/wiz/ - Wizardry

>>214713
>Autism? Some form of strong shyness?
What do you want, a psychiatric diagnosis via online random image-board-surfers?

>>214715
No, just another dude that experienced that same sharing their experiencie about it and trying find the source of that.

>>214714
crab take, I don't hate female, some of them are ok and nice actually.

I don’t know if you feel quite like I do OP but I agree that I don’t know how to act around succubi. I can only really act “professionally” around them anymore, which is to say like a colleague or receptionist and not a friend and god forbid a lover.

Maybe it’s the internet’s fault or maybe it was just my upbringing but there seems like there’s no longer right way to act anymore. I always feel stiff and fake when I talk to them because I know I have to lie and put up a front for them. But then I can never have any kind of enjoyable interaction because it’s predicated on being fake. I can no longer make them laugh, or say anything honest about myself or my thoughts. It always just becomes small talk about the weather while I try and find the quickest excuse to stop talking to them.

>>214713
That you think you need to act a certain way around succubi that's different than men is why you have an issue. If you acted around them the same way you act around guys, you wouldn't have a problem. It's losers like crabs who think they're a demonic species who completely miss the point of socialization and suffer for it. Don't approach them in any special way, just be yourself and expect nothing. Don't touch their tits. It's not surgical science.

>>214728
I don't choose to act a way around them. It is a reaction I cannot control.

Shut your face stupid nigger.

>>214728
>just be yourself
Wizchan 2024, gents

>>214738
this phrase, it sounds off, but probably means that you should not try to make yourself look something that you're not.

>>214740
There's something you need to understand about this idea. Normalfags know how to be themselves, but their ego makes them act like they are someone else. They try and pretend they are more confident, more attractive, wealthier, smarter than they are because they want people to like them and think they are all those things. But wizards have a different problem. Being your wiz self is a bad thing for the wizard. We are often by nature poor talkers, strange, and offputting. Many of us have learned to be a fake version of ourselves to suit the norms around us to avoid subjecting others to our true offputting and strange selves. Asking a normalfag to be themself is asking them to be genuine and humble. Asking a wizard to be themself is asking them to commit social suicide and alienate those around them.

>>214743
well, good point, i get it. But his point also useful (if you ignore this meme phrase of being yourself)

>>214729
You are weak-willed and afraid. If you thought of succubi like anyone else, you would not have this reaction. It is a reflection of your childlike, broken mind. As with nearly everything in life, the problem is you.

>>214754
>You are weak-willed and afraid
I am bitter and apathetic.
>As with nearly everything in life, the problem is you.
No shit retard.

>>214755
The problem is you but it's not your fault wizbro.

1) you didn't choose to be born incompetent

2) it's your family fault if they didn't teach you to be competent

Anyone reading this, if you have been incompetent socially or any other kind of incompetency : it's not your fault.

Although if you wish to learn to become competent, you can if you wish, but just understand that it's not your fault you were not competent in the past.

Forgive yourself, you did your best with what you have been given at birth.

>>214756
It's not a matter of competency. At the risk of getting banned (again), I've tried. I've tried being social thinking "if i just fake it, maybe something in me will just click and I'll just become a normalfag". And it never worked. I tried and tried, and I've never been able to just let down my facade and enjoy being around other human beings. So yes, it's a me problem. And yes, it's also probably to do with whatever shitty genetics or upbringing has lead me here. But competency is not the issue. It's wanting what competency even brings in the first place. Why would someone want a big friend group and a girlfriend and a family when they cannot stand to be around people?

>>214757
I watched a lot of tv and just acted like some of the actors like joe rogan or ryan gosling from drive. makes faking it easier if ur playing a game in your head internally. if ur feeling low energy when going around other people you can just make a loud entrance and then go sit in the background or something

>>214758
You are fundamentally misunderstanding what I'm telling you.

>>214757
Everything is a performance.
Therefore your performance in life depends on how competent you are.

The question is on what does "competency" rely upon?

1) body. No matter how hard you try, if you have a body that is broken (organ damage), you will have trouble functionning.

2) soul. Outside of the body, you have the free will to try becoming more competent. This requires improving intellect (understanding of dynamics) but also improving emotional stability (not over-reacting or under-reacting to events).

You are talking about "faking". The whole point is not about fake vs real, but about genuinely improving your performance.

Keep in mind if you are not born a normie, it means something is different in your body or soul (for better or worst). You will obviously never be a normie, but the point is you can try to adjust your performance to achieve greater success in whatever you want to achieve.

Note: it's not just a "you" problem. There is a luck factor when meeting people. Maybe you have been unlucky to only meet people that are not compatible with you.

There is a quantity & quality aspect to socialisation.

If you meet 10 people, high chances none of them are compatible to you.

If you meet 1000 people, high chances at least one of them is compatible to you.

The bigger the number, the higher chance you meet someone you get along with.

Also qualitatively, you can also try to think if there are places or social events where there are higher chances of meeting people that are compatible to you.

Unironically you writing on wizchan is an example of that.

The whole point is that you must understand that there is a big room for improvement even if you have been cursed a bad hand in life.

The fact you have such sophisticated thoughts show that you have the potential to improve.

Life is a performance, if you are under performing, there is always a better strategy.

Those that are truly doomed are minds that are too stupid to self adjust.

Then there are those that could self adjust but are just too depressed to try.

>>214759
We are not on reddit, do not assume that someone replying to your message is the same person that you were replying to originally.

>>214757
You're autistic. Aktion T4 yourself.

>>214795
Nah, autistic niggahs can wiz

>>214796
Please see >>207803

>>214743
>Many of us have learned to be a fake version of ourselves to suit the norms around us to avoid subjecting others to our true offputting and strange selves
You're right, I'm under many layers of fake personalities for the purpose of navigating the normalfag world.

>>214791
This applies to me as well. I've always considered the rewards you get from socializing and interacting with succubi to be very weak. So weak that I've always had better things to do with my time. But this has unfortunately resulted in incompetence in many areas of my life.

>>214713
A combination of autism and being facially challenged.

>>215011
This but a lot of people don't want to hear it, or are so in denial they even report you for saying this aloud.

I think it's a form of desperation and anger, nothing more.
People simply can't accept being non-neurotypical and facially ugly is a direct cause of a person posting here.

The world simply isn't made for people like us. Most succubi live on instinct like animals in nature (for survival purposes), they are very conformist and status based. They despise non-NT men and can spot them a mile away.

if you are 30 and don't know the answer to why you feel uncomfortable around succubi you need to do a bit of introspection.

>>214713
Because you were giving them attention they did not deserve, and they just gloated at your cuckholdery. Listen your gut. Change your purpose.