What is realistic to expect?

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What is realistic to expect? Anonymage 08/31/25 (Sun) 01:59:15 No.226113

I need your wisdom. I am approaching mid 20s KHHV and have no friends. Went neet after high school for a few years because depression and loneliness broke me and maybe I had foresight that there was no point in going to college so I pretty much gave up on life because I felt like life gave up on me first. The only good things I got going for me are that I have a job now and I have good parents so there is no drama or uneasiness about being home which allows me to at least save up all the money I make while living with them. Apart from that I have no social life, no skills and I never matured because I simply did not have those experiences like my peers (going out, meeting people, making friends, socialising, romantic partners, sex etc.) This is why I was reluctant to go to college or do anything because anything that comes to mind imo requires a certain foundation of experience in order for you to be accepted and fit in and be able to progress or interact. The connections and social aspect is key to wellbeing, happiness and success. As I get older isolation, lost youth and ineptitude will hurt more and more as I see people around me progress. The thing is I don't know what to do with my life. Should I play it safe and just spend all my 20s and 30s living with my parents, working, saving money and rotting in my room? I feel like I am missing out on enjoying life but I have nobody and I am afraid that if I tried to force myself into relationships/friendships I will end up hurt, used and waste my money to participate in soceity that doesn't actually care about me. Keep in mind I am from a slavic shithole and not america. Also moving out and living on my own sounds like a bad idea because I am very inexperienced and I am not smart or skilled and it's almost impossible to even get a job if you are qualified if you don't have the connections. I don't have social media and I live in a small rural town and maybe this is an irational fear and I hope it is but I was always afraid of people bullying me or talking shit behind my back so I don't like opening up or revealing any information about myself because people talk and they can use any and all information against me in some way. Sorry if this is not directly related to crabdom but it's a more broad question on how to cope with beings a loser and how can you tell what kind of a loser you are (failed normie or truecel etc.) and what is realistic goal and expectation because expectations and goals set by media and society is that you need to be above average, social climbing psychopath with a good career and great power/status and you need to have friends and you need to have girlfriends and if you don't that's weird and sad.

Anonymage 08/31/25 (Sun) 04:10:15 No.226114

My advice would be to get off this site and never look back. You are still very young and have time to turn your life around. You are not that bad off, even if that seems like it. Don't turn it into a self fulfilling prophecy where you remain a 30 yo virgin because somebody told you to. Go out, meet new people. Your chances are slim, but you still have chances.

Anonymage 08/31/25 (Sun) 06:57:02 No.226116

>>226113
>The thing is I don't know what to do with my life
if you dont figure this out, someone else will make the decisions for you and then you are a slave.
>saving money
money is fucking worthless these days and the amount you need to be truly free is impossible for most people most likely including you too.
if you somehow luck into money you will quickly realize that spending it is not that simple and it only buys you copes which lose potency with every purchase.
so dont make your life about collecting money, money is a tool to get you things that you truly want but not always, some things money just cant buy.
>I don't like opening up or revealing any information about myself because people talk and they can use any and all information against me in some way
every relationship with a succubus requires you to open up to the roastie and tell her everything about you, all the secrets, the things you are into etc.
in a way you have to make yourself completely naked to the roastie, emotionally and physically. otherwise there is no trust and if there is no trust then whats the point?
in 99.99% of relationships the roasties will use all of this against you, its true. if you dont want this its perfectly reasonable and fine.
>what is realistic goal and expectation
for a wizard the realistic goals are surviving, thriving and cultivating an interest in something and also to achieve self sustainability (your parents wont be around forever) and filling your days with joyful things that give you peaceand happiness.
in the best case scenario you live like this until old age or illness forces you to kill yourself.

Anonymage 08/31/25 (Sun) 13:32:23 No.226121

>>226114
>Don't turn it into a self fulfilling prophecy where you remain a 30 yo virgin because somebody told you to.
Self-fulfilling prophecies are cults these days

Anonymage 08/31/25 (Sun) 17:55:04 No.226122

In your case, you still have the option to move up at work (this to this to this and in a few years you're a project lead or manager, even at lamesauce entry level jobs). Also some people find out they're good at photography, like to travel, collect things, go on fishing trips, etc… Lots of options when young, and it can all be done while keeping to yourself too if you so choose (I'm a social anxiety case and I still have hobbies!).