No.289573
Older wizzie here, I spend a good decade on psych meds and constantly trying to work past my autism. It doesn't work, here's some advice for you high functioning spergs that are suffering.
1. Make dealings with the fact you'll never have a wife, girlfriend and children, and psychologically accept it. The crab blackpill stuff with autism is 100% correct, it is harder for us than someone with schizophrenia. I'm someone tall and good looking enough to be asked out by succubi in the past, but it doesn't work out as they ghost you the second they work out what you are.
2. If you have to socialize, socialize with old people. They're more forgiving than younger normalfags. Retirement homes advertise chatting and talking to the elderly, if you need to get your social fix in, you could easily sate the urge with that. They won't be mean to you and they'll be desperate for your company. If you're an extroverted aspie who needs socialization, have a grandma/grandpa or two you go and see every second day. You will absolutely make their day, and you'll be able to talk to someone in a safe environment.
3. Get offline. Computer addiction destroys aspies, and we're susceptible to porn addiction and absolutely depraved coomery. If you're NEETing you can easily spend 12+ hours a day doomscrolling. We're all trannying out at rapid rates because we're susceptible to that brainrot.
4. A part time job where you work alone is preferable to NEETdom. But make sure it is alone, you must always find work where you're alone. You will be victimized because of your condition in hyper-social normie workplaces, guaranteed. Even if you weren't at school, you will be at work. Autists are typically fine at school but suffer at work to the point where 85% of us live on NEETbux.
5. Understand that there's nothing in the normalfag life that will actually make you happy. I did it all, I pushed myself to the limits trying to suppress and overcome my autism. I lived a life that for a while could be considered normie. It will not satisfy you and it won't make you happy. Find a healthy routine and stick to it.
6. Kacazynski-maxx if you can. If you can live in the countryside with a bit of land, do it. Having a small garden, going fishing, being in nature and having a dog will make you pretty happy by yourself. I was my happiest the less I used screens and the more outdoors I was.
No.289576
>get offline
Garbage advice. The Internet is the best place to be for an autistic. Porn addiction isn't a even thing, it's only bad for neurotypicals that can go outside and have sex, for the rest of it's good way to satisfy a natural urge for zero cost.
No.289578
>>289576I agree with you this is a shit thread
>>289573>Make dealings with the fact you'll never have a wife, girlfriend and children, and psychologically accept it.I never wanted a girlfriend or children, I hate the demiurge with all my heart.
>If you have to socialize, socialize with old peopleI like to socialize with my fellow wizards not with old boomers.
>Get offline.Internet satisfies my schadenfreude.
>A part time job where you work alone is preferable to NEETdom.I would rather die than have a job.
>Understand that there's nothing in the normalfag life that will actually make you happThis is true.
>If you can live in the countryside with a bit of land, do it. Having a small garden, going fishing, being in nature and having a dog will make you pretty happy by yourselfIt's a lot of work, I prefer the city at least I don't need a car to move. Owning animals is a hassle.
No.289579
Great thread, wiz bro. Ignore the coomer addicts and negative retards who are obsessed with sex and will get depressed after wasting their lives in porn and mindless consumption because they are actually too afraid of donig something with their lives, and cope with pills and drugs.
> spend a good decade on psych meds and constantly trying to work past my autism. It doesn't work
yep you can't fix autism with anything and you really shouldn't. The goal of therapy, counseling, pills, all that shit is to turn you into a slave, a functioning member of society.
>. Make dealings with the fact you'll never have a wife, girlfriend and children, and psychologically accept it.
great point. To be a wizc you need to either fully accept that this is the life you want or the only possible life for you or live a life full of delusions
> Get offline. Computer addiction destroys aspies, and we're susceptible to porn addiction and absolutely depraved coomery
I'll say reduce the time you spend online, internet is really addictive and there are people who can't live without being on their pcs or phones by now.
> A part time job where you work alone is preferable to NEETdom
this is true as well. The fact that you have some income and will be able to fend off for yourelf in the future in a comfortable enviroment is key to a happy wiz life.
> Understand that there's nothing in the normalfag life that will actually make you happy.
yes, wizards got to find their own happiness which is not always aligned with what society deems normal.
No.289580
>>289573>Make dealings with the fact you'll never have a wife, girlfriend and children, and psychologically accept it.Done, I've pretty much squandered all my chances and antinatalism/pessimism is firmly planted in my brain.
>If you have to socialize, socialize with old people. They're more forgiving than younger normalfags.Socializing feels painful and it really depends on the person. Some elderly people are more immature than people my age and younger.
> Get offline. Computer addiction destroys aspiesInternet use in itself is not a bad thing; we can socialize, share information entertain ourselves, etc. I will agree with your points about "porn addiction" and "doom-scrolling" both will tank your health while giving you nothing in return.
>A part time job where you work alone is preferable to NEETdom.I remember working near full-time/full-time hours working retail, it was pure misery. A part-time minimal interaction job would be a dream compared that. NEETbux is most likely impossible for me.
>Understand that there's nothing in the normalfag life that will actually make you happy. Agree, a lot of normies don't even seem content if not straight up miserable.
>Kacazynski-maxx if you can. If you can live in the countryside with a bit of land, do it.I love the countryside and hate densely populated areas but don't have the discipline to maintain that kind of lifestyle.
No.289582
Can confirm on 6. I finally saved up enough to buy a small trailer and drop it on my cousin's land while I save up for my own. I spend my time working a solitary job and right now I'm studying solar energy and ways to collect rainwater. I couldn't be more happy.
No.289584
>>289573This is good advise
No.289585
>>289578>I like to socialize with my fellow wizards not with old boomerswhere do you socialize with wizards, mr socializer?
No.289589
Thank you for the advice. I wish I had known this long before I made my life hell. I'm going to accept myself the way I am and just return to my home where I can live alone in peace. Right now, I've traveled to a different country (US) to my cousin, and living with him and his wife has been pretty rough on my mental health. I'm not going to bitch about it, but I think it's getting worse.
Of course, they rarely say anything directly to my face; everything is carefully planned to convey anything to me. I mean, I am very grateful for what they've done. But they're getting mad at me for not socializing, etc., which is understandable. It's just the typical response from a normal person to an autistic one.
I think I sometimes appear normal, and people have these unrealistic expectations of me, but then get upset when I don't meet them. It's the little things, social cues, body language, etc. They seem so small, yet they form the whole picture.
And it's gotten even worse when I had teeth problems with no insurance. It's already cost me like two and a half grand to fix one tooth. Looks like I'll have to work for a month or two to save up some cash for a plane ticket back home. I have an interview on Monday for a job at KFC. I have no idea what to expect, but hopefully, it'll be bearable, and I can get out of this house and get some decent minimum wage pay.
When I return back home, they'll probably conscript me into the army, but I'm kind of okay with it at this point.
No.289596
7. Don't get psyche meds to function, they shred your health apart and you'll have to climb out of that hole after you try and get off them. It's a horrific load of pain for short term relief
8. The whole mental health system is pointless unless you have other problems like schizophrenia or bi-polar. You won't get any effective treatment from it, I guess they can patch you up with anti-psychotics to calm you down short term if you're that , but outside of that don't bother.
9. Your family will resent you for being a failure to a certain degree. Resist the pressure to normalfag up, but don't fuck around doing nothing. If you're NEETing at home in your mid twenties, you will eventually start getting henpecked and picked on for being a retarded failure. Some families are understanding, other's aren't.
10. The age of 27-30 is when you experience a transition from "oh he's just trying to find himself" to "retarded chris chan failure". If you're dependent on family, expect their treatment of you to change around this time.
No.289598
>>289596>10. The age of 27-30 is when you experience a transition from "oh he's just trying to find himself" to "retarded chris chan failure". If you're dependent on family, expect their treatment of you to change around this time.I experienced this in my early 20s unfortunately, I was flip flopping between being a NEET and working dead-end jobs. Ready to end it.
No.289610
Lately I've found the "enforcement" against us is somewhat less - so long as we're marked as clear social inferiors and don't make the mistake of thinking we can have any friends, and that our activities will be constrained. That's what all of that was about when it was done in the 80s and 90s - creating a slave society and marking who the low slaves are.
The "gig economy" has been a godsend for many of us, because no one really cares about your background if you can provide some service. A lot of the big stuff is just imperial largesse, but if you find a niche, you can find something to sell, even if it's not the best life. The biggest problem is finding the true believers who make it their mission to destroy us, so they can Nazify this whole planet and make everyone as Satanic as them. I make my niche by saying what those people are and describing their MO, and this has also helped me seek out things which are truly important.
I find the best "cure", so far as there is one, is to see this beast for what it is, and stop internalizing it. If you describe it as brain inflammation and something mechanistic, that is something that can be managed and allows you agency, and the ruling ideas are that autists are definitionally devoid of agency and thought. That's the ideological though, common to liberals, Marxists, and Nazis alike - they all share the common thread of suppressing everyone who wasn't meant for the new world.
No.289612
quick post but older wizard here to and can confirm that OP is lacking in life experience as to make some of his points and advices very bad.
lots of people that been sheltered and buffered have no idea and they have lots stupid notions and no idea still.
No.289632
>>289610My country in Europe is being destroyed so hard by inflation and lack of wage increases, even local Doordashing is becoming infeasible as less and less people order food to their homes.
And it's the only gig economy/app job available. People are simply running out of money.
No.289642
>>289612Okay instead of being a faggot that just lobs criticisms, why don't you tell me exactly what I've gotten wrong and why?
That's such a normalfag thing to do. Just lie back and smugly assert "well you don't know anything". It's intolerable in real life and it's insufferable on here.
No.289644
There is a certain type of high functioning autist who is basically just a mega nerd and his autism allows him deep interest into a particular area and that unlocks high paid nerd jobs which unlocks kinda ugly nerd pussy, otherwise I don't really see much to disagree with. I don't know why they're giving you a hard time.
No.291464
>>289612You can confirm my ass. Recognized as normalfaggpot or worse and hated as filth.
Back to kiwifarms or wherever cesspool you belonged to before coming here inside.