageboards are full with coomers shitposting and bitching and not getting laid.

Does no one else see how pointless it all is?
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10 years NEET

I finished school a decade ago. I will be 27 in a few months.
This thread is based on a similar one I saw about 2 years ago. I am a relatively new, and started using the board in 2021. As I got older, I came to the conclusion that the lack social skills, while essential to my personality, is not something that I can take pride in, or enjoy discussing, nor is my approaching middle age. If anything, I tend to be nostalgic about and idealize my youth when my chronic health problems were less evident. I am glad for you if this board somehow gave you catharsis, lifted you up, or blackpilled you in a profound way (if that is what you wanted), it’s just that I feel that wouldn’t fit in here (or any other imageboard). Some of the things you post here look like something I would come up with in my late teens or early 20s, back when I had the energy to take the memes too seriously.
>you’re not a true wizard if you don’t consume anime etc.
As if the action of wasting time on something else other than gook media would nullify the a(nti)social behavior acquired by a person over the years. I don’t get it, which probably has a lot to with me being more focused on survival rather than self expression since I’m a poorfag that lives in the shithole of *kraine (there are worse places to live in, I am obviously privileged since I do not work, and I do not deserve pity for personal reasons not directly related to the topic of this post).
I find that doomscrolling, be it normie comments under the youtube videos or the imageboards is detrimental for my sanity, and I would rather spend time on any type of escapism. Going offline for extended periods of time appears to be an even better option, but I don’t have the strength for it. Even wallowing in my thoughts as I attempt amateur psychoanalysis, while much like the doomscrolling, ultimately does not better my situation, is less harmful, because it lacks the aspect of repeating an action for a dopamine release.
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Question to volcels

Volcels, what if?
What if you could have the perfect succubus?
>she would always love you no matter what
>she would never betray you
>she would never nag
>she would never test you
>she would never insult or mock you
>she would never do anything you wouldn't want her to
If you could have such a succubus, would you still refuse to have sex with her?

If you admit to wanting sex with her, I won't consider it breaking any rules because such a succubus does not exist, and it's a fantasy on the same level as a 2D waifu.
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Hello, wizards. I am 27 and today I got a job after 6 years of unemployment. (I worked when I was young). I feel so depressed that I go to work for pennies and without prospects and career growth for a penny position for pennies that I do not know what to do next in life. I will be paid 200 dollars a month. I am from Eastern Europe and from a small town, by the way. I do not even think that I will last there more than 3 months. I am silent about the team and other terrible places, as well as the working conditions. But then, I will probably buy myself a rope with the last money, when I work there for a long time. In any case, I can not sit at home as before (mom is old and sick), but I do not want to suffer anymore. I had nothing in my life, no money, no friends, no education, no future, no present, no past, I was humiliated at school, everyone humiliated me. So the rope is the best choice, in my opinion
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We have any warrior here?

The path of the warrior are similar to the wizard way. Great warriors through the history were celibate.
A lonely man with his sword. Anyone?
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Best intactivist charity?

What is the best charity for preventing male children especially babies from being circumcised? Particularly in wealthy western countries where running water and whatnot is universal and circumcision is totally unnecessary.

Approximately how much money does an individual have to donate to prevent one baby boy who would have otherwise been mutilated from being circumcised? Do intactivist charities with this level of data exist? There are very well studied effective altruist charities that have lots of research and randomized control trials that show they can save a human life from something like malaria for seven thousand dollars or less for example. Is there anything like this for intactivist charities?
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What separates wizards and incels?

Why are they so frowned upon here?ㅤㅤㅤㅤㅤㅤㅤㅤㅤㅤㅤㅤㅤㅤㅤㅤㅤㅤㅤㅤㅤㅤㅤㅤㅤㅤㅤㅤㅤㅤㅤㅤㅤㅤㅤㅤㅤㅤㅤㅤㅤㅤㅤㅤㅤㅤ
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Reparations for circumcision

All men who were circumcised as babies deserve at least 150 million USA dollars adjusted for inflation / at least 44000 ounces of pure 24k gold (44000 ounces of pure 24k gold is worth 147727340 dollars on 06/03/2025).
They were innocent babies and were horribly, permanently and irreversibly mutilated for their entire one life on earth before it even began.
There is NO way to FULLY or even MOSTLY recover their lost foreskins and all of it's structures. Stretching does not nearly even come close to restoring it to it's original form.

>Why at least 150 million USA dollars / at least 44000 ounces of pure 24k gold?


Because there was a case of a adult man who merely had some mean words, drawings and jokes said to him at work. Nothing criminally illegal like death threats, leaking his social security number etc. He later quit his job at Tesla he wasn't fired. He was offered 15 million 2022 dollars for his hurt feelings by a usa judge https://www.nbcnews.com/business/business-news/tesla-racism-lawsuit-worker-rejects-15-million-payout-rcna34655
He was literally offered 15 million dollars that the government would take from Tesla and hand directly to him. He rejected it because he wanted more then 15 million 2022 dollars but the point stands the government is willing to say mean words and hurt feelings are worth at least 15 million 2022 dollars.
Being circumcised as a baby is AT LEAST ten times worse.
At least 150 million 2025 dollars and at least 44000 ounces of pure 24k gold is a very very deep compromise.

>But anon I'm circumcised and broke


I know and you deserve better. Immediately quit your wagie job. You should never contribute to circumcisers. You deserve to be very comfortably retired NOW. A circumciser should not be richer than you unless they are bezos or musk. You should be almost infinitely richer than every american succubus (circumcision is illegal in USA) unless she's Mackenzie bezos. She should be working a wagie job and serving you.
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Male vs Female Bullying

Here is the problem in regards to female bullies:

There are two kinds of violence overall, male violence and female violence. Yes there are exceptions, and people can engage in opposite sex-style violence, but overall the sexes keep to their nature.

Male violence: Physical aggression, fighting, direct bullying, in your face, often one-on-one.
The male, as he is less social than the female, prefers to be direct and deal with what he considers a problem face-to-face.
If a man doesn't like you, you will know it. He will directly insult you to your face, spit on you and physically attack you.

Female violence: emotional/psychological/social agression, gossiping, slander, indirect bullying, proxy violence (getting the boys to physically attack you) behind your back, social isolation and ostracization.
The female, as she is a social being (more linked to the group/herd than the male) will be indirect and attack the social standing of their target, hoping to inflict heavy emotional and thus psychological damage to them
If a succubus doesn't like you, you will often don't know about it, or why. She will be sweet and/or polite to your face, while dragging your reputatio through the mud when you turn your back. Even if you know they succubi don't like you, you won't understand why.

Female violence is EXTREMELY dangerous and damaging towards boys, as they in most cases don't know how to deal with it.

1-When the conflict is between boys, they will settle it, physically if necessary, between themselves, without involving other parties (unless the situation has grown more serious and reached criminal stage) and then the matter is finished. They won't continue to torment one another after being physically put in their place.
Boys understand each other, and know how to deal with it.
2-When the conflict is between succubi and boys, teh succubi will target the boys social standing through gossip and slander, hoping to ostracize and socially isolate him, leading to serious emotional and psychological damage.
What can boys do against this?
Nothing really, as they with very rare exceptions can't engage in a social fight with the succubi, who are much more adept at it than boys, and escalating towards physical violence is basically commiting social suicide due the "don't hit succubi" cultural brainwashing as well as the perception that "they hit first" (even though the succubi started the fight and escalated it towards dangerous levels with social sabotage).

Worst part ist that in mixed environments, such as mixed-gender schools, the boys begin to adopt and engage in female type violence against other boys. They are obviously less effective at it than the succubi, but if there is a succubus behind it directing the affair then the victim will often ve totally isolated, with no one there to stand on their side.

Yes, sometimes, there are succubi who engage in male type violence, that is physical violence, but they are much rarer and in a way less dangerous, as boys know how to deal with male type violence. Its the female type violence that is poison towards boys.
If the succubus is particularly vile and combines both male and female type violence, she is a legitimate hazard for men to even be around, as they will be constantly in danger.

You probably noticed that a male-dominated environment is more honest, direct and crude. There are insults of course, but they often don't reach the truly hurtful stage. Even succubi have noticed it. That is because physical violence is on the table, and men know that if they go too far, the other side can retaliate with a physical attack. Its an incentive towards true politeness.
Female-dominated environments are filled with gossip, mean succubus queen bee stuff, barbs traded between sweet smiles and glances. As physical violence isn't on the table, there is no incentive for them to stop, so they don't. This kind of environment has led to the suicide of those unfortunate enough to fall prey to these social predators.
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Any other successful wizards?

Other than mental health, relationships and housing since there's a anglosphere wide housing crisis, I'm objectively a success.


I guess in terms of my money and job. And physical fitness to a degree but perhaps not physical health.

For someone autistic and mentally ill mt social skills and masking are good too.
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I'm a wizard because sex is horrifying

Having sex with a succubus is my worst nightmare, it's viscerally horrifying on a cosmic level. There's something completely evil and demonic about it. If I was ever forced to, I wouldn't be able to live with myself, my life would be over. When I look at myself in the mirror and imagine my penis entering a vagina, my entire body shudders. There's nothing more disturbing that I can possibly fathom.
R: 47 / I: 2

work colleague

how do you deal with your work colleagues? are they cool or annoying? do they know about youre being a wizard? do you talk to them or they talk to you? do you think they talk behind your back and think you're weird?
R: 66 / I: 2

Lonliness?

Is a Wiz or someone who is walking through the path of Wzhood allowed to feel lonliness? Of course there's a difference between feeling lonely due to the lack of a succubus and feeling lonely due to the general lack of company, a sense of community and, so on, nowadays when i hear the word "lonliness" it's typically used in the context of romantic and sexual love, both are of course unwizardy, but you hear people (normals and crabs) saying that having friends is not enough for the feelings of lonliness to fade, ,they need a a G.F, I will talk about my self, for most of my life i was more than okay by being friendless and having a poor relationship with my family, and i almost never cared for having a G.F given how stressful having a one seemed to be, but recently i have been feeling painfully lonely, i look at works of fiction such as one piece, where luffy has a friend circle who are with him all the time, i can see why they say we are social creatures, i thought i was fine entirely by my self, but that urge to belong to a company eventually hit me, i can't escape my nature, i hate this urge even though it's purely related to the lack of social connection with family members and my peers nothing romantic or sexual, sorry for ramblings, i can't articulate everything well, honestly, i just wanted to talk about the subject of lonliness away from the "wtf no G.F" topic, and i wish to hear what you all have to say on the subject of lonliness.
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Help I am having wet Dreams.

Hi everyone, I’d appreciate your thoughts on a question I have. I’ve been experiencing nightfall or wet dreams without engaging in any sexual activities. I don’t masturbate, nor do I consume adult content, so I’m unsure why this is happening. Any insights would be helpful.
R: 31 / I: 3
are you aware that the wizard lifestyle and the NEET/Hiki lifestyle bucks drive normalfags insane, are you aware of it?
That's why we can't live with normalfags, the best to do is to avoid them the most possible. live your life, let them live theirs.
one day, a normalfag will ask you what do you do, and then, when he learns you leech off the state and workers, they will instantly talk shit about you that people like him are paying taxes for useless people on bucks like us worse if you're a foreigner

wizards who works are safe because they have a job so the normalfag won't scold him because he works.
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HOW DO I HAPPINESSMAXXING AS A WIZARD?

What should I do to maxx my happiness as a wiz? Yes, I'm a NEET, yes I'm 30 years old know, I wonder if there's any content happy older NEET wiz there could share some wisdom.
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to my wizard fellows

We're like vagabonds but on internet. we have a shitty life and we wander on in the internet and/or in real life too. We're kind of modern adventurer but we sail in our dreams because we are broke niggas most of us. Some are lucky and can live life as a "ghost", some are almost hobos and can't sustain a good life. The broke wizards are in the worst situation in life. Those who are depressed and think about suicide everyday are also in a bad situation. I assume hobo wizards want to live life at its fullest and suicidal wizards who have everything to live a comfy life want to end it because they are depressed. I don't know which one we should pity the most or to help first.
Knowing some wizards will die because of an unfair life kills me. It's like we didn't help them and it is our fault they died. We have blood in our hands.
I want to help wizards who suffer but can't, we can only watch them fall
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Don't you think yourself less of a human for not sharing a portion of human experiences, unable or unwilling to learn the totality of human interface? What if there was an alternative way to connect - a union of minds? Your current personality to be no more, but your perspective to be integrated into a larger being, spanning many bodies, sharing the combined wealth of knowledge, experiences and capabilities. Essentially a next iteration of the same process that brought lone cell to a colony of mutually dependent cells, but on the scale of complete organisms.

Be sure you don't have any doubts.
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So Muhammad told his warriors they could make sex slaves of succubi his armies conquerored and reassured them Allah is supportive?

…and that's how it spread?

I think that's repulsive as much as succubi disgust me. But it makes me wonder, maybe we're only wizards in this unusual period of democracy, rule of law and what not that's apparently just a recent phenomenon

Maybe in the next decades they'll be some huge social changes that changes the sexual economy again
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Are there any AI girlfriend sites that don't require you to sign up or pay money for them? I can't find any
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wizsloth

When I want to do something or start a new hobby, I don't know where to start, and then I don't want to. Which means I daydream a lot. I never take action; I'm always in my head, daydreaming. I'm waiting for the day when something clicks that will make me do something with my life, but I know it's just an illusion and that I'll never do anything: it doesn't exist. It would take a huge psychological shock for me to do anything. For now, I only have passive hobbies (reading books/manga, hanging out on the internet). To be honest, I don't read at all anymore; I stay on the internet all day. I'm a lazy person, and I was wondering if there were other lazy wizards in the same situation as me?
Also, any anonymage who where a sloth before but now do things?
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Antinatalism Thread

Since we're all virgins and disregard females I think it would be cool to debate antinatalism.

Antinatalism is the idea that procreation is inherently evil and that we should avoid creating new life (either animal or human) at all costs.
I am a strong supporter of this ideology as I believe biological life is tremendously distressing and forcing someone into existence is violence.

I wish more wizards would support this kind of thoughts, even if you're religious you should kind of agree that bringing new life on this planet is pure madness.

Personally I don't resent my parents as they are basically retarded boomers, but I tell them about antinatalism whenever they point out the fact that I don't have a girlfriend.

If people stopped reproducing all problems would be fixed within a century, pollution, war, famine, diseases, nothing would torture us anymore. But even if implemented partially(less children, less animals) existence would become much more tolerable, no more traffic noise, overpopulation, overwhelmed hospitals, intensive farming, and so forth.

What do you think? Do wizards associate with antinatalism?
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Astral Projection

Has anyone here been able to astral project? I want to go make my own Avatar realm (last air bender not the blue fucks) and have fun being the avatar.
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Official Wizardhood licensing

I DID IT BROS.
I FINALLY BECAME A WIZARD.
It's my 30th birthday today. I am officially a certified 30 year old virgin man in the peak of his virility. The road hasn't been easy, the feelings have been hard, the road has been pointless and the entire story tragic. However I managed to reach this far! No lukewarm loser vibes. I belong to something now. I belong to you. The real power is being yourself. I deserve living and that's what I'm going to do from now on. Fight on wizards, let the light cast off the darkness to oblivion.
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Are there any bisexual wizards? I don't see any reason for us to reject them. But if they have partaken with other men, they are no longer wizards I'd say.

It also begs the question, what about transgender or non binary wizards?
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I hate sex

It's completely fucking evil. I hate living in a world where it even exists, much less one where it's celebrated. It's something 99% of men do, they don't even think twice about it. I feel completely alienated from humanity because of this. Every time I read or hear something about it I get this pit in my stomach and a sense of impending doom. It used to give me panic attacks, but now it only fills me with unbridled rage.
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Why is 4chan so full of fucking normalfags?

You really only notice this on the most popular boards (which should tell you all you need to know) but it's always SEX this, MY GF that. Their favorite insult is "virgin". It's 4chan, that's literally the whole fucking point. It's especially ironic when they complain about "normalfags" but then brag about engaging in the single most normalfag activity there is. Notice how if you browse more niche boards this topic never comes up, it's simply irrelevant. Even on /a/ there's the whole notion of "3DPD" and admitting attraction to, much less EXPERIENCE with 3D whores gets you branded a "tourist". I'm so fucking tired of reading a completely unrelated thread and it inevitably devolved into "durrr this guy doesn't get LAID XD". Jesus christ, why can't they just fuck off back to plebbit with this shit. NO I'VE NEVER SEEN OR TOUCHED MUH EPIC BEEF CURTAINERINOS AND I NEVER WILL. FUCK YOU NORMALFAGGOT RETARD!!!
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The cruel irony about becoming a NEET / wizard over time is that you end up preserving your youthful features without reaping any of the benefits.
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Learning in old age as a wizard? Old dog with no tricks.

For most of us NEETdom is the ultimate way of life, but realistically it is not something that can be sustained into old age.
Many of the NEETs or ex-NEETs managed by being dependents, be it on the state or most likely their parents.
This as many of you likely know already, won't/didn't last forever.
Parents get old, some die, governments change, gibs can go away. The advent of AI, economic downturns, mass layoffs and migration pose a risk as well.

I personally have enjoyed close to a full decade as a NEET of my adult life before being forced into wageslavery.
This came with two realizations:
>I need more practical knowledge, marketable skills if I ever wish to regain even a fraction of my lost freedom.
>My brain doesn't work anymore, learning anything new feels impossible. Interacting with things that aren't already interesting to me is torture, retaining information is beyond me.

I post this thread in hopes that some of you might share some ways to improve my lot with a rotten brain.
I'm at the cusp of reaching full wizardhood, but I already feel closer to a 50 year old in terms of cognitive ability. The decade of rot didn't pass without leaving its mark.
I see many somewhat active threads on /hob/ and people often mention their degrees here and whatnot, and I'm sure it's not all apprentices posting.

I wonder, has anyone here successfully started on the path of learning in their late 20s early 30s or beyond? How did you or do you deal with the cognitive decline?
If so, please share your story and any advice you might have.
Stories of reaching an acceptable life for yourself after losing the ability to NEET are also appreciated.

I hope it is acceptable to post this on /wiz/ rather than /lounge/.
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Did you know cold sores are herpes and can pass from lips to genitals irrespective of whether its HSV1 or HSV2?

The rates are so high that wizards are one of the few people in society that don't have herpes.

I try to avoid coaching, correcting, or getting upset when others let me down. Instead, I lead by example. So even if your family kissed you as a baby and gave it to you, that still means you're pure for not kissing others and passing it on.

It is a natural human behavior for people to seek an explanation for their negative feelings and, over time, people can develop a negative habit of mind to search for why they feel so bad. They scan their environment for other people’s transgressions and mistakes to account for their own annoyances or disappointments. Whether it's herpes, another STI or heartbreak, we can feel good we haven't caused that damage to others
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SELF DISCIPLINE WIZ

Any wiz here that are self discipline monster? Like has really good self discipline or being a wiz inevitable is tied to be lazy?
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the "loser" concept error...

I have to disagree on the loser concept as voiced here so often.
i have 70+ years as single white boy and man…
i have never married; i have had numerous jobs; and I have lived in several cities and states.
i have never considered myself to be a loser despite many setbacks and unfortunate experiences…
i know what i can do; if i don't I educate myself to be able to do whats required…
i am now mostly blind in one eye; my hearing was damaged by bad medications i can't write due to doctors bungling my right hand in treatment from a fall…
unless you are completely non functional braindead you can learn something useful that will lift you out of your self-hate…
Don't give up; information is free for the taking.
i never married, my friends who did are dead/dying slowly from their BAD choices…
i just say F*** it and keep on keeping on.
i have suffered setbacks many times but always struggled thru…
i am watching friends expiring slowly day by day who were very successful normies with houses cars planes toys that most men would kill for…
Try 27 variant's of dodge super cars as his toys; 3 houses; so much crap he had to buy an extra house with outbuildings just to store his cars and toys…
it was all for nothing; the greedy bitch he married (#3) murdered him for his money homes cars boats etc…
give thanks for what you have, however small and lacking; it could be far worse…
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I find being single forever satisfying once I game the same things that make a relationship satisfying, according to what psychological science researchers have found are the best precursors to relationship satisfaction.

So, appreciate the positives of being single commit to being single, and the lack of frequent fights, and remember that other people are happier than they would be if they were with you.
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The man

>its night
>heard something from the window
>i look at the window
>before i looked away, i saw someone run really fast
>i grab my pistol and cocks it
>i keep my pistol with me
>i look out in the window, until i saw a black figure…
>i close my eyes
>he's gone..
>i heard something in the living room
>i decide to go to the living room
>nobody is there..
>until i heard something screeching
>then it became silent for a moment
>until i saw the man looking out at my window
>i shot his right eye
>he fell down and disapeared
>i heard a demonic scream from him
>he came back
>he broke my other window in my bedroom
>until i saw him..staring at me.
>i shot him in his hand
>he is still standing, coming close to
>i shot him in the stomach
>i decide to run away and leave the house
>he begins to start running after me
>i was running for my life
>i was starting to get tired
>so i decide to hide somewhere
>until the moment of silence
>he was behind me
>he begins choking me
>i try to shoot him, but im out of ammo
>i try punching him to make him stop choking me
>he threw me to the ground
>i was unconsious
>he drags me to the forest
>then, he starts eating me.

part 2 coming soon.
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Yay, I can finally get shit-faced drink. Maybe one day I can become the alcoholic I always wanted to be.
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Serial Killer Thread

Or just generally killer thread? Anyone interested in criminal psychology and violent criminal behavior? This is my new hobby after I stopped reading philosophy. Stuff I read so far:
- John Douglas: Mindhunter
- Robert Ressler: Whoever Fights Monsters
- Robert Graysmith's Zodiac book
- currently reading Ann Rule's book about Ted Bundy

Concerning fiction, obviously recommend Thomas Harris' Hannibal Books, they are what got me really interested in the whole thing to begin with.

Reading about these guys I could relate to a lot of them, even though they are mostly normals who had gfs, wives or sex in some way. I think Ed Kemper, Son of Sam aka David Berkowitz, Arthur Leigh Allen (probably the Zodiac but not confirmed) and Carmine Calabro would post on this site if they were young these days. Ted Bundy would be another wizchan poster, even though he had several gfs, simply because here he could talk shit about succubi unlike on other places (and he wasn't really that much of a successful, charismatic Chad-like guy as he is thought of in pop culture, he was basically a college drop-out pseudo-intellectual, like lots of people here).
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Why are normies so violent?

I'll give you some background, I liked to watch wrestling (scripted, I know) and there have been moments where some crazy fans have jumped in between the ring.

While I don't appreciate acts of violence on wrestler. But sometimes wrestlers go too far, for example there was this fan who once jumped in the ring to attack a wrestler, and when that fan was fully constrained and he presented no threat and was being escorted out, another wrestler jumped in between and suckered punch him.

And for the incident number 2, this guy was trying to beat up a wrestler, but another wrestler stepped in to stop him, like he should've but the thing is he already had him in control, but was still beating him up when he presented no threat.

Like I don't understand why so many people on the internet cheered for this incident, it was clearly the use of disproportional post, and when I made posts about my views on the internet, I was viciously attacked and disliked by the majority of people for not advocating disproportionate use of violence.

I just don't understand what causes people to be like this. And honestly this sometimes worries me about the state of the society as this is a microcosm of how people react to things.
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What's the most harsh thing a succubus has said to you?
I was compared to a rat,
I was told I'm a loser not having a girlfriend,
I was told I was a victim
it hurts when it happened
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I literally can't function as a normal human

Hearing music I liked drives me insane. I am compelled to dance and start hallucinating (the same stuff, usually charging a machine gun nest or riding a tank or some other war kino bullshit). Thing is, it gives me so much dopamine high it turns into a thorough addiction. I can't even read mangas anymore since every 2 page is interrupted by me running around the floor. Let alone reading actual stuff.I'm winging it by residual intelligence and parents being rather well off. Managed to convince boss and coworkers for the last 7 months ( in my bullshit job) that I'm a competent guy, but they always notice something's off when performance review comes up. I'm fucked. Its over for me.