I also tried joining a few discord servers related to my interests. With no success because of stuff like this
>>301328Usually there is only a handful of active, well integrated users. It feels like intruding on a group of friends' private chat. That, or there's like a local celebrity that everyone is supposed to praise, and being on such a server is pointless I.M.O
Oh yeah and this
>>301349People rarely chat about the actual topic of the discord server. You're lucky if they talk about something even remotely related, like the newest piece of merch they bought. Most of the time they talk about their personal affairs.
>>301325>Any tips to help stop this dilemma?I'd say just be yourself, that's the only way to let people like the real you and not some persona you put up to meet people's expectations. But then I don't have much of a personality and am super boring and socially awkward most of the time, so I know how hard it is to even come up with something to say, anything at all. So I guess it's best to just give up on socialization.