GETTING RID OF FANTASIES AND DAYDREAMING

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GETTING RID OF FANTASIES AND DAYDREAMING Anonymage 09/10/24 (Tue) 11:25:14 No.219187

When I was a teenager I only had few friends at school and would lose them in the summer because I'd never go out with anyone and wouldn't socialize with anyone If I didn't have to(school, classes).
I'd never get anything out of social interactions, they were fun from time to time but I'd get more fun and fulfilling time on my own and I was really happy living like that.
Then for some reason when I got extremely depressed I got this desire that I had to form a special bond and deep emotional connection with someone.
I have a weird and romanticized view of love and friendship so I began looking for people that I can form that bond with, people with traumatic childhood, outcasts, people that are odd in some way.
It's been 5 years and this shit doesn't work, even when I found someone that fits the criteria it just ends up being underwhelming or me being their emotional punching bag while they don't really take it seriously or put any effort into it at all.
I'm a NEET and money's not a problem so I can live pretty well without ever need to work.
But these thoughts and fantasies about finding someone is just torturing me because I know I can be happier without them and most importantly they're not achievable.
Can anyone help me out with this? How can I get rid of them once and for all and going back to what I was before?

Anonymage 09/11/24 (Wed) 04:17:35 No.219195

>>219187
all the same as you

Anonymage 09/11/24 (Wed) 08:41:41 No.219196

>>219193
>Check you Human Design aura
I got a 6/2 generator, the hermit part rings true but the role model part is mostly false, I don't like to be the center of attention at all and I don't see myself as a leader/mentor I just see myself as a listener.
>And spit that desire into its face.
I'm planning to delete my telegram account, that's the only place where I talk to people, hopefully that'll work.
>>219195
Ouch! I hope you can find inner peace, anon.

Anonymage 09/11/24 (Wed) 19:22:03 No.219210

>>219208
I love neeting, If I overcome this I'll dedicate my whole life to maximize my happiness as a neet, promise!

Anonymage 11/11/24 (Mon) 05:53:11 No.220171

I'm scarred for life from thinking outcast chan-types can make good friends. The deeper the bond, the harder they'll try to crush you if things go south, and a lot can go south when people have unresolved trauma. Losing the habit for self-reliance and being eaten up inside with resentment weren't worth the few months of friendship I got out of it.

Anonymage 11/22/24 (Fri) 00:18:24 No.220262

>>220171
Ive tried to make friends on sites like imageboards when im feeling lonely but no one wants to talk for more than one or two conversations, i honestly dont understand why, im interested in hearing what happened to you that you felt "went south" if you are okay with sharing it.

Anonymage 11/22/24 (Fri) 01:11:03 No.220264

>>220262
noone wants to talk to me either

Anonymage 11/22/24 (Fri) 03:06:17 No.220275

>>220262
Well, the ugly truth is a lot of chan types are malevolent sociopaths who are not smart enough to manipulate anyone or make it in the business world. So they become bitter and start spending time online finding anyone to agonize.

They can only feign friendship, but they are unable of being real friends. The moment you say or do something they don't like, they will descend unto personal ridicule, death threats and other nasty stuff.

There's a reason why they're overrepresented in all kinds of bizarre perverted crimes or shootings. They're fucked up in the head. You can't befriend people like this. Failed narcissistic normies who think the world owes them. They are the most dangerous type of person alive due to their deranged delusional nature.

Anonymage 11/22/24 (Fri) 03:24:22 No.220276

>>220275
Thanks for replying, though i dont think ive ever met that kind of person before. Where did you find them?

Anonymage 11/22/24 (Fri) 04:07:35 No.220278

>>220276
English-speaking imageboards (not wizchan).

Anonymage 11/22/24 (Fri) 13:02:15 No.220281

>>220275
>Well, the ugly truth is a lot of chan types are malevolent sociopaths who are not smart enough to manipulate anyone or make it in the business world.
there's no more truth then what you wrote. most of us, wizards, are like that. we're bitter
am I right or wrong?

Anonymage 11/23/24 (Sat) 06:06:38 No.220289

>>220275
>There's a reason why they're overrepresented in all kinds of bizarre perverted crimes or shootings. They're fucked up in the head. You can't befriend people like this. Failed narcissistic normies who think the world owes them. They are the most dangerous type of person alive due to their deranged delusional nature.
Yep, failed narcissists, mainly the covert/vulnerable type who sounds like a whiny, needy, manipulative pussy. You usually see them in dead end jobs (if they're stupid) or tech (if they're average or slightly above average). But they're always bitter and delusional about what they really deserve. I have an uncanny ability that lets me sniff them out within 5 seconds of interacting with them and I can't stand them.

Anonymage 11/23/24 (Sat) 18:08:18 No.220297

>>220275
>all kinds of bizarre perverted crimes or shootings
These are lolcows. I hope they translate their delusions into actions. My life is such a bore. I always need an escapist fantasy of joining a gang, romanticize nature or something. I don't want any friends.