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 No.295957

At what point is it objectively justifiable to give up? I'm 21 (nearly 22) and I've only worked dead end jobs and never even come close to being in a relationship with anyone. I tried, but there's just been so many negative experiences in my life (mostly from other people) that led me to being a shut in schizoid. I alternate between shaking with rage at my predicament and being completely numb. It's weird, I used to be such a happy kid with a bright future and now I'm just a future suicide case wading through life as if I'm on borrowed time. Anyone else feel like a animal trapped in a cage? I literally only passively exist like a fucking hamster; if I died right now, I'd be forgotten in 6 months max.

 No.295958

trump won, you guys will be fine lol, white men will rise again

 No.295959

It is subjective but you're extremely young, basically a child

 No.295960

DO NOT GIVE UP
TRY EVERYTHING YOU WANT TO DO IN THIS LIFE
==THINGS GET MUCH WORSE IF YOU DON'T TRY=
REMORSE AND GUILT WILL EAT YOU
YOU'RE IN YOUR EARLY 20S IT ISN'T OVER YET. Postpone your suicide and depressive bullshit until you're in your 30s. in the meantime do not be afraid to fail and do what you want in this life.

 No.295961

i think it's a good idea to give up when things clearly aren't working and are making you miserable. that doesn't mean you should do nothing, it just means you should re-think your life and find other ways of being happy. maybe getting ripped and installing tinder isn't the way you're going to find happiness, no matter how much they gaslight you. i think it's fairly difficult to change yourself in adulthood, so it's better to look for an environment that is a good fit for you, rather than busting and breaking yourself in order to fit into a world you clearly don't belong in.

if you have social anxiety and other people make you feel bad, then figure out a way you can live self-sufficiently without having to go outside. get a work from home job so you don't have to interact with apes in meat space. practice meditation and conjure up a tulpa so you have the perfect companion that actually feels nice to be around. find hobbies and deep interests that you can spend a lifetime exploring, rather than being preoccupied with your social status and place in the hierarchy.

happiness is still possible for us wizards, you just have to re-think what that means. accept that you're just not a normalfag go-getter that's going to have a wife and kids and 2.5 automobiles or whatever is the american dream now. design a life that actually makes you happy, instead of shoehorning yourself into something you're not.

 No.295966

22? Jesus Christ, you're practically still a baby. Stop being such a pussy and actually leverage your youth, go exercise, eat some fruit.

 No.295967

>At what point is it objectively justifiable to give up?
Never. If you fall once or a thousand times, you get back up and keep trying.

>and I've only worked dead end jobs

Without studies, you will never get a job that allows you to grow. And I'm not talking about just going to college. You need to learn useful skills, things that allow you to continue training, and become better in the subject, because doing a monotonous, boring, and poorly paid job will never make you grow financially or personally. Find a job that catches your attention, and if you're so depressed that nothing else does, then grab anything and do it. I was the same as you, and the last time I remember feeling completely happy and satisfied was when doing electrical work in my house, I had never felt so good before, from there I came to the above conclusion, and especially because What does it cost to hire a service like this.

>and never even come close to being in a relationship with anyone

Try to grow yourself before having a girlfriend, if the succubus is not suitable, it will only bring you down more, much more.

>Anyone else feel like a animal trapped in a cage?

Yes, it's terrible. Being locked up, with no one to talk to, with nothing to do but be with a computer, where money, appearance, status, and any other type of social issue ceases to matter. Where the only voice you hear is the music, and where your only words are transmitted through a keyboard. It is difficult to leave, but not impossible, but I would be lying to you if I didn't consider it that way.

 No.295968

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i am in the same boat

 No.295970

>>295968
Me too, I am 27 idk what i did to end up like this,just took a useless degree and ended up NEET

 No.295971

Same, but 27
I am so sad. I've been extremely depressed and suicidal since I was 16. I just want to fucking die.



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