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 No.300616[View All]

Were any of you bullied at school? If If so,share your experiences. How do you cope all these years later?
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 No.311259

>>300996
>Like many troubled kids, Samuel, a 21-year-old media student from the Netherlands, is convinced he wouldn’t be here today had he continued down the path he was on as a teenager. “A few random miracles happened that led me to finding support,” he tells me. “That helped me steer clear of any radical actions I might’ve taken back then.”

>He’s not talking about drug or alcohol addiction, though. Nor is he referring to a behavioral disorder. Instead, he checked himself into rehab in 2016 for his mindset. “I was a crab — or at least I identified as one,” he explains.


That is an absolutely psychotic beginning to an article. I tried to read it but it was too cringe worthy to get through.

This bizarre demonization of the virgin into the catchall problem of society is insane.

 No.311260

>>311257
I believe him. Similar things happened to me.

 No.311268

>>311259
not even real. 15min of fame, the guy would have been total normal and the crab part is nonsense for an interview. it does make for a good story though and to create a narrative to further demonize the people holding the whole system up. they are actively destabilizing society and they know exactly how to do it, and what they're doing. articles like this are all part of it, and tend to have a cyan-blue hue influencing their overall tone.

 No.311394

>>300616
I was an ugly autistic kid with red hair and an annoying voice. Everyone hated me. I was never physically assaulted, but people would constantly talk shit about me.

 No.311646

>>311590
hahahaha oh wow

 No.311680

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https://www.theguardian.com/society/2024/mar/24/playground-bullies-do-prosper-and-go-on-to-earn-more-in-middle-age

Just thought I'd leave this here. Reality is a harsh mistress. Doubt anyone here is surprised though. Bullies either end up getting shot or they end up as your boss. More the latter than the former though.

 No.311681

>>311680
Fake article. You can easily check up on all your high school bullies and see they are low class wageslaves and popular succubi are fat living in trailers

 No.311682

>>311681
i checked and they're all finance bros making six figs and bitches in every photo. they look happy and society has given them everything they want.

 No.311683

>>311682
Everything besides a soul and morals I suppose.

 No.311684

>>311683
and that's worth fuck all since there is no god and nothing matters and everyone dies eventually, but the difference is they live a full life with everything it has to offer and you lived like a cockroach underneath their feet.

 No.311687

Only in elementary school.
It was a very meaningful period of about 3 years in elementary school; immediately after diagnosis with Type 1 diabetes, when I had to start taking injections every single day or die. At that point the female half of the class decided to label me as a diseased person and engaged in frequent physical violence against me on a daily basis for about 3 years.
The resolution came when boys started attempting likewise, around fourth grade. No longer constrained by the rules of teacher favoritism and clear yard supervisor favoritism, the bullying quickly became mutual violence and therefore resolved itself.

A particularly stupid person once thought he was clever in pointing out that the schoolgirls were schoolgirls and therefore should not be judged as adult succubi. This is idiotic since the leadership of adult female teachers, yard supervisors and parents were the entire reason the situation ever developed and ultimately I do blame the teachers who chose to pamper their little demons for the fact that I had to split Stephen's face against the blacktop three years down the line from that first kindergarten incident.

 No.311953

I wish bullying had made me drop out of school in 1st grade

 No.311954

I did get bullied and my dad always gave the worst advice when it came to standing up for myself which was always to ask them to stop or go to the teacher as if I would learn how to properly handle bullying that way lol.

I got bullied by people even in my adult years because I don't know how to stand up for myself without having a major sperg out. Sometimes I have memories of how I got treated like a faggot and it makes me angry but I try to work on myself. It doesn't really feel like I will ever recover from some things though.

 No.311955

>>311954
my dad told me to fight back, and i got them to a draw, and just got screamed at by the teacher, who even told me not to say hi to her next year. Or i can still remember the lunch monitor shouting FIGHTING???? and this was all at the tender age of 6. And it didn't win any peers respect.

so i'd rather just be a snitch than a man, there's no prize for that.

 No.311957

>>311680
https://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-3177486/Child-bullies-sexier-popular-dates-victims-grow-new-research-suggests.html
>Child bullies are sexier, more popular and have more dates than their victims when they grow up, new Canadian research suggests

>The two Canadian studies may go some way to explaining why celebrity bullies like Gordon Ramsay are a hit with succubi - even though they have explosive tempers.


>Simon Fraser University criminologist Jennifer Wong surveyed 135 teenagers from a high school in Vancouver with a questionnaire about bullying. The pupils were asked how often they were hit, kicked or shoved and from that they were divided into categories; bully, bystander, victim or victim-bully. The results showed that bullies, who accounted for around 11 per cent of the group, scored highest when it came to social status and self-esteem. They also came lowest when it came to depression.


https://www.time.com/96848/bullying-can-make-a-bully-healthier/
>Bullying is good for your health

>Copeland and his colleagues took advantage of a database involving 1420 children who were followed from the age of 9 to 21, and who were tested at nine different times during that period. They were asked about their bullying experiences, and researchers took their blood to measure things like C-reactive protein (CRP), a marker for inflammation that is an important for predictor of heart disease, among other ailments. Victims of bullying showed the greatest increases in their CRP levels, compared to where they started, which wasn’t surprising, since inflammation can spike due to stress, anxiety, and lack of sleep—all of which bullying victims experience. The more often victims were bullied, the more their CRP levels rose. But the real shocker came when the scientists analyzed the CRP levels of the bullies. Their inflammation rates were lower even than those children who had never reported being bullied or being a bully. Bullying seemed to protect the aggressors from inflammatory diseases. “We found that the enhanced social status that came along with being a bully did seem to advantage them over time,” says Copeland. “That finding more than anything else surprised us.”

 No.311959

>>311957
Most studies also show bullying is done because of insecurity, bad parenthood, and poor/low living standards.

 No.311960

i was bullied by my older brother but there was something like stockholm syndrome since he was also my friend and we played games together. was only in public or in front of ppl at school, i guess because i wasnt cool and he did not want to be associated with me. very lame regardless

 No.311968

>>311957
>Bullying is good for your health

Not related to that. But yeah I guess the bullies diagnosed aspergers in my life from the start, while the adults in my life just left me kept drifting on with benign neglect as "just shy". Bullies are the best doctors in that sense. If only teachers, parents, adults were as smart as 6 year old peers.

Now I can't function at all, because no adult identified early on that being weird is a serious mental disorder.

 No.311970

My family traumatized me worse than any playground teasing could do tbh.

 No.311971

>>311970
what did they do to you?

 No.312044

Some despicable normalniggers always asked me sexual questions and making fun of me for being a virgin and just throwing things at me or coming up to me and yelling really loud

 No.312061

>>311957
its an evolutionary strategy to get the pick of the litter while in peak fertility. Disruptive kids should be kicked out of schools altogether or segregated into shithead blocks.

 No.312063

>>312061
its an evolutionary strategy to drive out the runt of the litter, from being a drag on the pack. lion cubs try to chase their own misfit siblings way

 No.312064

>>312063
No, because in a school environment you have kids from different genetic backgrounds competing over a pool of succubi. The same basic logic holds, but I think it comes into its own because testosterone peaks. We should let parents intervene and beat the shit out of offenders.

 No.312065

>>312064
Yeah but if we're gonna evopsych everything, and say we still operate like savannah tribes, then in that context you would never be around children of a rival tribe. so your instinct to kick out the runts is still going to kick in.

 No.312066

>>312064
I'm not going to deny that what you refer to is one type of bullying. The alphas bully the betas to establish dominance and be attractive. Yeah that's real.

I'm talking about another type of bullying, where essentially the entire class bullies the omega. Alphas, betas, succubi all together. And that is more in the spirit of preserving the health of the tribe from the unfit.

 No.312073

Yes I was bullied through out most of school, it was mostly other boys but sometimes succubi. Most of the time it was because they had crushes on me and didn’t know how to express it and sometimes because they were jealous. Usually I’d help people cheat when it got bad enough to bother me so I’d have people to protect me.

I cope by recognizing they were the dysfunctional ones and I never would have willingly exposed myself to social situations without their bullying, so in the long term it’s helped me grow as a person. I don’t forgive them though and if the situation ever presented itself where I could hurt them I would take it.

 No.312074

>>312073
succubi bully you because they like you is just a misandrist myth to justify female on male domestic abuse

 No.312075

>>312074
It’s not as common as it’s made out to be, but it wasn’t just the succubi. One of my male bullies told me I was handsome when we were alone, it was very strange and I suspect he thought he could pressure me into being a faggot

 No.312076

>>312075
yeah jocks and frats do the prison rape thing in a nongay way to establish dominance, just a warm up for their hetero fucking of stacy

 No.312079

To be honest I have little to no sympathy for anyone whose experience of bullying began in or was confined to high school, rather than your formative years. Accounts of HS "bullying" often involve little more than infrequent standup fights. That's generally justifiable conflict with the sole exception of group stratifications centered on violence that began long before HS. HS bullying is also usually male-male conflict in which you have opportunities that you do not get in the normal flow of female-teacher-approved and often teacher-initiated bullying from elementary.

 No.312080

>>312079
You're dumb.

The bullying I received in high school was instigated and encouraged by my female teachers, to the point that they would single me out and force me to work alone during group assignments and force me in humiliation to present in front of the class alone.

 No.312084

>>312079
probably a crab competing with a jock over a succubus

 No.312085

>>312076
>nongay
kek

 No.312090

Yeah sometimes bullying does escalate all the way to rape. Its just taking the logic of bullying, reducing scrawny boys to the role of a bitch, to its final conclusion. These are the kinds of chads fucking cheerleaders though. They are just showing their male competition is so beat they can treat them like succubi too.

 No.312091

>>312090
>These are the kinds of chads fucking cheerleaders though
Yeah in the anus and giving them rimjobs too, fags in denial.

 No.312094

>>312080
I doubt that this pattern began in high school or that it ended with high school or that it reached an apex inside of high school. And if none of those things are the case there is no sense in identifying it with high school specifically.

 No.312095

>>312091
Yeah the most dominant men love anal sex, causing intense pain for her, while maximizing his own pleasure, summarizes what sex is for him. The fact that succubi hate to do it, and have to be pushed into it just makes alphas love it more.

 No.312105

I was always somewhat friendly in school and thought I had a lot of friends but looking back at it in retrospective I was bullied alot and kept around as the "weird" kid of any social group. Never any physical bullying but got made fun of alot of taken advantage. The only people who outright were jerks to be were the Asian kids especially the Japanese succubi which made me dispise them. Even in the weird kids group ever school has I was the odd one out. Never bothered me, and I'm pretty sure I'm the only virgin left from my class, so thats neat.

 No.312106

>>300616
Yes but not severely. Still destroyed me mentally, I guess I'm just weak.

 No.312107

>>311245
A few succubi gave me fake numbers in the past at school then would make fun of me for writing them down after they told me and spread rumors.

 No.312110

>>312107
tbh I think part of the reason I became volcel in Middle School was so I could enjoy the ego trip of all the stacies seeming to like me, without ever having to put it to the test, and feeling like I rejected them. And they like a boy they can aggressively flirt with without ever being asked to put out.

 No.312111

>>312110
I came to a similar conclusion by the time I got to high school but didn't go full vol until after I dropped out and went to technical school.been happier ever sence too.

 No.312171

>>312066
>I'm talking about another type of bullying, where essentially the entire class bullies the omega. Alphas, betas, succubi all together. And that is more in the spirit of preserving the health of the tribe from the unfit.

The target of this are usually spergs and autists who ruin the social dynamic within the group. I can't even blame others for that as they just don't want a sperg being a buzzkill in their group. This type of bulllying also can be avoided to an extent by staying away from social gatherings and groups if youre just unfit for it.

My parents sent me to basketball training when I was a child and I constantly got bullied by everyone because they wanted me tf out for being an autistic retard. I was literally a pussy bitch who cried during training because the coach tried to push us with drills and I just lacked any confidence to do sports or to socialize. I remember getting hit in the face with basketballs hard as fuck and taunted during warmup before a game started because they wanted me to stay on the bench. It's funny how my dad never noticed any of this shit even though he was witnessing it at times because hes really autistic himself.

I got bullied out of any other social setting in similiar ways, adult people do the same thing but often in more subtle ways. Its really all types of people as you stated, even the quiet succubi and betas not just the chads and popular succubi because no one wants a buzzkill in the group. My parents hardly ever told me to stop being a sperg retard and if other people did I always took it as a personal insult like a faggot even though they were right. I never had any people who were close to me and honest so developing self-awareness was quite hard.

 No.312500

>>300616
I once punched one amongst the group who was nagging me for a while. They didnt dare to continue after that.

The thing I regret from those years? Not having grown better muscles at home, not having punched more faces.

 No.314389

some bullyin is good other serves no purpose

 No.314415

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>>311259
>This bizarre demonization of the virgin into the catchall problem of society is insane.
Read the End of the Wizards thread. It's intentional.

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>>312110
>>312111
>comes to wizchan just to lie
Jesus Christ man.

>>311957
>The societal-level lie
It's one thing for a society to be dominated by the brutal, it's another thing completely for the brutal to pretend that they believe in some sort of civility and justice. For some reason that is beyond my comprehension many of these type people need to believe that they are good people.

 No.314439

>>300996
So he went from a depressed loner to a slightly less depressed loner? He never actually fixed his problems it seems.

Why the fuck are there never any stories where these types get a full recovery?

 No.314773

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>>311259
>This bizarre demonization of the virgin into the catchall problem of society is insane.
image related, first and second post moreso than the third


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