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 No.291139

Now i don't know if this is madness but can a person like really just be vexxed or cursed to never have a girlfriend ? It's the fact that even when you try it always seems to not go your way, it always goes wrongly, It's fucking insane how much tries you try yet it does not work, it's almost as if there is someone stopping that shit because it's fucking insane how one can keep trying even in any way yet he cannot succeed with getting a succubus.

Do you think there is really some fucking paranormal background to males not having the chance to get a girlfriend even though they do everything that seems to be accepted by Social standards and even break social standards just to get a girlfriend yet with no avail, Even the most handsome yet cannot get it, I remember there was a thread about how people are bound to be lonely well this is a continuation, Do you think there are some who are destined to never have a girlfriend even though it seems absurd ?

Is there anyway to break from this cycle ?

 No.291141

idk, I don't like succubi anyway. I only get off to an anime lolis. Why bother?

 No.291143

"Breaking away from the cycle" is to stop caring. You have a biological urge to have sex, everyone does. That's what you're chasing. Maybe wizards are cursed, but having sex won't fix the problem. Ever notice how the normie dudes having the most sex all hate succubi and brush them off afterwards? Or how succubi sleep with dudes then hate them after? They fulfilled their desire pointlessly and are just left with disgust. You will be too if you're just chasing after succubi to fuck. The whole system of it is cursed if anything. Either a false rape accusation, or child support, or if you're one of the idiots of gets married it's like a 50% divorce rate and of the "sucsessful" marriages majoroty of them hate eachothers guts. succubi aren't worth the trouble if you can pull them and if you do they leave you for the next dick. Let the normies deal with that, its the real curse.

 No.291144

>>291143
As much as I agree, It's only sophism and words to caress your loneliness and soothe it out, But in Reality it's not Sex but to enhance your point normies don't enjoy the Bohemian romance that what us wizards chase, The kiss/ sitting on the beach/ listening to music together… The romanticized romance from novels is what drives us to follow it.
But to be honest with you bro, I really gave up that everytime i talk to a succubus i already get an idea that it's over
>>291141
I don't like cartoons ano

 No.291148

>>291144
Absolutly. Romance is a dead thing. It seems decency in general is, its a shame. Now that I've let go of that and moved on I've found happiness in my own pursuits which seems to confuse people I've encountered and family. It's no matter I suppose. No one listens when you tell them.

 No.291149

>>291148
I mean i'm already happy at my own company, but isn't it humane to desire an affectionate relationship even though it is delirious?

 No.291150

>>291149
It is, I desire them too. I just don't pursue them much anymore. Kind of like you said with having "the idea is already over" when interacting with a succubus. I just follow my passions now and go where it takes me and that usually makes me meet interesting strangers along the way. Perhaps I take the whole "wizard" thing far too serious and end up as a Gandalf larp. I'll admit I have some unhealthy coping mechanism for being alone though. The things I collect I give names and they develop little personalities of their own.

 No.291151

Please, i advise you to read the rules before posting. (⁠^⁠^⁠)

 No.291157

I can relate to this a lot wizard. I was in the past trying to be kind to them and befriend them, only to realize they don't care at all if I even exist and only talk to me to kill their time. Until after a while of lurking a lot and realized the truth, which is that succubi truly desire protective men who stand up for themselves and aren't needy or careless about themselves like almost all of us guys. As explained here:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=VYUy-HPzAL8

We really should be patient and stop thinking about succubi for a while, I guess… which is not going to be easy, but there's still some hope.

 No.291162

> It's fucking insane how much tries you try yet it does not work, it's almost as if there is someone stopping that shit because it's fucking insane how one can keep trying even in any way yet he cannot succeed with getting a succubus.

>Do you think there is really some fucking paranormal background to males not having the chance to get a girlfriend even though they do everything that seems to be accepted by Social standards


It's nothing paranormal, it's just another wiz failing to admit that he is extremely likely to be neurodivergent.

succubi can pick that shit up from a mile away. While the normie neorytypical football or hockey player chats up succubi in his spare time at age 14 and gets 20 girlfriends before he hits age 20.

succubi can sense you sperging out or trying to "act socially acceptably". There is no way around it - they have a bullshit and aspie detector. It's not possible to fool it; They loathe neurodivergent men.
The best solution is to accept reality and focus on hobbies.

 No.291164

>>291162
I've said that for ages. People just don't understand autism is a spectrum, having it doesn't mean you rock back and forth like a retard and require personal assistants for tying your shoelaces.

You can't end up as a wizard if you're neurotypical, period.
Wizards are by definition at least 50-80% aspies (with the scale going from 0 to 100, not being a binary yes or no value).

The less severe cases just haven't been diagnosed and wonder why everyone shuns them, succubi avoid them and it's so hard to do anything in life except play video games and read fantasy (as a caricature).

It took me until 33 to get my diagnosis, but the doctor gave it to me instantly.
Actually, I was one of those people who refused to believe it, after all I had gotten good grades in school, was able to work etc.

Turns out I'm a high functioning autist, but an autist nonetheless.

 No.291167

>>291162
This is very true

 No.291169

>>291164
how did you get the diagnosis? i should go it but im afraid of the interrogation.
I cant talk to people but i have to do it to get the diagnosis, its a fucking paradox

 No.291170

>>291164
Nah, I am a neurotypical 37 year old wizard. I know why I am a wizard but it definitely isn't because I am autistic. I've been in therapy for years and if I exhibited any autistic characteristics it would've come up.

My non-existent self esteem is pretty much why I remained a virgin. You have to put yourself out there to some extent to attract a mate and I hid away in a shell for decades. It was pretty easy, I went to school online and I ended up with a job where there were no succubi so I never had the chance to interact with them naturally.

 No.291174

>>291170
Highly functioning autists don't get diagnosed unless they ask for it. They are normal passing to a large degree (though not enough to fool succubi).

NT's don't end up as virgins at 37, they live on instincts and 95% of them have had their first sexual experiences with the opposing sex at around age 16-18, some even earlier.

 No.291177

>>291174
Wouldn't asking for a diagnosis on it just seem like you're trying to get one? I don't know. I've never been diagnosed or anything. I'm more worried ill not be diagnosed as autistic which would just mean I've got no excuse.

 No.291179

>>291177
Even if you ask for a diagnosis, 98-99% of the gen population isn't autistic so there is a high selection bias.

People who ask for the diagnosis are already the kind of people who would post on wizchan and have done nothing in the last 10 years except browse the internet at home and simply think they are 'introverted'.
(Humans are animals, and neurotypicals just see non-NT's as a different species and do not want to associate with them -hence the isolation).

But there are some outliers, such as HFA's who can somewhat function in life and society but can't fake normalcy enough to have social relationships.

Almost every wizard has thought at some point that they feel like they are an observer or anonymous ghost in life. That is a key trait in aspergers and autism.
Not only being unable to relate to anyone else (except close family), but other people also shunning that person.

 No.291184

I believe crabs exist if that's what you're asking. Most of them just don't understand what succubi are attracted to or are ugly, retarded or some combination of the two. The good looking ones are typically deeply mentally ill and repulse succubi because they are loners. Being a loner is basically the most repulsive thing to a succubus. It makes sense from an evolutionary perspective. The loners and outcasts are the ones who suffer the most and have the worst material outcomes in society. Think about it, what is the one thing that made a guy attractive to succubi in school? The answer is: popularity. The exact same dynamic exists after school ends. The most social outgoing and gregarious normies with the biggest amounts of friends and personal contacts with the greatest ability to make people like them is always the most attractive to succubi and has the most sex. This can be true in spite of other factors that are traditionally considered unattractive. I'm sure you all knew one popular kid who was fat, short, or ugly and still got laid a lot. These types are the ones who fall upwards. They can be lazy or stupid and still end up ridiculously successful. (not to make this politics related but you can probably imagine a prime example). It's because they can always leverage people to their advantage and in a society run by people, that is the single most useful skill and therefore the ones that succubi have evolved an instinct to be attracted to the most.

Your typical crab will do something like focus on building muscles and getting a haircut or lip fillers or buying a car or whatever other retard bullshit he thinks succubi want but he remains a clearly mentally ill weirdo whose basic personality repels everyone he comes into contact with, then he wonders why succubi don't like him and devolves into some sort of MRA extremist bullshit as a coping mechanism. Thing is, even they can succeed as long as they actually try, but most don't even try just awkwardly stammering out a request for a phone number in some completely inappropriate context to some complete stranger, getting one rejection, not being able to handle it and going on forums to rant about how succubi are all sluts who only want chad for the rest of his days.

 No.291188

>>291174
I think I asked about autism about a decade ago but the thought was instantly dismissed because my experiences show that I am able to easily make connections with people, but I just am so avoidant that I don't. People would be like hey you are cool we should be friends. We'd exchange numbers and I would just ghost them. I remember the first time a succubus asked me out to the dance I made up some bullshit saying I was going on a family vacation. It was a lie and I had no idea why I did it, but that is pretty much how my brain operated for decades. The only way for me to lose my virginity in that mental state was for a succubus to be extremely agressive and basically rape me. Of course that never happened.

But yeah I definitely did have a mental illness. No way would the wizard life choose any NT with a perfectly healthy brain. My illness could've easily been cured if an adult took notice of me but my caretakers were completely neglectful of anything beyond my physical needs.

 No.291195

In todays times its getting more obvious that a succubus's love is not worth much and that its just a fading impulse. Not even chads are truly "loved" as succubi just get attracted to men based on the selfish impulses they can satisfy through him. succubi are never truly interested in the man as a human being, only in the traits that serve them. They just stick around until they get bored or get the ick and then they swing on to the next guy. If you're a loner with no friends or ambitions or you're spergy then theres no reason for a succubus to put up with you in the first place because that makes you completely uninteresting and unattractive. The only time autists get a girlfriend is when the succubus is too unbearable for other guys to be around so she chooses weirdos until she can get a more interesting guy, these relationships always suck as well.

Guys who crave love usually had a weird upbringing, clueless fathers or got neglected, either way its a childish and feminine impulse and it's not realistic. Wanting anything non-superficial in todays times is hardly possible if it ever was.

 No.291198

>>291184
The bigger picture is that sex and relationships are all just meaningless noise and there is no reason to pursue it if you don't want to have a family because otherwise its just a "grass is greener" type illusion. There shouldn't even be any focus on it if you're a man and you should instead focus on finding a purpose.

The real misery of crabs comes from a lack of purpose, any man who finds meaning in something will automatically see less relevance in sex stuff. crabs tend to always just look at impulsive sexhavers and disregard the majority of guys who don't even have lots of sex and the latter are not doing worse at all.

 No.291200

I know two spergs who managed to get girlfriends and they were both cringe assholes but also assertive and their girlfriends both had BPD and no fathers. They were unbearable assholes and everyone thought they were cringe except their girlfriends and they were both abusive towards them too. One of them always manipulated his girlfriend in the most non self aware cringe ways because she was stupid and he also physically abused her sometimes, the other guy was also manipulating his girlfriend all the time so she wouldn't leave lol.

Just become a cringe sperg with no self awarness and delude yourself into thinking your a chad and you will be able pull succubi.

 No.291202

>>291200
I knew a guy like this. Morbidly obese, autistic, amazing atheist tier fedora with a cute but very damaged cosplayer girlfriend he would manipulate. Weird dynamic.

 No.291204

>>291200
>They were unbearable assholes
what did they do? (beside what you already said about them)

 No.291205

>>291204
They always belittled and bullied others in a weird way and they knew how to pick friends they can abuse. They kept losing friends and messed it up with people but im not even sure if they are aware of it. I also noticed that they were both pesky as fuck and they pretty much blew up my phone daily and wanted to know what I was doing 24/7 in an obssesive way as if they were gay because at some point I was the only retard who gave them attention.

The way they treated their girlfriends was also kinda messed up but I don't wanna white knight. Its just always the same dynamic like >>291202 also mentioned.

 No.291208

When I was a kid/teenager I wanted to have a gf, I thought it would be cool and fun and we would do all kinds of amazing things like in anime (for normals retarded movies and Disney influence their expectatives, for most of us is anime or visual novels) I really wanted to have one but I never did, I guess I was too plain and boring to attract people.

The when I grew up I stopped caring, once you see how fucking awful the vast majority of females are you just stop caring, it’s really not worth it, having that kind of relation won’t make you any good, I guess even normies realized it considering that most people just want to fuck now and avoid real relationships.

If real females were as amazing as they are in most anime you would be crazy not to want a gf, they would help you make a massive change for the better and every effort you make towards getting a gf would be so much worth it.

In real life? Nah it’s just not worth it in fact I would say that if you developed complete disregard and apathy for females most normies would probably envy you, they don’t do the same because they’re slaves of their biological impulses, not because they really think that females are worth it.

 No.291209

I think you're right indeed, There are some interventions even if they don't seem to be logical, I believe the universe is purely abstract to even be normal like what we call it, There is more to than the normal lifes we lead, as much as anons try to take it down and cope with sarcasm deep down they know it. Even the Bots who try to intervene they know it.

I knew a friend who was handsome and literally plays guitar and tried to socialize yet was always unfortunate with not having friends or a girlfriend, he always tried to stick to the social circle yet always with the same result. It's the self awareness i believe, he also browses this shithole probably he'lls see this

but still i believe it's the cost of the knowledge we know that separate us from the norm, The more you learn the more the boulder grows and the more it becomes hard to adapt to society. We're cursed anon, they have the gift of being blissfuly ignorant while we cannot merge because we're fucking aware of ourselves and aware of them thus our Ego refuses to merge because he sees them as being low, any anon could easily pull off a 2/10 succubus but even that he won't be lucky in if i believe your thesis right? Well you're fucking right, nay, even absolutely right. We're destined to be always alone even from the beginning. cope in that i know you do but keep giving up and try to merge as an individual, Love is not made for us

 No.291210

>>291208
I've been in that state where i desired 2d succubi, but it was insanely delirious it's very bad for health, i would better just give up on love in general even if it meant secluding myself from all forms of love.

Humans desire affection anon, we cannot escape from this anon. I want to also do things in anime it's prescribed in my mind to do it unconsciously but i'm too unlucky.

Guess what i don't give a fuck anymore

 No.291211

>>291195
True love is really just a Shakespeare type dramatization. If actual love existed then everyone would find someone who actually cares about them and help each other grow but in reality it's all about power and attraction dynamics in which you already have to bring a lot to the table or you're not even worthy of any affection at all.

If you lack certain personality traits you will always just be a shadow and people won't notice you at all or they will use you as idiot for their own gain. It's funny how even some feminists try to dupe autists into toxic relationships by writing articles about how its ok to get in a relationship with a ran through cyincal succubus who doesn't find you attractive and hardly wants to sleep with you because sex doesn't matter and its all about what you can do for her while she flirts with guys shes attracted to. We might see an increase in virgin men who submit to the lowest tier succubi who everyone fucked but no one wanted to keep and they will be in a miserable relationship with them with no love or dignity.

 No.291212

>>291211
Most of us are in the Goldilocks zone of autism.
There are autists who are so extreme that everyone pities and wants to help them. Then there are autists whose autism is so mild that people don't even notice and they live normal lives being a bit funny and essentric. Then there are us in the middle, the goldilocks zone, who are just weird and disturbing enough to put people off but not so obviously broken that people are sympathetic.

 No.291213

>>291212
True. Functioning enough to be undiagnosed while still doomed to a life of horror and struggle

 No.291214

>>291212
This. If I had to bet money on it, I'd say almost every wizard is neurodivergent but in the middle of the scale at most.

That means they will creep out most people (and especially succubi) but will be completely able to write normal text, possibly work normal jobs and even have some normal hobbies like running or jogging.

 No.291215

>>291214
I kinda think this phenomenon will decrease drastically with generations. Millenials seem to be more lost in their autism than zoomers in a way. It seems like many Gen X and Boomer parents were kinda autistic themselves but nowadays these family dynamics are less likely to exist, especially since the whole dating dynamics have changed as well and very autistic guys are less likely to have children anyway so the cycle of clueless parenting stops in this regard, the weirdos generally get sorted out and forgotten about.

Growing up sheltered with autistic or antisocial parents is the worst condition if you want to grow up to be a socially normal functioning being because your most important figures are not properly guiding you and your social development will always be stunted by their retarded ways.

 No.291217

>>291184
>going on forums to rant about how succubi are all sluts who only want chad for the rest of his days.
They're not wrong. Crabs want relationships while succubi only want sex. They want to build some love but since all succubi are whores they can't experience romance or love after having multiple sexual partners. Succubi psyche is forever torn up by the big cock's of chads she's taken.

 No.291218

>>291217
>They're not wrong. Crabs want relationships while succubi only want sex. They want to build some love but since all succubi are whores they can't experience romance or love after having multiple sexual partners. Succubi psyche is forever torn up by the big cock's of chads she's taken

And that's why its silly to want love, its not real. Guys who want love might just be possesive or they didn't get enough affection from their parents.

 No.291219

>>291205
>>291200
It's really common. You can be mentally insane, unstable and lack all social sense, but if you have a sadistic, domineering personality, there are succubi that love that shit. I was resentful about it when I was younger, but it just makes me see succubi as lesser moral beings now. You can't tell me the gender that prides itself on their empathy and ability to understand people is oblivious to the shitty nature of the partners they select. It does seem to be a social class thing though? Intuitively I think it's the same sort of dysgenic shitty succubi selecting shitty partners. The white nerds that work tech jobs with their asian wives might be gay and soy, but at least they're highly intelligent people and seem to rear successful families, and their wives appreciate them for what they are. I feel like crabs focus too much on the bottom of the barrel in the lower class when it comes to analyzing the dating market.

Those types always ends up divorced and alone in the long run. They seem to do well with succubi in their 20s and early 30s, maybe impregnate one, but inevitably they end up well, pretty much on the level of people posting on here. Being obese, health problems catch up to them, being low status, they're stuck doing the worst wagie jobs in their 40s and their ego can't handle being bossed around by someone 20 years their junior. I worked with one who had a tantrum in a supermarket when it was a teenager telling him how to stack shelves. A lot of the middle aged suicide stats actually come from that type. I knew another one who had kids, was divorced and was an overall shitty person, he was permanently barred from a license and stuck living with his dad after a life of mischief, and he just roped himself in the forest one day.

 No.291220

>>291219
>It's really common. You can be mentally insane, unstable and lack all social sense, but if you have a sadistic, domineering personality, there are succubi that love that shit. I was resentful about it when I was younger, but it just makes me see succubi as lesser moral beings now. You can't tell me the gender that prides itself on their empathy and ability to understand people is oblivious to the shitty nature of the partners they select.
I used to be the type of naive sheltered kid who thought that succubi are just the victims of men who manipulate them but it's really just that succubi go with what they are attracted to and they have no moral or ethic approach to it.

 No.291222

>>291208
Their addiction and inability to control their urges freaks me out honestly. All the people I know who have had sex are all obsessed with it in some way. Like in all the normie dramas involving cheating where a "man's needs" or whatever causes them to cheat. I love my parents but they aren't good people, for instance. My mother at some point because just a frigid bitch to my father to the point of them sleeping in sepperate rooms, she took the main one of course, and I found out later on he ended up cheating on her. Well after her being a bitch to him, mind you, and ended up getting whatever whore it was with pregnant leading to an abortion. Had social groups I was a part of when I was in the vicinity of due to grade school or if I had a job get torn up by cheating too. Watched whay I thought were rational people devolve because of their "need" to have sex. Freaked me out to the point that I never wanted to have sex because I didn't want to become like them. I think it breaks soemthing in your brain.

 No.291223

>>291222
In relationships the problem is usually not about the physical act of sex but everything else about it that matters which goes missing when there is hardly any sexual contact in a relationship. If a man has a female partner and she hardly ever feels like having sex or refuses to then at some point he will logically come to the conclusion that she doesn't find him attractive anymore and at some point over time any succubus making him feel desired is appreciated. succubi do the same thing but they are way quicker to backstab at any inconvenience and more vicious about it as well.

 No.291224

>>291223
Yea but it's more on top of that as well. I dont know what it is but it seems the more they have sex the more off people become. Worse than junkies, and with some sort of spiritual aspect of them degrading. I dont know how to explain it

 No.291225

>>291224
>I dont know what it is but it seems the more they have sex the more off people become.
It could also be that people who impulsively have sex are already mentally unwell. Theres a lot of correlations with mental issues and pursuing sexual habits. I just think the people who have a lot of sex always tend to be mentally fucked in some way. Theres also a lot of findings that having many different sexual partners decreases any bonding ability even further.

 No.291228

>>291220
This. There is no "chivalry" nor chaste pure princesses. Trying to force these dumb tropes on violent status driven sapient apes is about as useful as trying to humanize a tiger or jaguar.

People do what they do mostly out of primitive instincts like horniness, greed, hunger or anger. Just like any other animal alive.
The world isn't a "horrible place", it's exactly what a world run by violent apes who can talk and use tools should look like.

And as you said, succubi aren't victims. They pick badly behaving good looking sociopaths over and over, then cry when they get a black eye, and they still return to the same man over and over while shaming and making fun of docile and peaceful men.
When you realize how primitive and animalistic humans are, you can let go of regret, spite and frustration stemming from others actions.

 No.291235

>>291228
Sometimes it seems like succubi are the biggest enablers of this animal world. succubi just feel drawn to dark stuff, it might be a psychopath, it might be a thug, it might as well be a talking serpent, if it makes them feel special they don't care.

 No.291242

>>291219
>if you have a sadistic, domineering personality, there are succubi that love that shit.
I think this is mainly why I hate all succubi. Being sexually incompatible with 99% of the gender is good enough reason for it I guess. It's like they all have the same fetish of these men you mention in the same way men would like big boobies blonde bimbos. The fact that even 4/10-6/10's won't settle for their looksmatch average guy who's not ugly also is the problem why most of us end up as virgin bros. I feel the same pain as my virgin bros about it knowing that, realistically we have to settle for 3/10s, fat succubi, ugly succubi, older succubi…which is spiritually demeaning. I think all virgin males coming to this conclusion on their own and choosing to stay celibate is the real magic of it's own.

 No.291243

>>291242
>knowing that, realistically we have to settle for 3/10s, fat succubi, ugly succubi, older succubi…which is spiritually demeaning. I think all virgin males coming to this conclusion on their own and choosing to stay celibate is the real magic of it's own.
Yeah pretty much. If you are unable to organically get a girlfriend then the only type of relationship that you might be able to get is one with major downsides and compromises that will just make the bad cycle continue for you. Many succubi just choose the losers at some point because they want to leech off their naivity and gullibility. Imagine being in a relationship with a succubus who experienced 100x times more things than you and had several dicks in her, she won't even think anything is special and not find you attractive, its humiliating and just a continuation of your misery.

 No.291256

>>291169
why do you even want a diagnosis? what's it going to change? it's only some random doctor applying a label to you.

 No.291260

>>291242
>>291243
Don't forget the single mothers! Even the ones who's kids are old enough that you won't be on the hook for them, just as bad as ones needing a step father to be "the father that stepped up"

 No.291264

>Do you think there is really some fucking paranormal background to males not having the chance to get a girlfriend even though they do everything that seems to be accepted by Social standards and even break social standards just to get a girlfriend yet with no avail,
Yes. The fall of every society in history comes when you give succubi a voice in politics or financial independence. without fail, what comes is a laxity in morals, a destruction of the very family values that have allowed humankind to function in the past. birth rates plummet as the very nature of succubi declines in every generation. It was once normal for two couples to form a life-long pact from a young age, allowing themselves to form bonds during formative years. as soon as you gave them suffrage, they vote to ban any relationships from forming until the succubus has blown herself out with at least 10 guys, destroying her subconscious pair-bonding mechanism, and turning her into a man-hating bitch since of course with her freedom, and since her father no longer has a say with who she chooses, she chose to throw herself to the guys who will give her a temporary high, who are the same guys all the other succubi choose, so of course she will get pumped and dumped over and over and over again.

 No.291265

Years of isolation and bullying prior to my isolation have destroyed my social skills. I can't even get a friend let alone a girlfriend.

 No.291266

>>291264
Quality post

 No.291268

>talking about succubus in wizchan
Brother, I can't even make a friend.

 No.291277

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>>291139
>or cursed
I do wonder about this because looking back at my life I never got into any situation with any succubi ever.
went to a Kindergarten but none of the other Kids were interested in having me as a friend because I was a (white) foreigner who could barely speak their language and as far as I remember there werent even any female children there at all.
So later I get into elementary school, my class was 95% male but other classes werent. funny enough I was sitting next to a succubus but in all those years we never interacted with each other. Then I moved on to the next school. The class had more succubi but socially I was at the bottom so none of these roasties had any interest, my family is also poor and I was dressed like shit, my grades were shit and the only time they noticed me was to mock and bully me verbally.
So eventually school ends and I'm finished with it, cant get an apprenticeship, cant get into any higher education or any job at all and just end up as a NEET at 17 years old.
Got no friends and still nothing going for me.
So I spend another 17 years as a poor NEET and now I'm 34, still on gibs, still living with parents and still the same as the day I left highschool.
Where was I supposed to ever meet any succubi? like wtf was I supposed to do?

 No.291293

>>291264
>with at least 10 guys
more like 100

 No.291295

>>291277
How come you haven't tried getting a job? Even without higher education you could still try. Having no income at all sucks and it wasn't sustainable for me to be a NEET in the long run.

 No.291296

succubi like guys with good self-esteem, and who know how to listen to the shit they have to say, since human beings are selfish by nature, and the more you listen, even if you don't say a single word, the more she will like you. person.
Improve your quality of listening, ask the other person how they are, and about small things in their life, too, and always greet them cordially with a smile. So possibly someone will like you. Although well, this is easier when you are in places full of succubi, like a place where you learn sewing, a place where you learn to dance, or some shit like that.

>>291162
>succubi can sense you sperging out or trying to "act socially acceptably". There is no way around it - they have a bullshit and aspie detector. It's not possible to fool it; They loathe neurodivergent men.
This is true, succubi have a greater ability to pick up strange or strange behaviors. But this is something that can be practiced. The question is whether you think it's worth putting in the effort to be with a succubus.

 No.291297

>>291277

>Where was I supposed to ever meet any succubi? like wtf was I supposed to do?

Between mid-January and the end of March, I cut the internet at my house, and out of boredom I went to play soccer in front of my house, and there was a neighbor my age. I guess it's a matter of going out and doing some activity.

 No.291306

>>291296
>succubi like guys with good self-esteem, and who know how to listen to the shit they have to say, since human beings are selfish by nature, and the more you listen, even if you don't say a single word, the more she will like you.
succubi like men who show interest in them and make them feel validated with their presence but can also assert themselves and disagree with things but they don't give a shit about a silent listener and they definitely won't like you for just listening and giving basic bitch autistic feedback. They also don't give a shit about the attention from guys who got nothing going on fpr themselves because it doesn't mean much.

>This is true, succubi have a greater ability to pick up strange or strange behaviors. But this is something that can be practiced. The question is whether you think it's worth putting in the effort to be with a succubus.

Neurodivergence can't be fixed and there is absolutely no way to fool succubi for longer than a short first impression. You can't train to act normal, only in situations where people don't talk with you.

 No.291307

>>291306
>but they don't give a shit about a silent listener and they definitely won't like you for just listening and giving basic bitch autistic feedback. They also don't give a shit about the attention from guys who got nothing going on fpr themselves because it doesn't mean much.

succubi crave nothing more than talking to a wall of autism. I heard that if you're predictable and agree with everything they say and ask them stuff like an interviewer they will instantly suck your dick at the end of the conversation.

 No.291311

>>291306
It's all too much work, if you want to conquer someone there are surely many efficient ways to do it, but if you want to go the easy way, the best way is to be in places surrounded by succubi, smile, ask them how they are, and possibly you end up making yourself friend of one of her, and as time goes by, maybe you date one, or you have enough practice to be able to talk to other succubi in other areas.

It's really not worth it, and it's a pain in the ass, but hey, it's what you have if you want to leave offspring.

>>291307
If you listen enough, smile, and be kind in a sincere and selfless way, possibly anyone will like you regardless of their gender, or more or less, but it helps a lot. The thing is that this will possibly lead to a succubus not being your girlfriend, or some shit like that, being the dumb dumb friend who listens to their problems, or maybe sucking your dick since they need affection and someone they trust, but this requires extra steps, but hey, I am more virgin than olive oil, and I leave the house every bishop's death, so what I say is not necessarily law.

 No.291313

>>291311
>>291311
If you're really neurodivergent you're usually only able to get succubi with a lot of huge downsides attached to them, it's just what it is. Most relationships are very superficial anyway and often they end with a lot of additional trouble for you. A lot of guys have a rather naive understanding of succubi and relationships as well and they are looking for a deep connection or some type of friendship with a succubus that is closer to anime than real life. Especially when you're autistic succubi hardly find you interesting for long and if they put up with you they usually have some kind of issue or motive.

It's weird how relationships and sex are really nothing special anymore and easy digestible slop for people while others only think its special because they can't have it. Especially when I look at certain promiscous types and how they treat these things so easy it just seems weird to me as if its all just pure ego driven. When you listen to these normie sexhavers its linked to sadism, gossip and other negative things as well and they often have drama and issues over sex. crab types also don't understand that real sex is not as spectacular as in porn and I read many posts of late bloomers who were disappointed in how sex is hardly like porn because people are not actors and performers. Theres even guys who straight up lose their partners over prefering porn.

Its the type of things you can hardly understand in your 20s and even when theres different viewpoints on this the conclusion always seems to be that its not worth it.

 No.291319

Even if you wanted a gf as a neurodivergent, autist etc. how would this even realistically work out? You'd have to figure out the social shit which seems hard enough if even possible and then you'd still be rather uninteresting in your personality but also lifestyle wise. On top of that you lack any romantic/sexual experience, you don't know how to insert your dick into a succubus properly and you also don't know anything else about being with a succubus while she knows everything about being with guys who are not as retarded as you.

If you're in your mid 20s you're running out of time to make experiences and if you don't have options you'd have to clinge to whatever succubus gives you the time of the day which is a bad idea.

 No.291324

>>291295
I tried but none of these shitjobs want to hire me and none of them pay good anyway, I did the math and it turned out literally sitting around doing nothing and collecting the minimum amount of gibs is still more than going out there and wagecucking. I would spend more money on commuting and would essentially save nothing.
like if you work 40 hour weeks and still cant afford your own place or consumer stuff then what the fuck is the point?
the last thing even remotely being a job to me was hunting for crypto airdrops and making a couple thousand bucks off it but I havent been lucky in the last couple years.
>>291297
I stopped going outside because people out there harrass me for no reason, like I walk down the street (couple years ago) and suddenly a police van pulls over and 5 normalfag police zogbots jump out and hold me literally at gunpoint.
apparently someone called them and said there is a guy fitting my description scooping out houses or some shit.
ended up getting a fine for my expired ID and getting a trip to the police station.
or I somehow end up running into people who are up to no good, got mugged twice but I only had like 5 bucks every time.
one time some guy threw a bottle at me from a driving car.

 No.291325

>>291324
Sometimes I was a little embarrassed to go out to my neighborhood because of the screams from my house, but once the internet was cut off I went out to walk, play soccer, and do new things in general. Two weeks ago I put it back on because I got sick with pneumonia, but it was actually a very good thing. You should try it anon.

 No.291326

>>291313
If a person is autistic he can get a normal succubus, the problem is that he learns to control himself and hide his autism, it is complicated, but not impossible, although of course it depends on the degree of autism as well. Besides, succubi are not the most rational beings, if you don't look at how they date drug addicts, criminals, or guys who beat them.

>It's weird how relationships and sex are really nothing special anymore and easy digestible slop for people while others only think its special because they can't have it

This is extremely destructive for people, especially for succubi, since if they feel lonely they grab their phone and will fuck the first person who wants to have sex with them, being treated like little more than a piece of meat that stops them. The only thing that works is to have sex. Which is actually quite sad, since succubi who possibly in another context would be good people, are now little more than whores.

 No.291328

>>291326
>This is extremely destructive for people, especially for succubi, since if they feel lonely they grab their phone and will fuck the first person who wants to have sex with them, being treated like little more than a piece of meat that stops them. The only thing that works is to have sex. Which is actually quite sad, since succubi who possibly in another context would be good people, are now little more than whores.

A lot of succubi are impulsively enabling this, they use sex for quick short term attention and sabotage themselves. They never take responsibility and if they end up miserable they lash out on the type of men who never even fucked them such as crabs. Men are horny 'looking for pussy' and succubi try to use that to get a guy to pay attention to them and in the process they get fucked. The lowest self-esteem succubi always have the highest partner counts because they choose being turned into cumdumpsters over being alone and they have a hard time turning down advances.

I agree that it is destructive, the way we view sex has changed but succubi are still the same so their feminine impulses lead them into this degradation. Theres a general increasing selfishness among people and the way they treat sex plays into that as well because it turns into something dark when its handled so casually and it is not consequence free.

 No.291330

>>291326
An autist can't get a normal succubus or relationship and you can't train to 'hide' your autism. Looks like a very specific scenario youre referring that rarely ever happens and if it ever does it's linked to a lot of issues because of the things described in this post >>291319

Hiding your autism doesn't work, you would still need to merge with the social dynamics that you have a hard time with and you can't hide your lifestyle, especially not from a hypothetical girlfriend. You can mask your autism in public by dressing casually and trying to act normal but that only works when you're walking through a mall and people pass by but not when you have to communicate. So the irony of this is that you either way would need to fix your autism to a reasonable level.

 No.291332

>>291330
This. Maybe 0,1% of autists (who are already a small subset of the population) can mask well enough to pass for a normie by hiding their brain structure.

And I would bet even they can't do it 100% of time when not in public, it would absolutely leak into their private life sooner or later and the succubus would either tolerate it or leave which is a complete gamble.

 No.291333

>>291332
Agreed and as you wrote its really hard for autists to make up lies about their lives because as soon as someone gets a look behind their facade the illusion crumbles. Even if they manage to make up an act that gets a succubus interested, they can't also make up a friend circle or other things they lack in life and his social flaws would get obvious anyway. It's just so unrealistic and naive to think that hiding your autism from succubi is a possibility, there is so much not taken into account with this hypothetical.

 No.291335

>>291328
Too sad shit. Now succubi are told that it is okay to kill their babies, that it is okay to have sex with strangers, and to dress like whores, all because they grow up with weak and submissive parents lacking authority, that is at best, since Many times they do not know what the authority of a father is.

The decline of succubi is closely linked to the decline of society itself, since succubi in a certain way were the moral compass of society, now they are the complete opposite.

 No.291336

>>291333
Why can't an autistic person treat their autism? Are there no treatments or help to act like a normal person?

 No.291339

>>291336
LSD can alleviate symptoms at the cost of tripping

 No.291343

>>291336
Why do you humilliate us wanting to become normal? Are you so weak you did not even fight for your own mind outside there?

 No.291344

>>291139
Maybe you are one of those guys with Projector aura, who will never achieve things by going after them.
https://www.projectormovement.com/blog/human-design-projector-aura

 No.291347

>>291336
There is no "treatment" because it's not a disease.

It's the way your brain structure, synapses and neural pathways are built the moment you are conceived.
The reason is hereditary, i.e. your mother, father, grandmother or grandfather was autistic and passed it onto you.

Though back in the way it was easier for anyone, even weird men to reproduce as long as they had any job. Especially after WW2 when many countries had a major shortage of men.

 No.291348

>>291347
>Though back in the way it was easier for anyone, even weird men to reproduce as long as they had any job. Especially after WW2 when many countries had a major shortage of men.
That's why older generations have no idea about how things work now and theres a high chance that ones father is autistic or otherwise weird and many of our fathers wouldn't even be able to get a succubus or have a family now.

 No.291419

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>>291139
Stop giving a damn, that's a female issue. You failed normal…

 No.291459

>>291419
You shouldn't fall for memes, that's what failed normals do.

 No.291484

>>291419
You using that meme implies you're a normal, You're still normal

 No.291485

>>291419
Fuck, I'm an Apprentice

 No.291489

Why tf is this thread still up?

 No.291490

>>291489
Because its a good discussion and wizards provided insightful posts. This is a vivid thread and everyone is adding to the discussion except two fags who happen to be you and another guy.

 No.291491

we have to wait a few years and we will have our customizable waifus and finally experience what love is with a perfect creation and not those soulless parasites called womben. Death to all biological vagina havers should be a thing.

 No.291501

>>291491
man i need to hurry up and learn 3D modeling

 No.291503

>>291489
I think it's good we have this thread. We should stop pretending that we don't think about the opposite sex.

 No.291533

>>291501
what's stopping you

 No.291534

>Do you think there is really some fucking paranormal background to males not having the chance to get a girlfriend even though they do everything that seems to be accepted by Social standards and even break social standards just to get a girlfriend yet with no avail
God's intervention. God is trying his best to teach you wisdom but apparently it's useless.

 No.291535

>>291534
which God is this that tortures OP and autistic males to be outcasts and bullied by society? Sounds like you love worshipping demons.

 No.291536

>>291491
I remember some radfem on twitter saying that she wishes for AI girlfriends to be like actual succubi so they still despise crabs and autists which is rather funny because she's right in a way. If AI girlfriends would act like real succubi then the whole point of it would be defeated. AI is not really a subsitute for a girlfriend but a whole thing on its own because it can be prompted and shaped to the users liking so it simulated a completely unrealistic love scenario that only exists in movies.

 No.291537

>>291535
God is literally teaching us unconditional love which has gone missing because of our fallen state but not because of God. If people would listen to the word of God more then there would be less torment.

 No.291538

>>291536
The real world functions the way it does to propagate species (make them reproduce over and over and over).

succubi shun men of bad evolutionary fitness because they are animals just like any other female animal in nature, not because they're evil, awful or horrible.

The purpose of AI lovers is to remove that evolutionary drive in the background and make the female imagine the wizard in question is a hot 6'4 jock with ripped abs and perfect hair.

Were AI to completely simulate female brains the main customer base of these companies (men of bad evolutionary fitness who can't get succubi in the real world) would stop making payments.
So it makes zero sense for love AI's to completely evolve towards emulating the female brain, because the female human brain is very darwinistic and despises lower men.

 No.291540

>>291537
It is heartwarming to see an enlightened wiz in here.

 No.291542

>>291538
>The purpose of AI lovers is to remove that evolutionary drive in the background and make the female imagine the wizard in question is a hot 6'4 jock
The point is that the type of "love" men look for in a succubus doesn't exist, not even for chad as they are also just subject to superficial factors. AI doesn't make you experience things like chad, it makes it so it fits into your fantasy of what love should be.

 No.291543

>>291535
Maybe God wanted you to fight back and you dissapointed Him.

 No.291566

>>291542
This is true. Take away the face, height and body of the chad, and put his personality into a 5'2 quasimodo's body and suddenly the dozen succubi who chased him are repulsed.

There was never love, there was only superficial animalistic attraction that was being rationalized as 'love' by talking animals.

 No.291620

>>291566
And if you ripped the face off that perfect anime cutie and turned her into a goblin hambeast, you too would lose attraction and feel no love.

The difference is, as long as there's a base level of attraction, men will love unconditionally, succubi will not.

 No.291627

>>291566
Love probably only exists when men and succubi get in a relationship under a spiritual context. There needs to be a purpose added or it won't last. Without purpose its just a temporary attraction or a depenency.

 No.292020

I have never approached a single succubus in my life so I really don't know how I will do with females, probably bad. I am 30 years old by now.

 No.292045

>>291139
First, what is your motivation to get a succubus to like you?
>Is it to start a family?
Make sure to be responsible for it
>Only for sex
Not worth it, my imagination tells me you'll suffer from emotional consciousness during the long run
>To have someone to talk with
This is one difficult especially if your interest doesn't align with her, I did had a small talk with a succubus very long time ago. She's the one who started conversation but lost enthusiasm when I couldn't catch up after she brings up e-celebs and current events
>So I can feel a sense of unity on this world because if every guys in a room have a girlfriend then I must too

 No.292137

>>292045
From the last time I posted this post, I fucking gave up.



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