Life is simple. If you are poor, work, if you are ugly, improve your hygiene and your personality, if you are fat, go on a diet, if you are sad, cry, if you are happy, laugh, if you cannot be happy, then try to be happy.
Life is simple, problems are simple, and the solutions to these problems are also simple, many times one tries to think about a problem a thousand times but the reality is that it is not as complicated as it seems.
Life is simple, problems are simple, and the solutions to these problems are also simple, many times one tries to think about a problem a thousand times but the reality is that it is not as complicated as it seems.
I'm being stared down and stalked by school bullies and racist boomers
Can you give me the tl dr simple solution pls pls 🙏😭
Can you give me the tl dr simple solution pls pls 🙏😭
>>277245
Cordiality and respect, talk to them and tell them that respect is one of the most important things a society can have, that a society without respect would lead us to live like animals, without judgment or value of any kind.
Cordiality and respect, talk to them and tell them that respect is one of the most important things a society can have, that a society without respect would lead us to live like animals, without judgment or value of any kind.
>>277247
I don't think is that easy, its more up to op not placing himself in dangerous situations or changing himself so as to not be treated bad
I don't think is that easy, its more up to op not placing himself in dangerous situations or changing himself so as to not be treated bad
OP's understanding of the human world is akin of a blind mole's understanding of colors. I wish I was so ignorant and sheltered.
>>277255
It depends on the situation, but dialogue can help. Besides, you are also indirectly telling him that he is an animal with no values. But the truth is that it's not worth getting your hands dirty.
It depends on the situation, but dialogue can help. Besides, you are also indirectly telling him that he is an animal with no values. But the truth is that it's not worth getting your hands dirty.
>>277258
You want to feel special, thinking that your problems are special, and since they are so special and complex then nothing and no one can solve them. Most of the shit that happens to you can be fixed, or you can learn to live with it.
You want to feel special, thinking that your problems are special, and since they are so special and complex then nothing and no one can solve them. Most of the shit that happens to you can be fixed, or you can learn to live with it.
hmmm
if only
there were writings about knowing what is good for one
or good in general
and being unable to do it
lamenting this
and the nature of man in his inability to do that
which is good
and good for him
if only
there were writings about knowing what is good for one
or good in general
and being unable to do it
lamenting this
and the nature of man in his inability to do that
which is good
and good for him
>>277266
Wrong again, sheltered anon, it's just your advice are that of a 6yo. If you're poor, work? lol Did you just arrive on this planet?
>you can learn to live with it.
You're such a genius. How is it you're not the keynote speaker in every gathering at the United Nations is a sin.
>>277245
Just listen to OP, just improve your personality, if you're sad, cry, if you cannot be happy, THEN TRY TO BE HAPPY. What are you, an idiot?
Wrong again, sheltered anon, it's just your advice are that of a 6yo. If you're poor, work? lol Did you just arrive on this planet?
>you can learn to live with it.
You're such a genius. How is it you're not the keynote speaker in every gathering at the United Nations is a sin.
>>277245
Just listen to OP, just improve your personality, if you're sad, cry, if you cannot be happy, THEN TRY TO BE HAPPY. What are you, an idiot?
>>277269
If you don't have enough to eat, collect cardboard, garbage, go to the bars to sell chargers, socks, or whatever. If you really want to work, you will do it, and you will not make cheap excuses.
If you don't have enough to eat, collect cardboard, garbage, go to the bars to sell chargers, socks, or whatever. If you really want to work, you will do it, and you will not make cheap excuses.
>>277269
Trying to be happy is not a 100% reliable guarantee that you will be happy and that all your problems will go away. What I am saying is that if you are in a bad situation you can do things to change it. Take a hot water bath, cry, make your bed and clean your room, take a walk, get out of your comfort zone, and little by little make a change.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ybhNZqEnkYQ
Trying to be happy is not a 100% reliable guarantee that you will be happy and that all your problems will go away. What I am saying is that if you are in a bad situation you can do things to change it. Take a hot water bath, cry, make your bed and clean your room, take a walk, get out of your comfort zone, and little by little make a change.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ybhNZqEnkYQ
>>277299
The only time height matters is when you're at school or if you are chasing skirt. If either of those things apply, you're certainly in the wrong corner of the internet.
The only time height matters is when you're at school or if you are chasing skirt. If either of those things apply, you're certainly in the wrong corner of the internet.
>>277299
Accept reality. You can never be taller, being tall doesn't affect you, and doesn't give you any real advantage in the world, unless you want to be a basketball player.
Accept reality. You can never be taller, being tall doesn't affect you, and doesn't give you any real advantage in the world, unless you want to be a basketball player.
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>>277244
okay how do i cure my chronic pain/illness and be happy huh? all my doctors and physical therapists couldn't figure it out lets hear your answer oh wise one of wizchan, oh wait you can't! because not everyone is capable of happiness no matter how much reddit bullshit you want to regurgitate
okay how do i cure my chronic pain/illness and be happy huh? all my doctors and physical therapists couldn't figure it out lets hear your answer oh wise one of wizchan, oh wait you can't! because not everyone is capable of happiness no matter how much reddit bullshit you want to regurgitate
>>277345
You can't really fix that, you can try to feel better about yourself and make physical pain not turn into psychological pain, but chronic pain is hard to fix. You can opt for alternative medicine such as natural medicine, go to an Indian shaman, pray to God every day to make you feel good, write every day how good you feel and try to let the placebo effect help you.
But the question is this, either you learn to deal with chronic pain for the rest of your life, or you torture yourself thinking about how chronic pain and your illness ruined your life.
The guy I work with has bone colitis and cancer, sold all his property, left his family for a while and went to hospital, hospital, all over Europe. What the guy did was and he studied medicine for a year and a half, he became an expert on his disease and figured out a way to take his meds more efficiently, even risking his life by taking a lethal dose. Of the 16 boys who worked with him, all died from the chemicals, only he remained. From being bedridden for 8 years, to return to his remote engineering job is quite an achievement, since the doctors and his family thought he was dead.
You can't really fix that, you can try to feel better about yourself and make physical pain not turn into psychological pain, but chronic pain is hard to fix. You can opt for alternative medicine such as natural medicine, go to an Indian shaman, pray to God every day to make you feel good, write every day how good you feel and try to let the placebo effect help you.
But the question is this, either you learn to deal with chronic pain for the rest of your life, or you torture yourself thinking about how chronic pain and your illness ruined your life.
The guy I work with has bone colitis and cancer, sold all his property, left his family for a while and went to hospital, hospital, all over Europe. What the guy did was and he studied medicine for a year and a half, he became an expert on his disease and figured out a way to take his meds more efficiently, even risking his life by taking a lethal dose. Of the 16 boys who worked with him, all died from the chemicals, only he remained. From being bedridden for 8 years, to return to his remote engineering job is quite an achievement, since the doctors and his family thought he was dead.
>>277336
If you go outside, and interact at all socially, then you'll see that tall men get a lot of passes and are treated better.
In the same vein as, you may be a wizard, but it's still to your advantage to dress somewhat reasonably when going outside.
If you go outside, and interact at all socially, then you'll see that tall men get a lot of passes and are treated better.
In the same vein as, you may be a wizard, but it's still to your advantage to dress somewhat reasonably when going outside.
>>277356
Though ofc it seems like we can't really change our height as easily as our clothes:(
Though ofc it seems like we can't really change our height as easily as our clothes:(
>>277356
You are an insecure person of yourself, nobody treats insecure people well, not even yourself.
You are an insecure person of yourself, nobody treats insecure people well, not even yourself.
>>277244
>If you are poor, work
It's hard to get a job if you're extremely ugly. You won't pass the first filter which is the HR whores.
>if you are ugly, improve your hygiene and your personality
That won't help much if you're a genetic abomination like myself.
>if you are fat, go on a diet
it's hard to go on a diet if you're poor because most diets are expensive, I do fasting from time to time, but eventually I end up gorging on empty carbs since it's always the cheapest food.
>if you are sad, cry
I lost the ability to cry a long time ago.
>if you are happy, laugh
There's nothing to be happy about this shit life.
> if you cannot be happy, then try to be happy.
it's not that simple.
>if life is simple, problems are simple
Life is never simple, there are always hardships around the corner.
>If you are poor, work
It's hard to get a job if you're extremely ugly. You won't pass the first filter which is the HR whores.
>if you are ugly, improve your hygiene and your personality
That won't help much if you're a genetic abomination like myself.
>if you are fat, go on a diet
it's hard to go on a diet if you're poor because most diets are expensive, I do fasting from time to time, but eventually I end up gorging on empty carbs since it's always the cheapest food.
>if you are sad, cry
I lost the ability to cry a long time ago.
>if you are happy, laugh
There's nothing to be happy about this shit life.
> if you cannot be happy, then try to be happy.
it's not that simple.
>if life is simple, problems are simple
Life is never simple, there are always hardships around the corner.
Life is simple, if you can't be happy, or stop the suffering just kill yourself and try in another life. Very simlpe.
>>277599
What if you get a worse life? What if you were born in an alien slave race, where most of the species is enslaved by 1% of their people? In life you aren't supposed to be happy, there's more to this than happiness.
What if you get a worse life? What if you were born in an alien slave race, where most of the species is enslaved by 1% of their people? In life you aren't supposed to be happy, there's more to this than happiness.
>>277603
>you aren't supposed to be happy
yeah. in fact, you're only supposed to 'rinse and repeat' the everlasting lifecycling routine like a robot. i'd say more — you are designed to be a mindless robot and the fact that you suffer from carrying out this role is just a design flaw. you're not supposed to think and to feel. just do your fucking job. this is the exact reason why humans are going to be replaced by robots as soon as possible.
>you aren't supposed to be happy
yeah. in fact, you're only supposed to 'rinse and repeat' the everlasting lifecycling routine like a robot. i'd say more — you are designed to be a mindless robot and the fact that you suffer from carrying out this role is just a design flaw. you're not supposed to think and to feel. just do your fucking job. this is the exact reason why humans are going to be replaced by robots as soon as possible.
>>277604
Maybe the design isn't really a flaw? I think it was put their for a reason so we can develop our society in such a fast rate with robots. It's unbearable and boring to just do your work all the time and have your kids do the same shit aswell, it just feels like a slave routine. Humans are innovative and always want more.
Maybe the design isn't really a flaw? I think it was put their for a reason so we can develop our society in such a fast rate with robots. It's unbearable and boring to just do your work all the time and have your kids do the same shit aswell, it just feels like a slave routine. Humans are innovative and always want more.
>>277596
My God, these people who look like a teenage succubus in her 13 years. If there is no work then learn a trade, and offer your services. Sell any stupidity or something you produce on facebook, ebay, or business by business.
>That won't help much if you're a genetic abomination like myself.
You can have very severe distortions, but if you are kind, attentive, empathetic, and a good person then things change. You may be ugly on the outside, but that doesn't define who you are.
>it's hard to go on a diet if you're poor because most diets are expensive
My God friend, it seems that you are trying everything not to get ahead. Literally dieting means eating less. Stop consuming oil, sugar, and processed things. Eat fruits, vegetables, dairy, and unprocessed meat, in smaller amounts than what you have been consuming
>There's nothing to be happy about this shit life.
Your problem is not that you are fat, ugly, or that you are depressed, your problem is that you are mediocre, you are in a miserable state, and you do not want to do anything to change this state, you just want to continue suffering like a worthless piece of garbage, when you give for more than that.
You can tell me that life is not simple, that your problems are complex and complicated, but reality is different, because if you really acted like a man, or like a person with a minimum of common sense, I would stop being so pessimistic, defeatist. , and pathetic. If you really want to change your life, change that destructive mentality, since apart from being an idiot, it does not even resemble reality.
My God, these people who look like a teenage succubus in her 13 years. If there is no work then learn a trade, and offer your services. Sell any stupidity or something you produce on facebook, ebay, or business by business.
>That won't help much if you're a genetic abomination like myself.
You can have very severe distortions, but if you are kind, attentive, empathetic, and a good person then things change. You may be ugly on the outside, but that doesn't define who you are.
>it's hard to go on a diet if you're poor because most diets are expensive
My God friend, it seems that you are trying everything not to get ahead. Literally dieting means eating less. Stop consuming oil, sugar, and processed things. Eat fruits, vegetables, dairy, and unprocessed meat, in smaller amounts than what you have been consuming
>There's nothing to be happy about this shit life.
Your problem is not that you are fat, ugly, or that you are depressed, your problem is that you are mediocre, you are in a miserable state, and you do not want to do anything to change this state, you just want to continue suffering like a worthless piece of garbage, when you give for more than that.
You can tell me that life is not simple, that your problems are complex and complicated, but reality is different, because if you really acted like a man, or like a person with a minimum of common sense, I would stop being so pessimistic, defeatist. , and pathetic. If you really want to change your life, change that destructive mentality, since apart from being an idiot, it does not even resemble reality.
>>277599
Read the thread, life is simple, not death. If you suffer, take a hot water bath, go for a walk, prepare a delicious meal, listen to beautiful music, drink a relaxing tea such as hypericum, and similar things.
Read the thread, life is simple, not death. If you suffer, take a hot water bath, go for a walk, prepare a delicious meal, listen to beautiful music, drink a relaxing tea such as hypericum, and similar things.
>>277646
death is simple. life is never simple.
"responsibility weighs like a mountain, but death is light like a feather"
death is simple. life is never simple.
"responsibility weighs like a mountain, but death is light like a feather"
>>277645
Not that wiz you're replying but you do seem kinda right. I have to attempt to make my life better somehow, i'm getting too old to be depressed and rotting in my room for decades.
Not that wiz you're replying but you do seem kinda right. I have to attempt to make my life better somehow, i'm getting too old to be depressed and rotting in my room for decades.
>>277649
That is typical of a comment from a failed and defeatist person. If you want to shoot yourself, do it, but at least have the decency not to contaminate this space with your own mentality of a fagot who can't face life or its problems.
That is typical of a comment from a failed and defeatist person. If you want to shoot yourself, do it, but at least have the decency not to contaminate this space with your own mentality of a fagot who can't face life or its problems.
>>277650
It is normal to think that problems that one has been dragging for years can be calmed with things as simple as a hot shower, a walk in the park, or a tea, but the truth is that it works. There are many studies that support these things, just look up "Hypero", "hot shower benefits", and "benefits of physical activity and recreation". Now the methodology of all this is the following:
You get up and take a hot shower, prepare a hypericum tea (antidepressant), and go for a walk. You can go buy bread, have a coffee, or do whatever you want, the point is to go out. Then something that can also help is cooking, you see videos on YouTube on how to do it, and you do it.
It is normal to think that problems that one has been dragging for years can be calmed with things as simple as a hot shower, a walk in the park, or a tea, but the truth is that it works. There are many studies that support these things, just look up "Hypero", "hot shower benefits", and "benefits of physical activity and recreation". Now the methodology of all this is the following:
You get up and take a hot shower, prepare a hypericum tea (antidepressant), and go for a walk. You can go buy bread, have a coffee, or do whatever you want, the point is to go out. Then something that can also help is cooking, you see videos on YouTube on how to do it, and you do it.
>>277651
fuck off with posts like this in /DEP/ of all places. go away, this is not a place for likes of you.
fuck off with posts like this in /DEP/ of all places. go away, this is not a place for likes of you.
>>277651
I do not understand
He cannot face life
Problem
So he homosexual
Fagot
Penis in bum spurting semen
Dripping down balls
How this correlate
How this relate
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I do not understand
He cannot face life
Problem
So he homosexual
Fagot
Penis in bum spurting semen
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How this correlate
How this relate
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Suffering is a valid state of being. Misery is as real and worthwhile as happiness, as happiness wouldn't be worth shit if it wasn't desired and yearned for by the millions from the trenches of dreary anguish.
All the people that will feed you bullshit about how to fix your mindset are people that don't remotely face what you face, they have the luxury to go around feeding people this kind of external perspective bullshit (like myself in this very post) and they are using your trash situation to increase the value of their own wealth. Their comfort is enjoyed through safe exposure to misery, and a very effective form of this is pretending you understand where miserable people are coming from and what obvious and simple self-affirming steps they just aren't taking to be as comfortable as yourself.
Through simple semantic deception, the spiritually rich can fool themselves into perceiving themselves mediocre and carrying great burdens to then pat themselves on the back for overcoming and still SOMEHOW being as cool and happy as they are. It's all theatrics. They would all crumble if they were in the same environment that they cannot imagine actually being in. But their fragile comforts need constant validation, so they end up behaving this way.
Every good experience is under threat of being numbed as sensitivity fades, so people engage in a dance of keeping themselves just on edge enough to remain safely stimulated.
All the people that will feed you bullshit about how to fix your mindset are people that don't remotely face what you face, they have the luxury to go around feeding people this kind of external perspective bullshit (like myself in this very post) and they are using your trash situation to increase the value of their own wealth. Their comfort is enjoyed through safe exposure to misery, and a very effective form of this is pretending you understand where miserable people are coming from and what obvious and simple self-affirming steps they just aren't taking to be as comfortable as yourself.
Through simple semantic deception, the spiritually rich can fool themselves into perceiving themselves mediocre and carrying great burdens to then pat themselves on the back for overcoming and still SOMEHOW being as cool and happy as they are. It's all theatrics. They would all crumble if they were in the same environment that they cannot imagine actually being in. But their fragile comforts need constant validation, so they end up behaving this way.
Every good experience is under threat of being numbed as sensitivity fades, so people engage in a dance of keeping themselves just on edge enough to remain safely stimulated.
If you have a problem?
Just
Just stop having the problem.
Then there is no problem to solve.
Ergo you have no problem.
I…
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… … …
… … … … …
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… am wise.
Just
Just stop having the problem.
Then there is no problem to solve.
Ergo you have no problem.
I…
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… am wise.
>>277662
Wise man once say
That which is bad
Call it good
Then everything is good
Wait what do you mean bad
Never heard of it
Good is good
👍
( in olden times they didn’t have emoji they drew a thumbs up in Chinese )
Wise man once say
That which is bad
Call it good
Then everything is good
Wait what do you mean bad
Never heard of it
Good is good
👍
( in olden times they didn’t have emoji they drew a thumbs up in Chinese )
>>277596
>it's hard to go on a diet if you're poor because most diets are expensive, I do fasting from time to time, but eventually I end up gorging on empty carbs since it's always the cheapest food.
How much do you pay per week for your food?
>it's hard to go on a diet if you're poor because most diets are expensive, I do fasting from time to time, but eventually I end up gorging on empty carbs since it's always the cheapest food.
How much do you pay per week for your food?
>>277244
>if you are ugly, improve your hygiene and your personality
This is obviously satire, but I find it funny how so many norms unironically spout this.
Like, firstly the assumption that my hygiene is poor is insulting. I cant live filthy, and I can't live in filth, it makes me feel like shit.
Just because I'm ugly and plagued by acne doesn't mean I don't wash twice a day, take care of my teeth, and groom myself regularly (which I need to do for my job anyways).
I'm just fucking ugly. There's no fixing that aside from plastic surgery, and even then, you can only put lipstick on a pig so much. Unfortunately, cosmetic surgery isn't cheap and I'm not rich.
My personality is indeed shit though, but that's more of my revolting ugliness informing who I grew to be. When in your developmental years you're told by your peers you're ugly and gross looking (I wasn't even unhygienic as a teen…) how can you be expected to be a socially well adjusted individual? I'm not a bad person, just can't look people in the eye, I'm not quick witted, I have a bad stutter, I panic in social situations – in America and probably the rest of the world, we don't have a society where people are accepting of those quirks, at least not for uggos. People are visibly annoyed when interacting with me, they're uncomfortable and want nothing to do with someone who can't be normal.
Thus, the wizardry.
>if you are ugly, improve your hygiene and your personality
This is obviously satire, but I find it funny how so many norms unironically spout this.
Like, firstly the assumption that my hygiene is poor is insulting. I cant live filthy, and I can't live in filth, it makes me feel like shit.
Just because I'm ugly and plagued by acne doesn't mean I don't wash twice a day, take care of my teeth, and groom myself regularly (which I need to do for my job anyways).
I'm just fucking ugly. There's no fixing that aside from plastic surgery, and even then, you can only put lipstick on a pig so much. Unfortunately, cosmetic surgery isn't cheap and I'm not rich.
My personality is indeed shit though, but that's more of my revolting ugliness informing who I grew to be. When in your developmental years you're told by your peers you're ugly and gross looking (I wasn't even unhygienic as a teen…) how can you be expected to be a socially well adjusted individual? I'm not a bad person, just can't look people in the eye, I'm not quick witted, I have a bad stutter, I panic in social situations – in America and probably the rest of the world, we don't have a society where people are accepting of those quirks, at least not for uggos. People are visibly annoyed when interacting with me, they're uncomfortable and want nothing to do with someone who can't be normal.
Thus, the wizardry.
>>277898
This; I never understood why normans think ugliness is somehow correlated with hygiene.
This; I never understood why normans think ugliness is somehow correlated with hygiene.
>>277908
Succubi have weird obsessions with things like how long your fingernails are and what haircut you have etc. afaik. It doesnt make any meaningful difference from someone unnattractive, but for some attractive males it will make a difference for them. They incorrectly give the same advice to ugly people
Succubi have weird obsessions with things like how long your fingernails are and what haircut you have etc. afaik. It doesnt make any meaningful difference from someone unnattractive, but for some attractive males it will make a difference for them. They incorrectly give the same advice to ugly people
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Life is all about making the best of what you have no matter how shit it is to other people.
I've come to realize this after years, that it requires a level of delusion in order to actually achieve any type of happiness that isn't overshadowed by the reality of your situation in comparison to other people.
Feel sad? Act happy, but don't just act happy, imagine in your head that you're actually better off doing what you are doing now, living the way you are living now, and try to get happiness from it. It takes mental strain and not everyone is able to do this, but if you can inject a type of childish imagination into your life then suddenly everything becomes bearable. Real life, achievements, none of that stuff matters if you're not on the right state of mind, I see and hear of people that should have been doing much better than me but they are unsatisfied and unhappy. I've not ever achieved anything, I don't own anything, every time I try to improve myself and be happy it all ends bad, I've come to realize that I need to imagine things in my head so I can go on and be happy, because if I were to actually think of life the way it really is, that I'd never in my entire life be happy. I experience things, and they don't go the way I want them to, but in my head I imagine things as if they had been perfect, and that thought to me is so appealing that I spend more time and effort thinking that these things aren't just part of my imagination, but reality. I've given up on life, I just want to be happy and it takes delusion to actually be happy, but if it's what it takes, then I'm there, bro.
I've come to realize this after years, that it requires a level of delusion in order to actually achieve any type of happiness that isn't overshadowed by the reality of your situation in comparison to other people.
Feel sad? Act happy, but don't just act happy, imagine in your head that you're actually better off doing what you are doing now, living the way you are living now, and try to get happiness from it. It takes mental strain and not everyone is able to do this, but if you can inject a type of childish imagination into your life then suddenly everything becomes bearable. Real life, achievements, none of that stuff matters if you're not on the right state of mind, I see and hear of people that should have been doing much better than me but they are unsatisfied and unhappy. I've not ever achieved anything, I don't own anything, every time I try to improve myself and be happy it all ends bad, I've come to realize that I need to imagine things in my head so I can go on and be happy, because if I were to actually think of life the way it really is, that I'd never in my entire life be happy. I experience things, and they don't go the way I want them to, but in my head I imagine things as if they had been perfect, and that thought to me is so appealing that I spend more time and effort thinking that these things aren't just part of my imagination, but reality. I've given up on life, I just want to be happy and it takes delusion to actually be happy, but if it's what it takes, then I'm there, bro.
>>277898
The theory is easy, the hard part is putting it into practice. The solution to your problem is to accept yourself, to accept that you have pimples, to accept that you don't meet beauty standards, and that if you ever disgrace wizards, then your only girlfriends will be ugly too.
Nobody wants to be with an insecure person, nobody is going to treat an insecure person well, people will always take advantage of you. Your real problem is not that you're ugly, your real problem is that you're insecure. Once you improve your self-confidence, you will be able to look people in the eye, you will be able to speak in a proper way, and you will be able to relate like a good man.
The theory is easy, the hard part is putting it into practice. The solution to your problem is to accept yourself, to accept that you have pimples, to accept that you don't meet beauty standards, and that if you ever disgrace wizards, then your only girlfriends will be ugly too.
Nobody wants to be with an insecure person, nobody is going to treat an insecure person well, people will always take advantage of you. Your real problem is not that you're ugly, your real problem is that you're insecure. Once you improve your self-confidence, you will be able to look people in the eye, you will be able to speak in a proper way, and you will be able to relate like a good man.
>>278040
You are wrong my friend. If you are sad, cry, express your feelings, write your feelings in a journal, or in an internet thread, do not repress what you feel, or deceive yourself in a cruel way. You have to accept reality, realize how bad you live, and how bad you are as a person, in order to want to change, and be the best version of yourself.
Your feelings are important, you are an important person. Even if you don't believe it, someone cares about you, you may not always get along with that person, you may sometimes hate them, or feel bad for them, but deep down, you yourself will always be there for you.
You are wrong my friend. If you are sad, cry, express your feelings, write your feelings in a journal, or in an internet thread, do not repress what you feel, or deceive yourself in a cruel way. You have to accept reality, realize how bad you live, and how bad you are as a person, in order to want to change, and be the best version of yourself.
Your feelings are important, you are an important person. Even if you don't believe it, someone cares about you, you may not always get along with that person, you may sometimes hate them, or feel bad for them, but deep down, you yourself will always be there for you.
>>277654
He's not a fag in the sense that he likes a guy sticking a piece of meat up his ass, he's a fag for not wanting to accept reality, for giving up.
He's not a fag in the sense that he likes a guy sticking a piece of meat up his ass, he's a fag for not wanting to accept reality, for giving up.
>>278045
The purpose behind doing the things you mentioned would have to have confidence in the fact that you could write things down, experience reality, try to better yourself in some shape or form, saying as if there's a possibility for happiness to actually exist if you did these things. I have no faith in this, I'd rather be a deluded person living in an imaginary fantasy world created by my own mind in which things are perfect and good until it ends up being that way. There's different ways of managing life, and I've experienced enough letdowns disappointments and just overall negative things in my own perspective to want to distance myself from how reality actually is. The only possible downside to this would be if things never managed to improve and that this fantasy world never actually came to be, in that case I'd detach myself even further from reality to a point of not living a life dignified of any regular person.
The purpose behind doing the things you mentioned would have to have confidence in the fact that you could write things down, experience reality, try to better yourself in some shape or form, saying as if there's a possibility for happiness to actually exist if you did these things. I have no faith in this, I'd rather be a deluded person living in an imaginary fantasy world created by my own mind in which things are perfect and good until it ends up being that way. There's different ways of managing life, and I've experienced enough letdowns disappointments and just overall negative things in my own perspective to want to distance myself from how reality actually is. The only possible downside to this would be if things never managed to improve and that this fantasy world never actually came to be, in that case I'd detach myself even further from reality to a point of not living a life dignified of any regular person.
>>278147
The purpose behind all this is so that you can express yourself, without repressing your thoughts. This in practical purposes will make you feel better, since you will possibly get sad, cry, and get angry.
Happiness is really not a goal to be achieved, it is not something tangible that can be achieved. The closest thing to happiness can be fixing things, and creating things. For example, if your house is ugly, paint it a color you like, if you don't have money for painting, then look for a job, get paid and buy what you need to paint your house. The job you will have is probably not the best in the world, but you do it for the greater good, which is painting your house. Painting your house is not the most beautiful job in the world either, but you do it for the greater good, which is for make your house look beautiful, and once you see your hard work on the wall, you will feel good that your work was worth it.
You need rewards, if you do something you need to see progress, you need to see that all your effort was useful for something.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=cFhBka8S0UU
The purpose behind all this is so that you can express yourself, without repressing your thoughts. This in practical purposes will make you feel better, since you will possibly get sad, cry, and get angry.
Happiness is really not a goal to be achieved, it is not something tangible that can be achieved. The closest thing to happiness can be fixing things, and creating things. For example, if your house is ugly, paint it a color you like, if you don't have money for painting, then look for a job, get paid and buy what you need to paint your house. The job you will have is probably not the best in the world, but you do it for the greater good, which is painting your house. Painting your house is not the most beautiful job in the world either, but you do it for the greater good, which is for make your house look beautiful, and once you see your hard work on the wall, you will feel good that your work was worth it.
You need rewards, if you do something you need to see progress, you need to see that all your effort was useful for something.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=cFhBka8S0UU
>>278147
You must stop concentrating on irrelevant problems and start worrying about real problems once and for all. You can't live in a dirty room, you can't live eating processed garbage, you can't live in a house with horrible paint colors, broken furniture, or a dead house without vegetation. Get off your ass for once, and get to work on your life.
You must stop concentrating on irrelevant problems and start worrying about real problems once and for all. You can't live in a dirty room, you can't live eating processed garbage, you can't live in a house with horrible paint colors, broken furniture, or a dead house without vegetation. Get off your ass for once, and get to work on your life.
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>>278162
>>278045
Thank you man, not the wiz you're responding too but I had a rough night at work tonight and I was unironically considering suicide at that point. I've never been this miserable, my head hurts like shit and my stomach churns tightly. I just have to let my shit out and stop being such a lazy slob wasting my years on the internet, I hope things go well for you in the future.
>>278045
Thank you man, not the wiz you're responding too but I had a rough night at work tonight and I was unironically considering suicide at that point. I've never been this miserable, my head hurts like shit and my stomach churns tightly. I just have to let my shit out and stop being such a lazy slob wasting my years on the internet, I hope things go well for you in the future.
>>278165
It is never too late to attend therapy, and seek help. Go and do any carpentry, painting, swimming, or whatever you like, that will help you to be a better person, and to make you feel better about yourself, and even if it doesn't happen this way in the worst case, You would have learned a good skill anyway.
The beginning is difficult, and you will want to quit soon after starting, but if you are strong and persevere, you will be able to achieve things you never imagined.
Don't think about it too much and just do it.
It is never too late to attend therapy, and seek help. Go and do any carpentry, painting, swimming, or whatever you like, that will help you to be a better person, and to make you feel better about yourself, and even if it doesn't happen this way in the worst case, You would have learned a good skill anyway.
The beginning is difficult, and you will want to quit soon after starting, but if you are strong and persevere, you will be able to achieve things you never imagined.
Don't think about it too much and just do it.
>>278149
Sometimes we give importance to things that are not important, and leave important things aside.
We cannot put our problems on the most basic thing, which is our peace.
Sometimes we give importance to things that are not important, and leave important things aside.
We cannot put our problems on the most basic thing, which is our peace.
>>278043
Thanks for all of that but I've decided I don't want to continue living as an ugly person instead.
I just realized the most obvious solution to my problems is the one I've been avoiding for so long.
Thanks for all of that but I've decided I don't want to continue living as an ugly person instead.
I just realized the most obvious solution to my problems is the one I've been avoiding for so long.
>>278473
I am going to tell you what a beautiful person is. A nice person is a nice person, empathetic, who cares about himself and others, who treats you well, who is respectful, and above all, honest.
This applies to "society" and other people, but the most useful thing about this is that you love yourself, that is the most important and fundamental thing. If you want to be pretty to attract succubi, well, I'm not judging you, but if you don't love yourself as you are, you can't expect someone else to do it for you.
But going back to the static part, improve your clothing, buy a good perfume, bathe often, and if you have hair then go to a good hairdresser.
I am going to tell you what a beautiful person is. A nice person is a nice person, empathetic, who cares about himself and others, who treats you well, who is respectful, and above all, honest.
This applies to "society" and other people, but the most useful thing about this is that you love yourself, that is the most important and fundamental thing. If you want to be pretty to attract succubi, well, I'm not judging you, but if you don't love yourself as you are, you can't expect someone else to do it for you.
But going back to the static part, improve your clothing, buy a good perfume, bathe often, and if you have hair then go to a good hairdresser.
life is not that easy when you have a low iq. Im retarded and theres no way for self improvement for myself, as its impossible to find a path for it when you have no brain