>>228489>>228485People don't understand that callousness, yelling and indifference to others are signals of status, because historically, displaying that behavior got your head kicked in if you were low on the pecking order. Most normal people still have instincts that keep that behavior in check because we're wired for a different society, but the punishment is gone. Some unemployed druggie sadist can go fuck with a wagie for sport, mistreating him, and the wagie can't do anything back without risking his job. Despite on paper the wagie being above the delinquent, succubi respond to the person doing the berating.
Being too friendly and too agreeable is also a signal of low status, because that behavior is typically only done by neurotypicals if they're at risk of expulsion. Even in real life, when I see someone non-autistic who is TOO nice, he almost always is either planning a backstab, is in a precarious position with employment or has some filthy secret he's kept hidden, typically a sex crime.
The egalitarian play-nice leveling that society has attempted has just exacerbated the situation and made it worse, and lead to the blackpill. Obviously succubi don't find agreeable and over-socialized men attractive, and while socialization to society's values was once a good trait that lead to positive results, now it leads to deleterious results. The end result is that people turn to cynical and cold explanations (the blackpill), and shred their pro-social outlook.
Society was a lot worse and a lot more brutal not too far into the past, and it was typically pro-social people that survived. I feel like blackpillers and crabs can't really look past the specifics of the modern era. Part of the reason white and east asian societies are so relatively safe and corruption free is because the anti-social elements repetitively got pruned.