/wiz/ - Wizardry

Its there a good book or technique to stop crab-ing for love of succubi?
A pal told me i need love, but maybe its just less self-love so maybe i need self-love and not love.
Another one say that maybe reading stoics and buddhism and start to see succubi as harsh wicked witches can help me. Theres a quote of buddhist just ignoring succubi and seing they ugly to attach no sexual attraction, still without attachment to ugly or beatiful idea.
Sound easy, without the hate violence crabdom part added obviously bacause peace is more healthy and comfy.