/wiz/ - Wizardry

Congratulations. I'm about 6 months away.

i am 43 years beyond you, there is little or no female caused stress in my life…
it would never have been worth it…

>A couple days ago I became a wizard.
>I worked so hard, accomplished nothing, life a piss.
These two sentences should be unrelated in a healthy, clear mind. Simply having a partner does not mean you accomplish anything. Ask yourself: what does it even mean to accomplish and what was even meant to be accomplished?

>>219034
Propagation of genes like all the tens of thousands of ancestors before you.

And yes you can disregard the impulss, but it's always nagging there in the back of my mind. That ultimately nothing else matters in life beyond "making it" into the next generation.

I hate the idea of my bloodline going extinct but it's not like I have a say in the matter.

>>219041
>Propagation of genes like all the tens of thousands of ancestors before you.
all pieces of shit that shouldntve propagated

>>219041
>I hate the idea of my bloodline going extinct but it's not like I have a say in the matter
Good thing you live in an era where surrogacy exists so you're free to waste thousands of dollars into that if not having a child bothers you so much.
Here I'll help you with your retarded life goal:
https://fertilitycenterlv.com/trying-to-conceive/single-man/
Can't think of a more normalfag complaint about life than >hurr durr I wish I was a father

Remember when this site had proud wizards?

>>219044
All became proud wizfathers it seems like.

>>219044
That was never the case. This site has never had more than a handful of regular 30+ year old users at a time.

>>219028
Madness is trying to obtain different results through same method once and again.
>whoever told this, duh

>>219047
This. It's actually not that easy mentally to survive to 30+ as a virgin male. By 40 a large portion have gone insane or killed themselves and 50+'s are unicorns.

Most users on the site are depressed teens and 20 something aspergers who still have years to burn away before they go mad from the solitude.

>>219082

Or they stop being a wizard and leave. At any rate being a wizard is silly and most people wisen up unless they never get help for their mental issues. The.n yeah, they’ll probably kill themselves or die homeless

>>219105
You make it sound as if it's a choice for tons and tons of men who are *forces* to be wizards whether they want it or not.

>>219082
>mad from solitude
Still wondering how such madness takes place

>>219082
lmao

>>219110
It isn't a choice but the wiz situation is typically learned helplessness.

Congratulations.

Take it from an archwizard - it really does get easier. I didn't believe it when I was young, but it does, and so many - wizards, married cuckolds, succubi who had yet to go completely crazy - tried to tell me to not beat myself up over this stupid shit.

Basic "trick" is to see this society for what it is, and not lie to yourself about it. Lie to others if you must, for what good that does you, but the worst thing you can do is lie to yourself about anything. Whenever someone makes you internalize contradiction - and this is a game managers play to torture the slaves - you will always be forced to backslide on things that were once basic. This is much easier said than done, because management made a rule where they mark who is obligated to utter lies about themselves and who is free to transgress this requirement.

Even better news is, because these assholes shit up the country and the world so much, there are far fewer pretenses suggesting any of this shit works or ever could work. Right now I'm looking more at how I'm going to survive for the next decade, if that's possible. I don't like my chances. But, I'm done believing that "the system" or all of those expectations were ever worth anything. The people ruling this society only thought about how to burn it to the ground and run off with the gold.

>>219082
While it can be comforting thought that the vast majority of 30+ wizzies take their lives, hence why they don't post, I think it's simply most realize what an utter waste of time sites like this are.
Honestly, if you lurked here for no more than 2 years, you've seen everything worthwhile here.

I've encountered "forgotten" lolcows by chance that supposedly "roped" or were rumored to have found equally dismal fates and I was even pleasantly surprised to find their current states or wherabouts.

I think most people in the target age-group just don't bother with sites like wizchan. I came here as a teenager in the early 2010s and took several years hiatus where the site didn't even cross my mind. A bout of bed-ridden illness brought me back here for a period, just because I barely could do anything else.

>>219228
If you have an iota of brain capacity, it becomes very quickly clear this place is one of the few websites worth checking up on a few times a week.

I can count such resources with the fingers of a single hand.

>>219028
Many failed normies here might have projector aura without even knowing it. It means you wont achieve but bitterness when going after things you want.

Maybe if you find happiness you could damn show off once and for all and no longer shitting on our motto about disregarding females, this site is already foul enough without you all moaning like everywhere

>>219235
>If you have an iota of brain capacity, it becomes very quickly clear this place is one of the few websites worth checking up on a few times a week.
Lol.
Lmao even.
Why do you believe that is? You don't even have to experience much of the world outside the neighborhood to realize how dumb, warped, misguided, naive, humorless, or just plain useless most of the posts on this site are.

>>219272
If this site is so bad then why don't you do a favor to yourself and leave?

>>219273
Because I have nowhere else to go…

>>219274
exactly.

>>219105
>Or they stop being a wizard and leave
They just leave without telling others how to leave? That's not very thoughtful of them

>>219273
I mean yeah, that's what's going to happen. I wanted to know why you think this site is such a wellspring.
>>219274
I didn't write that. This place hasn't been the same for me in a very long time.

>>219279
Those types are likely very young and in that emotionally charged part of their life. They think the world is over and they are an eternal loser and then when they finally lose their virginity at the ripe old age of 23 they call us losers and brag that they had sex so they could get banned.

I think any elderwiz who went on the self improvement path far enough for them to attract a mate likely would've ditched this website early on in their journey so they wouldn't even think to post here. That or they know how such a post would be received so they don't bother.

>>219082
74 in a few more weeks and i've never been saner or happier…

>>219279
please stay away from here, failed normal.

>>219304
This is what a truwiz looks like.

Nice, thanks for validating my decision not to work hard. Everyone who works hard imagines their hard work will make them a winner. But that's not how life goes, many people work hard and still lose. Why go through the effort if you have traits that will make you end up a loser no matter what you do?

>>219304
I want to hear your life story and how you evolved through each decade. You come from a different world though.